One relay switches the fuel pump, tother the injectors.
I meant swap them with those on tother car, as if either one is faulty, then you'll get the same results... no fuel in the cylinders. I have seen both fail on a handful of cars, and that it's even possible is enough to rule it out.
If you turn the ignition to 2 for a minute, then off and crack the larger fitting on the fuel rail that will confirm whether the pump relay is working. If you then swap them with each other and the result changes then you'll have identified the faulty one.
I appreciate the reluctance to take them from the other car, but it's a free test. And if no change then you might be looking at the pump if you've no pressure at the fuel rail.
A sharp tap of the relays whilst cranking might be enough, likewise slap the bottom of the tank whilst cranking should be enough to get the pump going if the relays check out.
Be advised that the relays are tight, and the one with the larger red and red/blue wires is the injector relay
They live in the box with the ecu and are the same.