The genie was never in the bottle...
In the US, they've had enough of being lectured at by leftist Governers who are categorically not following their own instructions.
Gavin Newsom, to name but one...
https://youtu.be/Ox-X2Mfy5aYHe could almost be in a Little Britain sketch...
https://youtu.be/KKir3tFsTAMAnd as for Cuomo kicking off because the police have said they won't be enforcing his rule of ten. They've enough to be doing without going door to door to see if all eleven people living in the same house are all wearing masks at dinner.
Here, there aren't enough police to do the everyday stuff, let alone trying to police religious holidays.
For the most part everyone (round here at least) wears a mask in shops etc and keeps a bit of space around them. It's not particularly complicated.