Right! Changed both coil packs out today, and the plugs (had evidence of the water from skuttle ingress I've heard of) but there was no change.
Pedal test was only telling 1/3 of the problem.
Turns out, boot it to 4k once you loose cyl 4 & 6, repeat the "test" without clearing and you loose cyl5. even with new packs.
Changed out crank and cam for known good, no change at all either.
So tapped into ecu for traction control and get a couple unknown errors (one I looked up as torque control error undefined..) Cleared them, and they didn't come back although the problem persisted.
Basically it's coming down to traction control or abs or something. It is machine limited, it's precise and still clearable via ign. off and on again. Feels just like a non-fly by wire sl;apping your hands for using too much throttle and loosing traction. Except once it has, it forgets to let go!
Only thing that has me doubting this theory is that I'd have thought the FBW V6's would have used throttle not killing injectors off (which this problem is!)
Realising that the "2stages to this problem" for feel alone is corroberated against this as first bank goes then the second bank and only ever these cyls. It is so strange, but that legacy code of torque control is lingering in my mind!
Any thoughts?!
*Edit!* Changed the heater valve at the back of the top of the lump too as the diaphragm had perished and it was where I was loosing my coolant from!