Gentlemen, I have a theory. Please read, contemplate, and comment. If nonsense, tell me.
The story so far.
All went well up to the point when I began to pull jack and gearbox away from engine. It came an inch, then stopped. I hit it with mallets, tyre levers, ropes and wives, but it was stuck. Andy H mentioned that there was a plate above the gearbox that he removed some years ago doing a similar job. I checked, he was right. I disconnected the plate, but the gearbox was still stuck.
I reckon in all that heaving about I have jammed the g/b input shaft splines in the friction plate splines and tensioned the pressure plate springs. That tension keeps the whole thing locked up.
If I am right, the cure is to put the gearbox back in its place, relaxing the pressure plate springs. Then I can remove the box in the usual way. As Andy H said.