Mates,
I must talk about my issue with my wife's parents, I 'm feeling if I don't speak about this it'll make me ill soon...okay : me and my family are living in the same home with my wife's parents who are really hard cases both. Mother-in-law is continously whispering to wifey's ear to push her to get me spend a lot of money for the house. I'm not too enthusiastic with it as the life with them closely makes me crazy. My father-in-law is hard alcolohist who not only love to be drunk but he goes animal at time of drinking and talks and behaves brutally vulgary way.
We have a 2yrs old girlie
who can memorize these ugly words at once and not shy to use them occasionally of course mostly at the worst time/place...
Mother-in-law's best gun is her alleged "illness",
which is used any time she thinks it's actual. Blood pressure, blood sugar level and so on she's able to apply anythink for reaching the goal of her own. Nowadays her throat is the source of trouble (32
oC outside), which hurts so much that she can not wake up all the day. No bothered sometimes to immitate various mysterious disease in case of she needs any of advantage in any of situation...
My wifey, poor, believes everythink her mother does or says but not me. I have a second skill and had been working as health masseur for 10yrs so I can take at first look if somebody feel bad or not and nobody shall want to explain me that m-i-l feels bad BUT moves quite fast, she has good appetite, her voice is strong and the colour of her face is absolutely normal. So to help them to make their dreams come true would be really correct stuff but I feel simply that I don't get anything for that and won't give them more money than I've done till now... We managed to collect some money for a house we could sell it soon but not if we spend any money for a house where we can't live our own life. I don't "make up" I also like beer as well as the most average man although I drink strictly responsibly and never became animal, and rarely I also feel bad though never would apply my statement for pushing somebody to do something that they don't want really...My father-in-law already drank off his mind, my mother-in-law is continously forcing my wife to stay at home together with "mom who needs just some careing"...Wifey is hesitating as she can't decide whether who right her mother or me. That's briefly what I wanted...Phew...thanks for listening guys, if you have any advice,comment or opinion, please don't get them back! Laszlo