What exactly do these relays do?
I guess there are two functions and some do one or other, a few do both.
1) There is a legal requirement to have an indication to the driver when the trailer indicators are working. There is a bulb in the dash to indicate this but neither the bulb nor the flasher unit with the extra current sensor is fitted without a factory towbar. Most aftermarket towbar fitting places don't bother with this, and take their feeds from the rear light cluster wiring. Some will wire a warning lamp on the dash, but since this requires running an additional cable to the front of the car, most don't bother so they fit a current sensing device in the boot with an audible warning to indicate when the trailer lights are working. So these devices merely sense current flowing to one or other of the trailer indicators and make an annoying beeping noise to alert the driver.
2) Where bulb failure sensors are fitted, the extra load from the trailer lights will at best cause this not to function when towing. At worst, they may overload the circuits supplying the light clusters. If you want to pick up the feeds from the light clusters you need to put a relay in to switch the trailer lights and this removes the extra load from the bulb failure sensor in the car, since these circuits are now only switching the relay, not feeding the trailer bulbs themselves.
The omega has a connector pre-wired for towbar electrics and can accommodate an extra bulb failure sensor for the brake lights, which displays a warning on the MID but again this is not fitted unless a factory towbar is fitted.
Thanks, michael_de for the offer. I've already got an audible warning in the back, though, and for the occasional towing I do, it's probably not worth disturbing the dash to get the light working. If I ever have to remove the dash for another reason I'll probably have a go..
Cheers,
Kevin