Ok So why would rocker gasket have anything to do with coolant :question oil yes coolant no.
So you thought that the hbv needed changing :question, but that has not sorted the problem.
You have not yet isolated the problem, by doing any of the above so back to the drawing board
Just noticed an answer to a new thread by loo knee, about the pipe from the top of the hbv going through the bulk head apprantly there is a joint there that can give problems. Which would also account for the stench in the car, worth a check. Dont forget with the temp of the coolant you would not neccessarily be looking for a huge leak more a slight weep.
given that you have observed steam from under the bonnet then start there. check every pipe carefully for any cracking, check all clips are in place and tight, doing this with the engine cold to start with.
Having satisfied yourself that all seems ok, get the coolent to normal temp. now repeat the process of checking, dont be afraid of moving the pipes around, there may be a split there that you cannot see or feel. i'll gaurantee you one thing it is there somewhere, with patience you will find it and curse it, but you will never be caught by it again.
In future dont jump in with both feet, you can normally check these things out without changing everything in site first. just ask and keep asking the answer will come