Please do not go investing time and money in swapping things blind. That's an expensive way to not solve the problem (if indeed there is a problem).
In my experience , when cam cover seals have gone and been replaced, it takes quite a while for all the old oil that has already leaked to find its way onto the exhaust and burn off. So intermittently you'll get oil smoke /smell. (likely for a couple of weeks or more - don't worry about it.) - that sounds like what you are seeing.
As I understand it, you are not losing coolant, but there is brown gunge in the tank - possibly due to coolant flush you've added (have you?). If so you will need to repeatedly flush properly (NOT just running a hose through the system - there will be gunge in places that that method doesn't clear out) until the water is clear. While you are doing this over several days check that the level isn't falling.
Finally when you are sure the level is not dropping and the water remains clear, then add your antifreeze (sorry I know this duplicates previous posts..).
I think you have convinced yourself there is a problem but I'm really not sure there is, so let's not go spending cash until we have determined that.
BTW - HBV's in my experience leak out of the small hole - I've never seen one visibly split.