Yes, it makes sense. I've had to educate my family with regards to my advancing years and learn to say no. They get used to it, eventually.
Ive started down that road myself. It aint easy, but has to be done. Cant be the family brick forever and ever.indeed ,i'm too accommodating and take too much on and need to say no

saving friends and family time and money is costing me time and money

I've made a start though

I think a lot of kids assume that Mum and Dad are a permanent fixture and always there, then all of a sudden, they aren't. SWMBO had a minor stroke just over a week ago and that made them sit up. Luckily she got away quite lightly but has weakness on her left side which seems to be slowly improving. Early days though.Hope things improve and it's a speedy recovery

it's only a month till Christmas
Who's going to cook the turkey 
Welcome back Dave, hope things go well for you.


