Ive met / known lots of people in life. Mainly obviously hetrosexual people, a few obviously gay people, some I have no idea, nor do I care.
I suspect most gay people just are what they are. Dont wear it like a badge and look for an excuse to take offence at everything everyone else says or does.
On the other hand we have a very small, but very noisy minority who fall into the latter category, supported by useful idiots who jump to their defence at every opportunity, when no defence is needed, because no offence has been intended.
We are living in the tyranny of woke at the moment, courtesy of the small noisy minority ands the idiots who join in, believing they are doing some good.
It wont last. If it did, civilisation which has evolved over millennia would crumble and fall.
The reaction against it has started and will gather momentum. Unfortunately, as is often the way, the result may be that the pendulum swings back too far in the opposite direction.
The noisy minority and their useful idiots will only have themselves to blame though.