I had a 97 (pre-minifacelift) Reflection, it had the following:
NO alloy wheels - they were not standard on 97 Reflection, though as far as I know 98 (minifacelfit) Reflections DID have alloys.
Only the front windows were electrical, rear ones were manual.
It had a fold-flat passenger seat (which was otherwise only standard on CDX but not GLS/CD).
It had a sunroof (again, otherwise only standard on CDX but not GLS/CD).
It had standard A/C like CD, but not CDX/Elite-style 'digital' Climate.
It had adjustable steering wheel, and twin airbags (minifacelift had 4 airbags).
It had foglamps.
It did NOT have high braking light (these came in as standard with the minifacelift).
It had full MID e.g. CD/CDX style, not the basic TID as in GLS.
Suspension was standard, not lowered as in MV6.
That's from memory...
Thats odd - My 1997 Reflection has alloys - are you sure your car's previous owner didn't just nick them?? Mine has an Irmscher spoiler with a brake light too. I thought they were standard fitment, but I've seen others without the brake light here and there. Perhaps they just chucked on pretty bits at the factory whenever they could be bothered!
As an aside, I really don't feel the need to spec my car up too much these days - its just more stuff waiting to go wrong. It'll have to be a "classic" spec E-class merc next time!