I disagree. You asked a question - therefore by nature of this, you should expect replies.
If I ask a question, the only thing I would expect is the answer to the question.
If by the same token I asked the question, then added that I'd also like to hear people's opinions on what they thought of me, then I'd state just that.
Or are my meds causing me to take life far too literally?
I definately see where you're coming from - but equally, I think by starting a topic - especially a subject such as this, on a public forum, it will by very nature, attract people to post their opinions.
Sometimes that may not be what people want to hear - but - as long as people are not threatening and offensive, I'd say they are entitled to speak their mind.
When I read the first post, I actually gave the chap the benefit of the doubt, EG they may not have realised it was a clear cut theft - and my reply was going to be along the lines of suggesting return of the item and learning from the mistake.
Upon reconsideration, I became mindful that the original poster had waited some time to see if anyone collected the item, before taking it, and it looked quite pre-meditated in my mind, at that point.
When the original poster then put another message on the board stating they'd kept £200 which belonged to someone else, at a cashpoint, I formed the opinion, bluntly, that they had comitted criminal activity, on both occasions.
Because the discussion was already all online - I felt entitled to add
my personal opinion to the discussion. I have to be honest - my opinion is still the same, and I make no apologies for expressing it
Threads go off on a tangent, that is a result of discussion, mixed knowledge and such - it's how a forum works... in my mind at least