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Chat Area => General Discussion Area => Topic started by: Marie on 26 March 2008, 12:53:27
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ok so i have serval things going on at the mo:
1. Hubby is away so i am home alone with the son in the week and jase is back on the weekend. this is not so bad when the child goes to bed on time! but no when jase is away shane does nothin but play up.
2. With shane playing up i am unable to study properly for my exams. ok i have one tomorrow and i am praying that he gives a clue today what to expect in the exam.
3. In may i might loose loose my job and be booted out the royal navy cos they damaged my hearing and now i have tinnitus which plays up in the cold and wind. i can do my job buty its whether they want to keep me.
4. The car keeps playin up and i am threaders with it. and its costing me a fortune. i know i spent money for a lpg conversion but its going to save me money next year after i have recoupped the cost of it.
5. I am so tired its untrue i have shopping bags under my eyes. i hardly have any time to chill out its untrue. its also making me short tempered and patentless which i feel really bad when i snap at my son.
i am finding things so hard at the mo. i know i am run down cos i am letting the small things get to me.
I AM STRESSED :'( :'( :'(
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Feel loads better for spillin my guts out to you guys and gals :)
Thankyou.
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treat youself to a glass of plonk, you're not driving anywhere. pointless revising until lit'lun goes to bed...
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treat youself to a glass of plonk, you're not driving anywhere. pointless revising until lit'lun goes to bed...
it was 2230 last night before he attually stopped going up and down the stairs. :'( :'(
i have no wine might have to go straight on the hard stuff! ;D
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Good luck for your exam :y,as for your Omega i'm pretty sure she'll be back to her best soon,is there any members nearby who'd be willing to paperclip it
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chill baby !!!! parts in post today !!! run the little one ragged then he will sleep !!! or pop some of the hard stuff in his bedtime drink ! ;D ;D
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Good luck for your exam :y,as for your Omega i'm pretty sure she'll be back to her best soon,is there any members nearby who'd be willing to paperclip it
i wonder is there??????
would someone help me out please
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ok so i have serval things going on at the mo:
1. Hubby is away so i am home alone with the son in the week and jase is back on the weekend. this is not so bad when the child goes to bed on time! but no when jase is away shane does nothin but play up.
2. With shane playing up i am unable to study properly for my exams. ok i have one tomorrow and i am praying that he gives a clue today what to expect in the exam.
3. In may i might loose loose my job and be booted out the royal navy cos they damaged my hearing and now i have tinnitus which plays up in the cold and wind. i can do my job buty its whether they want to keep me.
4. The car keeps playin up and i am threaders with it. and its costing me a fortune. i know i spent money for a lpg conversion but its going to save me money next year after i have recoupped the cost of it.
5. I am so tired its untrue i have shopping bags under my eyes. i hardly have any time to chill out its untrue. its also making me short tempered and patentless which i feel really bad when i snap at my son.
i am finding things so hard at the mo. i know i am run down cos i am letting the small things get to me.
I AM STRESSED :'( :'( :'(
but
Feel loads better for spillin my guts out to you guys and gals :)
Thankyou.
Do they not have an equivalent to the Army's 'Fit For Role' when basically a doctor recognises you have a medical problem, whether it was the MOD's fault or not, but you can do the job you're doing without it getting worse. What with the tri-service harmenisation going on I am sure they must have something. Do you have Navy lawyers you can speak to?
At the very worst they kick you out with a load of cash, you buy a better Omega, take a holiday and go work for a garage or engineering company :y
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ook i am rock bottom now........
hubby has just has a go at me. about the car
he has only ever made me cry twice and now is one of them
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ook i am rock bottom now........
hubby has just has a go at me. about the car
he has only ever made me cry twice and now is one of them
Why whats he saying about the car then???
Will he not do a paperclip test for you as its not that hard?????
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ook i am rock bottom now........
hubby has just has a go at me. about the car
he has only ever made me cry twice and now is one of them
Why whats he saying about the car then???
Will he not do a paperclip test for you as its not that hard?????
That just it he doesnt have a clue when it comes to cars.
He can smell burnin oil.......i beleive its the cam covers which i plan to do.
The gearbox breather has fallen down today.
The eml is still on.....which i told him it would be.
he told me hes had enough with the car.
dazzler i have PM'd you.
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Here's a big hug from all of us...
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Marie -- I know what it''s like when the littl'un plays up -- but it WILL pass. Take every chance you can to rest up when he slows down!!!!
As for the job .... the Navy has invested heavily in you and your training to date -- they will not throw that away lightly.
As for the car ... hmmm .. just looking bad cos you are low.
And you can always vent your spleen here .... and resist the temptation to tell hubby what to do with the paperclip !!!!! ::)
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Marie -- I know what it''s like when the littl'un plays up -- but it WILL pass. Take every chance you can to rest up when he slows down!!!!
hes gone to bed hes watchin a dvd so here is hoping he dont come back down stairs
As for the job .... the Navy has invested heavily in you and your training to date -- they will not throw that away lightly.
Yep your right they are so short at the moment of people of my trade every one is leaving.
As for the car ... hmmm .. just looking bad cos you are low.
yep your right here too. its fix able i hope
And you can always vent your spleen here .... and resist the temptation to tell hubby what to do with the paperclip !!!!! ::)
As for the hubby well if he thinks he can get the car home then ok fine. but i have told him not to mank and moan at me if it dont and if he has to get towed back then tuff.
Sick of it Its not my rather fault the motor is playin up. if he was here ohhhhhhhh >:( >:( >:( (not going to say it.)
oh and smile while you can i dont normally admit that your right! and im wrong;D ;D ;D ;D
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Well, the car can be sorted so try not to worry about it.
If the breather has fallen down that might just explain the fluid leakage. A certain amount of fluid will be thrown up the breather when running and if it doesn't end high enough it will escape. :-/ Even if the box has to come off, we can sort it, and the cam covers too if necessary. It might put the LPG plans on the back burner for a while but it will get sorted.
I know how frustrating it is when you spend a lot of time on a job and it goes pear shaped due to a small detail. It's even worse when your other half appears to run out of support for your efforts but you come out of it wiser in the end and better perpared to tackle the next project.
Ickle people aren't really my forte, however. :-/
Kevin
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Well, the car can be sorted so try not to worry about it.
If the breather has fallen down that might just explain the fluid leakage. A certain amount of fluid will be thrown up the breather when running and if it doesn't end high enough it will escape. :-/ Even if the box has to come off, we can sort it, and the cam covers too if necessary. It might put the LPG plans on the back burner for a while but it will get sorted.
I know how frustrating it is when you spend a lot of time on a job and it goes pear shaped due to a small detail. It's even worse when your other half appears to run out of support for your efforts but you come out of it wiser in the end and better perpared to tackle the next project.
Ickle people aren't really my forte, however. :-/
Kevin
anrt mine ether when hes playin up............i have not heard a peep outa him in an hour
might have to go check hes still alive.
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Well, the car can be sorted so try not to worry about it.
If the breather has fallen down that might just explain the fluid leakage. A certain amount of fluid will be thrown up the breather when running and if it doesn't end high enough it will escape. :-/ Even if the box has to come off, we can sort it, and the cam covers too if necessary. It might put the LPG plans on the back burner for a while but it will get sorted.
I know how frustrating it is when you spend a lot of time on a job and it goes pear shaped due to a small detail. It's even worse when your other half appears to run out of support for your efforts but you come out of it wiser in the end and better perpared to tackle the next project.
Ickle people aren't really my forte, however. :-/
Kevin
anrt mine ether when hes playin up............i have not heard a peep outa him in an hour
might have to go check hes still alive.
You haven't.....have you ::) ;D
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You haven't.....have you ::) ;D
i have checked on him......snorin like his old man. he didnt even finish his dvd.
its so quite now. just got to cram for my exam tomorrow now. :( :( :(
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You haven't.....have you ::) ;D
i have checked on him......snorin like his old man. he didnt even finish his dvd.
its so quite now. just got to cram for my exam tomorrow now. :( :( :(
You won't do that if you keep talking to us lot ::) Chin up though, there is always another day and things will get better..................but in my experiance they nearly always get a bloody site worse before they get better, but they do, believe me :y
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You won't do that if you keep talking to us lot ::) Chin up though, there is always another day and things will get better..................but in my experiance they nearly always get a bloody site worse before they get better, but they do, believe me :y
Oh cheers so what you sayin things have got to get worse before they get better! ;) things cant get any worse ;) ;) ;D
sorry cant ehlp talkin to you guys. ::)
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You won't do that if you keep talking to us lot ::) Chin up though, there is always another day and things will get better..................but in my experiance they nearly always get a bloody site worse before they get better, but they do, believe me :y
Oh cheers so what you sayin things have got to get worse before they get better! ;) things cant get any worse ;) ;) ;D
sorry cant ehlp talkin to you guys. ::)
Your suppossed to be studying ::) :D
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you guys are worse then my mother and hubby! ;D ;D ;D
i am multi taskin..........
opps sorry you guys cant multi task ::) ;);D ;D ;D ;D
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Everyone feels that way sometimes. It's normal.
Tiredness (son up late) will contribute.
Hubby away and having to deal with everything will contribute.
Uncertainty on exams and job will contribute.
It's hardly surprising really, you're just reacting like most people would and, whilst it may not feel much like it right now, you will feel better once the exam is over and the hubby (and car) are safely back :y
In the meantime either study, or if you really can't and it will add to the stress, relax and make sure you get a good night's sleep. That may well prove more valuable than cramming and not getting enough sleep.
Sleep tight! ;)
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Everyone feels that way sometimes. It's normal.
Tiredness (son up late) will contribute.
Hubby away and having to deal with everything will contribute.
Uncertainty on exams and job will contribute.
It's hardly surprising really, you're just reacting like most people would and, whilst it may not feel much like it right now, you will feel better once the exam is over and the hubby (and car) are safely back :y
In the meantime either study, or if you really can't and it will add to the stress, relax and make sure you get a good night's sleep. That may well prove more valuable than cramming and not getting enough sleep.
Sleep tight! ;)
Are you tellin me to go to bed????? :-/ :-/
not just yet ;D ;D
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you guys are worse then my mother and hubby! ;D ;D ;D
i am multi taskin..........
opps sorry you guys cant multi task ::) ;);D ;D ;D ;D
Now now, right at this moment i am on the phone, typing and drinking a coffee,....................how's that then ;D ::)
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Everyone feels that way sometimes. It's normal.
Tiredness (son up late) will contribute.
Hubby away and having to deal with everything will contribute.
Uncertainty on exams and job will contribute.
It's hardly surprising really, you're just reacting like most people would and, whilst it may not feel much like it right now, you will feel better once the exam is over and the hubby (and car) are safely back :y
In the meantime either study, or if you really can't and it will add to the stress, relax and make sure you get a good night's sleep. That may well prove more valuable than cramming and not getting enough sleep.
Sleep tight! ;)
Are you tellin me to go to bed????? :-/ :-/
not just yet ;D ;D
Nope, just when you do make sure you're relaxed and your head isn't spinning with exam stuff and stress.
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you guys are worse then my mother and hubby! ;D ;D ;D
i am multi taskin..........
opps sorry you guys cant multi task ::) ;);D ;D ;D ;D
Now now, right at this moment i am on the phone, typing and drinking a coffee,....................how's that then ;D ::)
bet you pause to think about one of the 3 task you are doing.
oh and how the hell are you drinkin and typin at the same time. are yu drinkin through a straw????? ;D ;D ;D ;D or you single finger typing. ;D ;D
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you guys are worse then my mother and hubby! ;D ;D ;D
i am multi taskin..........
opps sorry you guys cant multi task ::) ;);D ;D ;D ;D
Now now, right at this moment i am on the phone, typing and drinking a coffee,....................how's that then ;D ::)
bet you pause to think about one of the 3 task you are doing.
oh and how the hell are you drinkin and typin at the same time. are yu drinkin through a straw????? ;D ;D ;D ;D or you single finger typing. ;D ;D
Don't all men ????????? ;D ;D ;D
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you guys are worse then my mother and hubby! ;D ;D ;D
i am multi taskin..........
opps sorry you guys cant multi task ::) ;);D ;D ;D ;D
Now now, right at this moment i am on the phone, typing and drinking a coffee,....................how's that then ;D ::)
bet you pause to think about one of the 3 task you are doing.
oh and how the hell are you drinkin and typin at the same time. are yu drinkin through a straw????? ;D ;D ;D ;D or you single finger typing. ;D ;D
Don't all men ????????? ;D ;D ;D
Dunno start a pol to see..... ;D ;D ;D. i type type. not that many words a minute. you want to see my mother inlaw god she is fast and she doesnt even look at the screen and its 100% right
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you guys are worse then my mother and hubby! ;D ;D ;D
i am multi taskin..........
opps sorry you guys cant multi task ::) ;);D ;D ;D ;D
Now now, right at this moment i am on the phone, typing and drinking a coffee,....................how's that then ;D ::)
bet you pause to think about one of the 3 task you are doing.
oh and how the hell are you drinkin and typin at the same time. are yu drinkin through a straw????? ;D ;D ;D ;D or you single finger typing. ;D ;D
Don't all men ????????? ;D ;D ;D
Dunno start a pol to see..... ;D ;D ;D. i type type. not that many words a minute. you want to see my mother inlaw god she is fast and she doesnt even look at the screen and its 100% right[/quote]
Yep i know that, my ex wife was a short hand typist, she read gobbledy gook and turned it into minuites without looking at the screen, i think it is quite amazing :-?
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you guys are worse then my mother and hubby! ;D ;D ;D
i am multi taskin..........
opps sorry you guys cant multi task ::) ;);D ;D ;D ;D
It's not that we can't multi task, it is just that we like to do one job at a time and do it properly. ;D ;D ;D
Said that to my boss the other day, shut her up, for about 30 seconds.
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you guys are worse then my mother and hubby! ;D ;D ;D
i am multi taskin..........
opps sorry you guys cant multi task ::) ;);D ;D ;D ;D
It's not that we can't multi task, it is just that we like to do one job at a time and do it properly. ;D ;D ;D
Said that to my boss the other day, shut her up, for about 30 seconds.
That long :o You must have really stunned her ;D
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you guys are worse then my mother and hubby! ;D ;D ;D
i am multi taskin..........
opps sorry you guys cant multi task ::) ;);D ;D ;D ;D
It's not that we can't multi task, it is just that we like to do one job at a time and do it properly. ;D ;D ;D
Said that to my boss the other day, shut her up, for about 30 seconds.
That long :o You must have really stunned her ;D
You've met her then. ;D ;D ;D
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you guys are worse then my mother and hubby! ;D ;D ;D
i am multi taskin..........
opps sorry you guys cant multi task ::) ;);D ;D ;D ;D
It's not that we can't multi task, it is just that we like to do one job at a time and do it properly. ;D ;D ;D
Said that to my boss the other day, shut her up, for about 30 seconds.
That long :o You must have really stunned her ;D
You've met her then. ;D ;D ;D
You did say she was a woman.................nuff said ;D ;D
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don't forget, as well as the typing and coffee drinking, there is remembering to breathe too !! VERY important !
Glad the littl'un has settled for a while -- hope the exams go well. and TBH what you don't know now is too late to stree over -- so TRY to get some relaxation time in -- rest the noddle for a while>
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how woman fool mens
lol
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well today i feel loads better,
Th iclke one woke me today at 6am askin for a cupa tea. bless. has been great this mornin. :y
I am not tired....slept great. :y
i think i might have wayed of the stuff i need for my exam today. :y
And the car well break it it can wait for tomorrow! no point worrying about it today :y
And as for lossing my job well there is nothin i can do about it right now so sod it. worry about it another day! :y
thanks again fellas. :-*
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That's good to hear. Hope the exam goes well. :y
Kevin
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That's good to hear. Hope the exam goes well. :y
Kevin
I do to. im sure i will be fine. just got to clear my head and think hard about the answer and make sure i RTFQ (read the rather question.) ;D ;D ;D
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I'm sure the exam will go ok ... you've done the work so why shouldn't it ??? - stop worrying .. :)
I'm sure the navy won't throw you out ... they've sent you on a course.. they wouldn't do that just to throw you out .... stop worrying ... :)
The miggy has a few minor hiccups that you have already proved you are well capable of sorting with time and a little help ... stop worrying ... :)
"Little One" is just doing what all ankle snappers do... playing Mum up while Dad's away ... ( just think what Dad goes through when you are away )...... as proved last night .. they all sleep eventually, just a matter of tiring them out sufficiently ... I used to take mine to the play park for an hour 1800-1900, wear em out and then they would sleep ... so ... stop worrying .... :)
Detect a common thread here ?? .. :)
Take care and good luck with the exam .. not that you need it .. :) :y :y
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how did the exam go Marie?
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Thankyou for askin
Good i think.
Almost ran out of time and i couldnt remember how meny gigga was ie is it x10 to the power of 8 or x 10 to the power of 9.
But i recon i have passed next exam is on thursday or maybe friday next week.
The exam i did last week..... i got my results back 80.8% so only 30.8% wasted effort.
finished now for the weekend. yippy. :)
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Wow. Busy times. I remember being a single Dad, trying to deal with babysitters, school, no money, work & then girlfriend wanting more of my limited time, could'nt wait for him to grow up, things will be so much easier.Well he's 22 now.I did my maximum legal 15hrs yesterday & had to stay out. Gotta start @ 4am tomorrow & no.1 son won't speak to me or his Mother since Xmas @cos he had i row with her saying we had him on a whim. (He was planned & wanted)
When DO things get easier????
Guy.
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Wow. Busy times. I remember being a single Dad, trying to deal with babysitters, school, no money, work & then girlfriend wanting more of my limited time, could'nt wait for him to grow up, things will be so much easier.Well he's 22 now.I did my maximum legal 15hrs yesterday & had to stay out. Gotta start @ 4am tomorrow & no.1 son won't speak to me or his Mother since Xmas @cos he had i row with her saying we had him on a whim. (He was planned & wanted)
When DO things get easier????
Guy.
Who told you they get easier?? ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Wow. Busy times. I remember being a single Dad, trying to deal with babysitters, school, no money, work & then girlfriend wanting more of my limited time, could'nt wait for him to grow up, things will be so much easier.Well he's 22 now.I did my maximum legal 15hrs yesterday & had to stay out. Gotta start @ 4am tomorrow & no.1 son won't speak to me or his Mother since Xmas @cos he had i row with her saying we had him on a whim. (He was planned & wanted)
When DO things get easier????
Guy.
i wouldnt worry he will come round and at 22 it shouldnt take that long.
My ickle one wasnt planned. i fell preggers on my wedding night :)
i remember the day i found out that my dad wasnt my dad. i was pi**ed. i found out when i got my dog tags and looked at my blood group.
Gutted :'( :'( i felt sick to the core. but blood farther or not hes still my dad he brought me up to be who i am today an i wont be able to thank him enough. i havent told him i know cos i dont even think he knows. my mother knows i have figured it out, you should have seen her face when i started askin questions.
(oh by the way my mother O neg and my farther O pos (or is it the other way round) i am A pos. ) :o
2 O's dont make an A
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Glad your exam went well,did hubby get back ok in the Omega
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I'm 44, he's 22 & i've just learned never to presume!!!!!!!!!!! ::)
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Glad your exam went well,did hubby get back ok in the Omega
Hes not back until tomorrow. got my fingers crossed :)
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Thankyou for askin
Good i think.
Almost ran out of time and i couldnt remember how meny gigga was ie is it x10 to the power of 8 or x 10 to the power of 9.
But i recon i have passed next exam is on thursday or maybe friday next week.
The exam i did last week..... i got my results back 80.8% so only 30.8% wasted effort.
finished now for the weekend. yippy. :)
Well done on the exams.... All that worry, you must have faith in yourself!
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i keep getting told i dont give myself enough credit! ;D ;D ;D
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Well done Marie, fingers crossed for tonight when you know who returns ;)
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Well done Marie, fingers crossed for tonight when you know who returns ;)
i have everything crossed. ;D ;D ;D
Just hoping that the rain stops for me too or i am going to get wet :'( :'(
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MMM .. Hubbies been away all week and you want to work on the car ???
Priorities my dear .....priorities... :) ;D ;D ;D
(work on the car tomorrow :y :y :y :y )
[very nearly highlighted part of your quote ... but chickened out ..... ;D ;D ;D ]
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MMM .. Hubbies been away all week and you want to work on the car ???
Priorities my dear .....priorities... :) ;D ;D ;D
(work on the car tomorrow :y :y :y :y )
[very nearly highlighted part of your quote ... but chickened out ..... ;D ;D ;D ]
see i wont get anything off him until the car is fixed. :'( :'(
All i plan on doing is reading the codes. Just incase i need any parts atleast i can get them then hopefully buy sat. hubby needs the car again on sunday. he will be really breaked off if i say he cant and has to use the train.
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All i plan on doing is reading the codes. Just incase i need any parts atleast i can get them then hopefully buy sat. hubby needs the car again on sunday. he will be really breaked off if i say he cant and has to use the train.
Would he prefer to pay a main dealer to fix it? ;D
Kevin
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All i plan on doing is reading the codes. Just incase i need any parts atleast i can get them then hopefully buy sat. hubby needs the car again on sunday. he will be really breaked off if i say he cant and has to use the train.
Would he prefer to pay a main dealer to fix it? ;D
Kevin
LMFAO ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Nope but he might prefer to take it to a garage >:( >:( >:( which i wont allow! over my dead body!
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All i plan on doing is reading the codes. Just incase i need any parts atleast i can get them then hopefully buy sat. hubby needs the car again on sunday. he will be really breaked off if i say he cant and has to use the train.
Would he prefer to pay a main dealer to fix it? ;D
Kevin
LMFAO ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Nope but he might prefer to take it to a garage >:( >:( >:( which i wont allow! over my dead body!
You should let him try... Just the once. [smiley=evil.gif] I suspect you'll get an easier life thereafter. :-X
Kevin
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All i plan on doing is reading the codes. Just incase i need any parts atleast i can get them then hopefully buy sat. hubby needs the car again on sunday. he will be really breaked off if i say he cant and has to use the train.
Would he prefer to pay a main dealer to fix it? ;D
Kevin
LMFAO ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Nope but he might prefer to take it to a garage >:( >:( >:( which i wont allow! over my dead body!
You should let him try... Just the once. [smiley=evil.gif] I suspect you'll get an easier life thereafter. :-X
Kevin
but i wish hubby would realise i am capable of fixing it though all be it with guidence. i have been a mechanic now for 8 1/2 yrs.
i am just gutted cos the gearbox is playing up and jamees and i worked our tits off sortin it. when jase said its easyer to take it to the garage. >:( >:(