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Chat Area => General Discussion Area => Topic started by: Marie on 18 July 2012, 20:04:53
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okay here is probally not the best place to vent off steam but im going to do it anyway!
As you will see by my last thread im full of cold feel like death (suspected man flu) well i have had a day from hell ......................
Woke up at 0430 unable top breath so got up and sorted my self out and fell asleep on the sofa to get woken up by the hubby ( nicely) at 6am.
Being told i cant go and work where i want to due to some bŁ**'1# excuse and i am being sent somewhere to work for 2 years in october i really dont want :(
Forced to stay at work until the end of the day even though for most the afternoon all i have done is blow my nose and my ears sound like im under water every one has had to repeat what they are saying to me.
it now feels like its sat on my chest too which is really not good as last time i was like this it ended up a chest infection and i ended up on steriods :(
Tonight all the hubby has done is have a go at me my son has a routine and i asked the hubby to ask him to get out the shower so he shouted up couldnt even be arsed to get off the bloody sofa well clearly by surprise shane didnt hear him so after 5 mins i actually got up from my seat to shout up the stairs for him to get out which he did. hubby proceeded to give me greef for getting him out the shower tomorrow is a school day and its already past my boys bed time. he hasnt got of his arse to do anything tonight apart from throw a pizza in the ovan. the dishes are still spread accross the kitchen worktop cos he expects me to put them in the dishwasher.God all i ever seem to do is clean up after the pair of them :( for once he can bl**dy do it.
my life is pants and i know there are people out there that have got it way worse then me and i should be gratefull for what i have got but dont think he realises that we dont have magic faries come and clean hover do the washing and ironing etc etc I DO it as well as working over 40hr weeks and now im ill he hasnt even lifted a finger to help seriously >:(
normally i would take this all in my stride and crack on but im hormonal too :'( :'( :'( :'( god i hate being a bird really pisses me off
vent over
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Sorry to hear you've had a bad day Marie. It does sound like your fella needs a kick up the backside though! ::)
How does the change of job affect the planned house move? :-\
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we wont get the funding to move so it will be at our expense instead so i sorry we are potentailly thousands of pounds out of pocket.
i wish i could give him a kick up the arse but its not worth it tbh takes more energy to argue with him then do it :-\
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I'm still available for house calls Marie. :-X :y
I can cook, clean, fix things and even handle firearms with some proficiency - should that be of any use to you. :-* :-*
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I'm still available for house calls Marie. :-X :y
I can cook, clean, fix things and even handle firearms with some proficiency - should that be of any use to you. :-* :-*
there must be a catch your want something in return that or it wouldnt last ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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He cooked your dinner ffs ! Thats female gratitude for you. ::)
;D ;D ;D
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See, you can now appreciate how man-flu affects the human body. I told you it can be fatal.
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See, you can now appreciate how man-flu affects the human body. I told you it can be fatal.
it is but us chicks keep going when were ill but when hes ill the whole world stops ;D ;D
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Token effort at being a martyr at work ::)
So, you mild bout of man flu is clearly not serious :P ;D
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I'm still available for house calls Marie. :-X :y
I can cook, clean, fix things and even handle firearms with some proficiency - should that be of any use to you. :-* :-*
there must be a catch your want something in return that or it wouldnt last ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
The mere satisfaction of helping a fellow human being in need is reward enough for me Marie - I'm also a renowned 'stayer'. :-X ;D ;D ;D :y
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I'm also a renowned 'stayer'
Like a bad smell :P
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He cooked your dinner ffs ! Thats female gratitude for you. ::)
;D ;D ;D
;D ;) ;D
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I'm also a renowned 'stayer'
Like a bad smell :P
The worst kind. ;D ;D ;D :-*
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My old lady and her mate were having a conversation today about how useless us men are, but when she said "They can't do two things at once" I had to point out that we can.
She asked me to give her an example, so I said "Well, while I was fu**ing you last night, I was thinking about your friend."
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okay here is probally not the best place to vent off steam but im going to do it anyway! ....
Forced to stay at work until the end of the day even though for most the afternoon all i have done is blow my nose and my ears sound like im under water every one has had to repeat what they are saying to me.
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vent over
That's life in a Blue Suit! ::) ::) ::) ::)
Only pulling your leg Marie ........... honest!
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My old lady and her mate were having a conversation today about how useless us men are, but when she said "They can't do two things at once" I had to point out that we can.
She asked me to give her an example, so I said "Well, while I was fu**ing you last night, I was thinking about your friend."
;D :-X
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With your condition the way it is, does that mean your a Phlegm Fatale?...... :D
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With your condition the way it is, does that mean your a Phlegm Fatale?...... :D
;D ;D ;D Outstanding. 8) :y
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okay here is probally not the best place to vent off steam but im going to do it anyway!
As you will see by my last thread im full of cold feel like death (suspected man flu) well i have had a day from hell ......................
Woke up at 0430 unable top breath so got up and sorted my self out and fell asleep on the sofa to get woken up by the hubby ( nicely) at 6am.
Being told i cant go and work where i want to due to some bŁ**'1# excuse and i am being sent somewhere to work for 2 years in october i really dont want :(
Forced to stay at work until the end of the day even though for most the afternoon all i have done is blow my nose and my ears sound like im under water every one has had to repeat what they are saying to me.
it now feels like its sat on my chest too which is really not good as last time i was like this it ended up a chest infection and i ended up on steriods :(
Tonight all the hubby has done is have a go at me my son has a routine and i asked the hubby to ask him to get out the shower so he shouted up couldnt even be arsed to get off the bloody sofa well clearly by surprise shane didnt hear him so after 5 mins i actually got up from my seat to shout up the stairs for him to get out which he did. hubby proceeded to give me greef for getting him out the shower tomorrow is a school day and its already past my boys bed time. he hasnt got of his arse to do anything tonight apart from throw a pizza in the ovan. the dishes are still spread accross the kitchen worktop cos he expects me to put them in the dishwasher.God all i ever seem to do is clean up after the pair of them :( for once he can bl**dy do it.
my life is pants and i know there are people out there that have got it way worse then me and i should be gratefull for what i have got but dont think he realises that we dont have magic faries come and clean hover do the washing and ironing etc etc I DO it as well as working over 40hr weeks and now im ill he hasnt even lifted a finger to help seriously >:(
normally i would take this all in my stride and crack on but im hormonal too :'( :'( :'( :'( god i hate being a bird really pisses me off
vent over
moan,moan,moan
i dont know how your bloke buts up with you,instead of moaning you should be gratefull he sticks with you.
i think you are to stressed and are just looking for someone to blame and take it out on.
the bloke was in the shower upstairs and didnt hear you shouting,with you in your weak state the volume would not have been as loud as normal and he has the water going is it any wonder he didnt hear you?
hes fed the kids and i presume they kids are happy,so okay they are a bit late going to bed but its not the end of the world calm down a bit.now if he hadnt fed them and got them to bed i could understand it more but it sounds to me you just want to moan at the poor bloke because he hasnt done it 100% right. okay he hasnt filled the dishwasher,maybe he was going to do it later,maybe he forgot or maybe he just didnt bother but come on girl its not the end of the world
okay so you do the washing is it a 4 mile walk to the river with a bar of soap? no i dont think so its opening the door of a machine and putting the clothes and soap powder in it takes 5 mins!
ironing not the most pleasant job in the world il grant you but if you wash things right,then hang them,and buy the right clothes there are less and less things you have to iron.
also you know that if he did the washing,the cleaning etc it wouldnt be right and you would moan about that then still do it yourself.
but i do feel for you and hope you get well soon.
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okay here is probally not the best place to vent off steam but im going to do it anyway!
As you will see by my last thread im full of cold feel like death (suspected man flu) well i have had a day from hell ......................
Woke up at 0430 unable top breath so got up and sorted my self out and fell asleep on the sofa to get woken up by the hubby ( nicely) at 6am.
Being told i cant go and work where i want to due to some bŁ**'1# excuse and i am being sent somewhere to work for 2 years in october i really dont want :(
Forced to stay at work until the end of the day even though for most the afternoon all i have done is blow my nose and my ears sound like im under water every one has had to repeat what they are saying to me.
it now feels like its sat on my chest too which is really not good as last time i was like this it ended up a chest infection and i ended up on steriods :(
Tonight all the hubby has done is have a go at me my son has a routine and i asked the hubby to ask him to get out the shower so he shouted up couldnt even be arsed to get off the bloody sofa well clearly by surprise shane didnt hear him so after 5 mins i actually got up from my seat to shout up the stairs for him to get out which he did. hubby proceeded to give me greef for getting him out the shower tomorrow is a school day and its already past my boys bed time. he hasnt got of his arse to do anything tonight apart from throw a pizza in the ovan. the dishes are still spread accross the kitchen worktop cos he expects me to put them in the dishwasher.God all i ever seem to do is clean up after the pair of them :( for once he can bl**dy do it.
my life is pants and i know there are people out there that have got it way worse then me and i should be gratefull for what i have got but dont think he realises that we dont have magic faries come and clean hover do the washing and ironing etc etc I DO it as well as working over 40hr weeks and now im ill he hasnt even lifted a finger to help seriously >:(
normally i would take this all in my stride and crack on but im hormonal too :'( :'( :'( :'( god i hate being a bird really pisses me off
vent over
moan,moan,moan
i dont know how your bloke buts up with you,instead of moaning you should be gratefull he sticks with you.
i think you are to stressed and are just looking for someone to blame and take it out on.
the bloke was in the shower upstairs and didnt hear you shouting,with you in your weak state the volume would not have been as loud as normal and he has the water going is it any wonder he didnt hear you?
hes fed the kids and i presume they kids are happy,so okay they are a bit late going to bed but its not the end of the world calm down a bit.now if he hadnt fed them and got them to bed i could understand it more but it sounds to me you just want to moan at the poor bloke because he hasnt done it 100% right. okay he hasnt filled the dishwasher,maybe he was going to do it later,maybe he forgot or maybe he just didnt bother but come on girl its not the end of the world
okay so you do the washing is it a 4 mile walk to the river with a bar of soap? no i dont think so its opening the door of a machine and putting the clothes and soap powder in it takes 5 mins!
ironing not the most pleasant job in the world il grant you but if you wash things right,then hang them,and buy the right clothes there are less and less things you have to iron.
also you know that if he did the washing,the cleaning etc it wouldnt be right and you would moan about that then still do it yourself.
but i do feel for you and hope you get well soon.
Erm, sorry mate but I don't think you've got that quite right. You might want to read the original post again...
The way I read it, it was Marie's son that was in the shower, and her hubby couldn't be bothered to get off the sofa to tell him to get out. :y
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r1, feel free to stick your address on your next post so Marie can come and kick your arse :D :D :D ;D
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Hope you feel better soon Marie :y ....................but I can't help thinking about all of the household chores that got neglected in the ten minutes it took you to write this thread. ;) ;) ;D ;D Only joking. ::)
As for house fairies, they do actually exist in our house. We have a self filling/emptying dishwasher/washing machine, self hoovering vacuum cleaner, self making beds and the best bit, you can have a shower and just throw the wet towel on the floor, and when you return to the bathroom, the towel is in the laundry basket. How amazing is that? ::) ::) ;D ;D
With all of what the fairies do, my wife still gets angry and stomps around the house when she has to collect a handful of cups from our sons room. ::)
Only kidding Marie, us blokes don't realise how much you women do until you stop doing it. :y
(Just for the record, the above is my sons perspective on life, not mine)
Hope you feel better soon. :y
Regards
Alan
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okay here is probally not the best place to vent off steam but im going to do it anyway!
As you will see by my last thread im full of cold feel like death (suspected man flu) well i have had a day from hell ......................
Woke up at 0430 unable top breath so got up and sorted my self out and fell asleep on the sofa to get woken up by the hubby ( nicely) at 6am.
Being told i cant go and work where i want to due to some bŁ**'1# excuse and i am being sent somewhere to work for 2 years in october i really dont want :(
Forced to stay at work until the end of the day even though for most the afternoon all i have done is blow my nose and my ears sound like im under water every one has had to repeat what they are saying to me.
it now feels like its sat on my chest too which is really not good as last time i was like this it ended up a chest infection and i ended up on steriods :(
Tonight all the hubby has done is have a go at me my son has a routine and i asked the hubby to ask him to get out the shower so he shouted up couldnt even be arsed to get off the bloody sofa well clearly by surprise shane didnt hear him so after 5 mins i actually got up from my seat to shout up the stairs for him to get out which he did. hubby proceeded to give me greef for getting him out the shower tomorrow is a school day and its already past my boys bed time. he hasnt got of his arse to do anything tonight apart from throw a pizza in the ovan. the dishes are still spread accross the kitchen worktop cos he expects me to put them in the dishwasher.God all i ever seem to do is clean up after the pair of them :( for once he can bl**dy do it.
my life is pants and i know there are people out there that have got it way worse then me and i should be gratefull for what i have got but dont think he realises that we dont have magic faries come and clean hover do the washing and ironing etc etc I DO it as well as working over 40hr weeks and now im ill he hasnt even lifted a finger to help seriously >:(
normally i would take this all in my stride and crack on but im hormonal too :'( :'( :'( :'( god i hate being a bird really pisses me off
vent over
If you had the time for that it could have been spent cleaning ;D ;D :D
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It does men a power of good to have to fend for themselves occassionally Marie, it's 'Character Building' ::)
So tell them both to get on with it and have yourself a 'Make and Mend' my lovely! ;D :y
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well hello boys lol
i have just sat and read through the posts from today. sorry i havent come back sooner! work has been relentless and my boss was stuborn as hell today!but hey i have made brownies for tomorrow to try and make up for my grumpy bad attitude today!pmsl
well today this morning i had to see the emergency doc as i am asthmatic and the cold has ended up on my chest not what i need! if i get another infection i am well in the do do. luckyly for me i havent got an infection and if i take it easy i should be okay.
she has given me some antibiotics just incase my peek flow take a further nose dive and i am keeping a close eye on it :) not coughing as much as i was this morning and i have binned all the cold meds i think this is what was making me feel ruff. i feel a little better tonight still sniffully.hope i sleep better then i have done the last few days apparently i have been snoring :-[ :o ;D
now who was it i need to go kick his but.....................address required! ;D ;D ;D ;D Twigy was right it was my son in the shower and hubby on the sofa. i am not going to say anything else about that post :-X i get the impression Alain that your son is not married and doesnt have kids :D :D
hubby has realised how dangerous it is if this does end up as an infection on my chest so when i said im sorry no more spraying or painting for me this side of monday at least (monday i have a review to see if they will lift my deployment restrictions) he aggreeed straight away. told him im going to fed the boy tonight and shower and go to bed early he was understanding. :y
PhilRich i cant wait the next 3 weeks they are in the house alone and im damed if im working a full day to come home and find im cooking dinner and cleaning up after them lol and 'make a mend' cant remember the last time i had one of those ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Just take things slowly,and rest as much as you can :y
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See..... we were right ... it can't have been manflu .. you are recovering far too quickly, to recover from manflu takes at least .. what 5 weeks of TLC ??
You must have had the weaker version ...... :)
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See..... we were right ... it can't have been manflu .. you are recovering far too quickly, to recover from manflu takes at least .. what 5 weeks of TLC ??
You must have had the weaker version ...... :)
pmsl 5 weeks................ :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o five weeks of this id cry pmsl plus i want my car back on the road and i cant go near it at all this weekend now! its pants. :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
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See..... we were right ... it can't have been manflu .. you are recovering far too quickly, to recover from manflu takes at least .. what 5 weeks of TLC ??
You must have had the weaker version ...... :)
pmsl 5 weeks................ :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o five weeks of this id cry pmsl plus i want my car back on the road and i cant go near it at all this weekend now! its pants. :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
Look on the bright side .. if you can't work on the car you'll have the time to catch up on the washing/dusting/vaccuming/cleaning that you couldn't do while you were feeling a shade poorly :)
Always a silver lining you know .. you just have to look for it.. :)
and if hubby is out working on the car all on his own .. it would be a nice thought to reward him with his favourite meal and a nice cold beer on saturday ... don't you think ..... ? ?
:)
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See..... we were right ... it can't have been manflu .. you are recovering far too quickly, to recover from manflu takes at least .. what 5 weeks of TLC ??
You must have had the weaker version ...... :)
pmsl 5 weeks................ :o :o :o :o :o :o :o :o five weeks of this id cry pmsl plus i want my car back on the road and i cant go near it at all this weekend now! its pants. :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
Look on the bright side .. if you can't work on the car you'll have the time to catch up on the washing/dusting/vaccuming/cleaning that you couldn't do while you were feeling a shade poorly :)
Always a silver lining you know .. you just have to look for it.. :)
and if hubby is out working on the car all on his own .. it would be a nice thought to reward him with his favourite meal and a nice cold beer on saturday ... don't you think ..... ? ?
:)
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