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Chat Area => General Discussion Area => Topic started by: cem_devecioglu on 10 November 2012, 10:51:05
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for some reason I didnt want to go back home :-\
instead I slept in my chair after job (as I was sleepless for some days because of pain in the neck).. ;D then drive to city center, park the car and had a long walk lonely for hours watching people ..
some talk with their mobile and so busy that dont see anything around.. :-\
some drive their expensive cars and looking at peoples face to see if they are impressed ;D ,
some at public bus unhappy going back home ..
night club workers trying to attract customers, restaurants mostly full of young people ,
some women buying food from markets,
prostitutues at hairdressers ..(some special zone so I can distinguish who is who)
as I have seen, people is so busy with their current moment so that most of them unaware where the life/systen is bringing them to.. they were like just the figures of a theatral play for some time and then
they go and others take their places..
as a human we create an artificial world/system around us, and then we become the slaves of it..
and then die even without realizing what we are/were..
most of those people unhappy, but just live their time without an actual aim like a robot.. besides they are not even aware that they are the slaves of the community (better than Roman time though) and they sell their whole work of lifetime for some food, may be a car and may be a home if they are lucky to have enough money..
most of them may be never had enough love , married together someone by family help, make children and die even without seeing a happy life for them..
lucky (or unlucky) ones, burry them in a materialistic life, buy every car they want, every home , every dress , every electronic gadget and try to find happines with those.. :(
and some , go back home without any money in pocket to an empty refrigerator ..
is that life ?
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Very philosophical there. Are you not seeing others, just a mirror :-\
(hope not ???)
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Very philosophical there. Are you not seeing others, just a mirror :-\
(hope not ??? )
actually we are all mirrors (well, mostly) of each other.. thats what makes me sad..
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Cem, pretty good observation of we
humans drones.
You missed out a couple of things
The occasional tragedies (like your unfortunate helicopter crash or our Spaniards comitting suicide rather than be evicted for none mortgage payment)
Endless fixing the car.
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Cem, your seeing what you want to see...
A change of mind set perhaps...?
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Did you tell Mrs Cem you were going on a journey after work :-\
Endless days fixing the car and giving much pain in the neck , slave to the omega :-\ :-\
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Cem, pretty good observation of we humans drones.
You missed out a couple of things
The occasional tragedies (like your unfortunate helicopter crash or our Spaniards comitting suicide rather than be evicted for none mortgage payment)
Endless fixing the car.
:) :y
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Cem, your seeing what you want to see...
A change of mind set perhaps...?
When in a rut, can be very difficult to snap out of, when the mindset is destructive.
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Cem, your seeing what you want to see...
A change of mind set perhaps...?
When in a rut, can be very difficult to snap out of, when the mindset is destructive.
Agreed. Very difficult. First step, understanding the current mind set. Probably hardest I guess.
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Did you tell Mrs Cem you were going on a journey after work :-\
Endless days fixing the car and giving much pain in the neck , slave to the omega :-\ :-\
nope.. and I closed my mobile.. so no one could reach me..
my neck pain is another story..
I have a cough for 2 months and have hard times for breathe.. so changed the angle of my bed and pillows.. some degrees vertical as it help to lessen my cough.. but those plliows break my neck >:(
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Cem, your seeing what you want to see...
A change of mind set perhaps...?
Chris, humans have a perception relational to their ability and experience/experiment set..
probably I need another life from the beginning to change ;D
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Cem, your seeing what you want to see...
A change of mind set perhaps...?
Chris, humans have a perception relational to their ability and experience/experiment set..
probably I need another life from the beginning to change ;D
instead, go to the top of the nearest mountain or hill that gives the best view, rather than the deapest darkest depths of the nearest city. You can go anywhere you want :)
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Cem, your seeing what you want to see...
A change of mind set perhaps...?
Chris, humans have a perception relational to their ability and experience/experiment set..
probably I need another life from the beginning to change ;D
instead, go to the top of the nearest mountain or hill that gives the best view, rather than the deapest darkest depths of the nearest city. You can go anywhere you want :)
will try as soon as the weather becomes shiny.. thanks :y
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Life's a rat race , sometimes we need to escape and sit in silence :)
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Life's a rat race , sometimes we need to escape and sit in silence :)
yep.. and one day wil sit in silence forever ;D :y
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Cem, your seeing what you want to see...
A change of mind set perhaps...?
When in a rut, can be very difficult to snap out of, when the mindset is destructive.
Agreed, and I can relate to what Cem is saying as I go through stages of thinking 'what's the point'. The lower you feel the lower you get. I'm lucky enough to have nice things and have a fantastic wife and great kids that cause me no grief but I still have these thoughts. :(
instead, go to the top of the nearest mountain or hill that gives the best view, rather than the deapest darkest depths of the nearest city. You can go anywhere you want :)
.....But don't jump. ;) ;D ;D
Snap out of it, think positive and enjoy the weekend ;D ;D
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My Nan taught me when you feel a bit sorry for yourself, there is always somebody worse off than you. That and the fact I had a manic depressive mother which taught me how I didn't want to be, so this means I just don't do depression. If I even start to feel a bit low, I just think about all of the positives in my life, put on some mood inspiring music and I'm very quickly in a good positive mood.
I look at depression as one's personal expectation of life over delivery. My Nan also taught me you get out of life what you put into it. If you are not happy with your life, then YOU need to look on how to change it. It can be very simple things, like going for a walk every day or a new hobby, or even just doing something different like cooking a meal you have never had before to sample new flavours.
When I was in my 20's I was very materialistic, now I'm the opposite, my family and friends are my real wealth. All I need to live at the most basic is water, food, clothes, some sort of roof over my head and energy for lighting, heating and cooking. Everything else is a luxury, so in western countries most of our homes and lives are full of luxuries, that we just take for granted. Many things that people in third world countries will never own and yet we choose to ignore them as trifles.
We are all just passing through with an average of 25,000 days and we must all do things everyday to fulfill our necessities in life, beyond that, just do something that is a little indulgent to you, which makes you feel good good. It doesn't have to cost any money and can be anything, like a plan to build your perfect car ,to spending 10 minutes listening to your favourite music. Personally I find history very inspiring, when I walk past an old building I wonder what the life was like for the person that laid those bricks, did he expect his craftsmanship to be their and appreciated by me 500 years later? As he was laying them was he thinking somebody will be looking at this is 500 years time? There is all sorts of wonderment and inspiration is this world, we just have to open our brains to them.
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My Nan taught me when you feel a bit sorry for yourself, there is always somebody worse off than you. That and the fact I had a manic depressive mother which taught me how I didn't want to be, so this means I just don't do depression. If I even start to feel a bit low, I just think about all of the positives in my life, put on some mood inspiring music and I'm very quickly in a good positive mood.
I look at depression as one's personal expectation of life over delivery. My Nan also taught me you get out of life what you put into it. If you are not happy with your life, then YOU need to look on how to change it. It can be very simple things, like going for a walk every day or a new hobby, or even just doing something different like cooking a meal you have never had before to sample new flavours.
When I was in my 20's I was very materialistic, now I'm the opposite, my family and friends are my real wealth. All I need to live at the most basic is water, food, clothes, some sort of roof over my head and energy for lighting, heating and cooking. Everything else is a luxury, so in western countries most of our homes and lives are full of luxuries, that we just take for granted. Many things that people in third world countries will never own and yet we choose to ignore them as trifles.
We are all just passing through with an average of 25,000 days and we must all do things everyday to fulfill our necessities in life, beyond that, just do something that is a little indulgent to you, which makes you feel good good. It doesn't have to cost any money and can be anything, like a plan to build your perfect car ,to spending 10 minutes listening to your favourite music. Personally I find history very inspiring, when I walk past an old building I wonder what the life was like for the person that laid those bricks, did he expect his craftsmanship to be their and appreciated by me 500 years later? As he was laying them was he thinking somebody will be looking at this is 500 years time? There is all sorts of wonderment and inspiration is this world, we just have to open our brains to them.
:) good one :y