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Title: im sorry but i need to spill my guts out to you al
Post by: Marie on 04 June 2008, 19:41:44
Firstly i always end up on the forum with ether bad news, im moaning about something or i have a snag with my motor. sorry
so heres how things are working out at the mo
i get one bit of good luck/news and i get 2 bits of bad luck/news in return!

well i had some good news today the gearbox has been fixed all i need to do now with the lovely help from Pat and Kev is fit it.  :) yippy

ok so wheres the bads news!!!!

well my mother called her dads prostate cancer is back and it not treatable this time.  :(

well the second bit is actually to to with me and my health..........

all be it i am actually well i am not.
without tellin to much i went to see the doc last week and he said he would refur me to the hosp as a non-urgent case and ill be seen around 6-8weeks time and its nothing to worry about.
went back to the doc today as my condition has worsened and have now been reffered as a urgent case. i should be seen with 10days and my appt will be short notice. i am not that worried about it as its has grown far to fast to be anything serious (cancer)  its the pain thats with it thats killin me. (its above the waist by the way fellas ;D)

i am sorry guys all i seem to do is maon about stuff BUT hey once down their is only one way to go and thats back up.

my luck has surely got to change soon some one up there dont like me too much i reckon!  ;D ;D ;D ;D

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Post by: markey mark on 04 June 2008, 19:43:06
bloody hell marie chin up kid it will be ok !! :-*
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Post by: Debs. on 04 June 2008, 19:44:47
Gosh Marie, you sure have had a run of bad!  :'(

Prayers being said here for you and yours.  :y

Keep 'positive' missus!  ;)
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Post by: Andy B on 04 June 2008, 19:45:36
Keep smiling Love. I'm sure everything will work out fine.
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Post by: Marie on 04 June 2008, 19:48:21
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Gosh Marie, you sure have had a run of bad!  :'(

Prayers being said here for you and yours.  :y

Keep 'positive' missus!  ;)

things could be way worse ..... couldnt they!
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Post by: FRE07962128 on 04 June 2008, 19:51:30
I am terribly sorry to hear that Marie; things are obviously not going well for you at the mo.  :( :(

I wish you all the best and trust everything will sort itself out to the good. If there is anything I can do  please let me know. :y
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Post by: psychnurse on 04 June 2008, 19:53:39
Im sure it will all work out. But best of luck with everything. ;)
sending you and insa-hug
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Post by: Richie London on 04 June 2008, 19:53:40
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Gosh Marie, you sure have had a run of bad!  :'(

Prayers being said here for you and yours.  :y

Keep 'positive' missus!  ;)

things could be way worse ..... couldnt they!

ive been there and it does get better,i didnt think it would. have faith marie. and try to take it easy eh  :)


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Post by: Darth Loo-knee on 04 June 2008, 19:59:52
Sorry to here your news mate, you are young and soon will bounce back.
Daz :y
Title: Re: im sorry but i need to spill my guts out to you al
Post by: Marie on 04 June 2008, 20:05:05
cheers, i am a fighter ill bounce back soon enough.

and your right i do need to learn to take it easy. 100mph all the time for me need to lean to slow down!
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Post by: Dazzler on 04 June 2008, 20:08:24
We are all here for you Marie ;) :-*
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Post by: Entwood on 04 June 2008, 20:16:06
Things always seem to balance out eventually, so you're due some good news soon :)

Keep positive and if you need a safety valve to let of steam .. we'll all be here for you any time  .. :y :y :y

I'm sure things will work out for the best  :) :)
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Post by: Lazydocker on 04 June 2008, 20:34:37
Keep your chin up Marie... Things will get better! :y :y :y

Mrs LD gets loads of painful lumps and bumps... They have always been harmless!

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Post by: dad1uk on 04 June 2008, 20:37:25
So sorry to hear your bad news!
You are always welcome to blow off here. We are all friends at OOF and friends always support each other.
I'm sure all the others agree. :y
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Post by: HolyCount on 04 June 2008, 20:37:30
Sorry to hear things ain't so good at the moment, Marie. As the others have said, life is full of waves and troughs --- you are in a trough right now, but you will be on the crest of a wave again soon. We are all here for you if you need to have a chat, rant or a scream and a kick.

Chin up Lass  :)
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Post by: Vamps on 04 June 2008, 20:53:32
Don’t apologise Marie, that’s one of the things we are here for, we all need to ‘share’ sometimes.
Not Cancer, well nothing to worry about really, everything else can be sorted, Shame about the delay. But you are in the Navy, why do you have to wait?
Anyway good luck and all the best.
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Post by: Kevin Wood on 04 June 2008, 23:54:40
Sorry to hear you're having more than your share of problems at the moment. chin up. You will look at life from a better perspective again soon.

At least the gearbox WILL go back in for the last time on Sunday and that'll be something to cross off the list. :y

Kevin
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Post by: ffcgary1 on 05 June 2008, 00:05:53
Sorry to hear that you are not feeling to good at the moment marie and i wish you a speedy recovery... I do a lot of work at the royal marsden cancer hopital in fulham and at their sister site in sutton,surrey, and get to see alot of the great work that they do for their patients, nothing is too much trouble for them and and the treatment sucsess rate is on the up, but if the diagnosis is not good for your grandad, you will be sure that the hospital treating him will make sure that he is in as little discomfort as is possible.  I send my thoughts to your mum and her dad, and know that you will fight for them as much as yourself. Take care, Gary. ;)
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Post by: Nickbat on 05 June 2008, 00:09:47
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Firstly i always end up on the forum with ether bad news, im moaning about something or i have a snag with my motor. sorry
so heres how things are working out at the mo
i get one bit of good luck/news and i get 2 bits of bad luck/news in return!

well i had some good news today the gearbox has been fixed all i need to do now with the lovely help from Pat and Kev is fit it.  :) yippy

ok so wheres the bads news!!!!

well my mother called her dads prostate cancer is back and it not treatable this time.  :(

well the second bit is actually to to with me and my health..........

all be it i am actually well i am not.
without tellin to much i went to see the doc last week and he said he would refur me to the hosp as a non-urgent case and ill be seen around 6-8weeks time and its nothing to worry about.
went back to the doc today as my condition has worsened and have now been reffered as a urgent case. i should be seen with 10days and my appt will be short notice. i am not that worried about it as its has grown far to fast to be anything serious (cancer)  its the pain thats with it thats killin me. (its above the waist by the way fellas ;D)

i am sorry guys all i seem to do is maon about stuff BUT hey once down their is only one way to go and thats back up.

my luck has surely got to change soon some one up there dont like me too much i reckon!  ;D ;D ;D ;D


Sorry to hear of your woes, Marie. In respect of the highlighted section, you may find this link useful:

http://www.thehealthierlife.co.uk/natural-health-articles/cancer/graviola-n-tense-cancer-00125.html

I'm not endorsing any product, but you may find it interesting. Remember that chemotherapy treatments do contain tree bark extracts (apparently, according to a MacMillan Nurse)  and aspirin originally came from nature.

I have a neighbour (and good friend) who is currently suffering from cancer, hence my research into the subject.

Good luck on the other fronts!  :y

Nick
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Post by: Cav9_4 on 05 June 2008, 00:25:36
Hi Marie,hope things work out for you & best of luck at the hospital...Wayne
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Post by: robbo299 on 05 June 2008, 00:56:50
Hi Marie, Just want to echo all the thoughts and best wishes from all your friends on the forum. As you can plainly see you have lots here. :y
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Post by: SP_3.2 on 05 June 2008, 01:36:18
Very sorry to hear about your bad news and i am sure that you will get over this and come out stonger and better . My best wishs are with you.
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Post by: JamesV6CDX on 05 June 2008, 01:39:20
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You are always welcome to blow off here.

How is it that I never seem to get offers like that from members of the opposite gender, then? ;D  ;D
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Post by: The Barge Captain on 05 June 2008, 08:28:30
There is always someone who will drag it down to the gutter ::)

Marie - My thoughts and best wishes are with you mate.
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Post by: psl on 05 June 2008, 10:58:55
Marie, our thoughts our with you, and you will get through this, I sensed something was up last weekend,

one of the best remedies for life is to talk and your always welcome to let rip on here.

and after the weekend we wont be needing to takeout your gearbox out again so that'll be one worry off the list.

Pat
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Post by: Marks DTM Calib on 05 June 2008, 11:01:09
All the best Marie.

Sadly nothing lasts forever (not even us)
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Post by: Gaffers on 05 June 2008, 11:53:03
Marie, I hope things look up for you soon.  I am very sorry to hear your news.

If you ever need any medical stuff explaining I can help either with my limited medical knowledge or I can get one of my docs to help put things into laymans speak!

Chin up!
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Post by: Marie on 05 June 2008, 12:13:25
Cheers fellas you all seem to make me smile.

What would i do without OOF? (dont answer that)

And james is comment actually had me luaghing...he soo knows my sense of humour! :y ;D ;D ;D

Pat -  i obviously didnt do a very good job of hiding it last weekend then did i.  :( i can talk on the computer about it but face to face is a very different story. Any how ill see you and kev on sunday. :)
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Post by: Marks DTM Calib on 05 June 2008, 12:26:30
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Cheers fellas you all seem to make me smile.

What would i do without OOF? (dont answer that)

And james is comment actually had me luaghing...he soo knows my sense of humour! :y ;D ;D ;D

Pat -  i obviously didnt do a very good job of hiding it last weekend then did i.  :( i can talk on the computer about it but face to face is a very different story. Any how ill see you and kev on sunday. :)

Its important you do though particulalrly to those close to you  :y
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Post by: Jimbob on 05 June 2008, 12:28:39
Talk is best, there is at least one member on here kept things to himself, all got too much in the end and caused a bit of a breakdown.
Learned his lesson though, and it gets easier.


TALK!!!!!
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Post by: maria on 05 June 2008, 14:34:57
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You are always welcome to blow off here.

How is it that I never seem to get offers like that from members of the opposite gender, then? ;D  ;D

I am glad you dont james i would'nt like it if you did :(
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Post by: LJay on 05 June 2008, 14:39:50
we've had a bad year too, which i'll not go into. but finally talking about things is helping us to get through it and move forward.

keep your chin up and get talking girl! :)
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Post by: Markjay on 05 June 2008, 18:23:34
Sorry to hear about your dad and your health problems.... hope things work out for you, doctors can make miracles these days.

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Post by: cbs2 on 05 June 2008, 19:02:08
Hang in there marie
You know we're all here rootin for you.

Hope things turn around soon
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Post by: Field Marshal Dr. Opti on 05 June 2008, 19:40:59
Not totally sure what you're talking about Marie, but if it is what I think it is my wife's got it too, and they are usually benign if they grow very quickly (almost overnight)

Hope this is some comfort to you.

As always best to see GP straight away

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