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Title: What a week..
Post by: aaronjb on 27 March 2019, 17:31:21
Hot on the heels of being shunted up the rear of the MINI, followed by two very long days travelling around the country - one day in a Transit van collecting dining chairs and another *cough* Ford V8 (380 FE including autobox) *cough* and one day in the car taking the OH to her eye hospital appointment and looking at another MINI, then a packed weekend came..

..our dog suddenly becoming very lethargic and going off his food.

Trip to the vets to discover that his abdomen was one giant "mass".

We didn't get to bring him home  :'(

Heartbroken. The house is so quiet.

(https://i.ibb.co/MMfVGPw/smaller.jpg) (https://ibb.co/PwMh91X)
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Post by: omegod on 27 March 2019, 17:37:06
Sorry about Doggy Aaron what a handsome fella he was, facing the same in the next week or so I expect with our beloved pooch as her Lymphoma has come back and I can't sleep for the worry, she's still happy enough for the minute but once that changes ........ :( 
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Post by: Bigron on 27 March 2019, 17:41:30
I still miss my beautiful dog and she departed 30 years ago..... :'(

Ron.
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Post by: Varche on 27 March 2019, 18:02:03
Sorry to hear about your dog. The only consolation is it wasnt a drawn out affair.  I cannot imagine being without our dog.
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Post by: BazaJT on 27 March 2019, 18:03:12
Sorry to hear of your loss,they very quickly become "family" and have their own personalities.The last dog I had[before the one I've got now]was "just a mongrel" but she was as faithful as hell and although a year and a half old when I got her she lived a further 18yrs with me so had a good run,but when the time came I sat and cried my eyes out.
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Post by: dave the builder on 27 March 2019, 18:15:24
Sorry for your loss  :(
as has already been said , at least it was fast .
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Post by: TheBoy on 27 March 2019, 18:25:49
Poor woofy  :'(, but at least the suffering was minimal, but that doesn't help too much when you expect them to come bounding in the room.
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Post by: STEMO on 27 March 2019, 18:26:06
Oh noooooo   :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

So, so sorry, Aaron.  :(
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Post by: Sir Tigger KC on 27 March 2019, 18:34:44
Sad day...  :'(
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Post by: Doctor Gollum on 27 March 2019, 20:36:39
There are no words to describe that feeling :'( :'( :'(
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Post by: Bigron on 27 March 2019, 20:42:15
Isn't it rather telling that in a threat about several disastrous events, all the replies were about the dog?
No surprise, though - we DO love them.

Ron.

P.S. I don't think that I could trust a man that didn't like dogs.
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Post by: 2boxerdogs on 27 March 2019, 20:46:01
Very sorry to read this , know exactly how you must be feeling right now take comfort knowing that he had a good life with you & was loved some never  get to know this.
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Post by: scimmy_man on 27 March 2019, 21:39:52
Isn't it rather telling that in a threat about several disastrous events, all the replies were about the dog?
No surprise, though - we DO love them.

Ron.

P.S. I don't think that I could trust a man that didn't like dogs.

even more one who dogs dont like
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Post by: Andy B on 27 March 2019, 22:39:25
So very sorry to hear of your loss .....  :'(
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Post by: henryd on 27 March 2019, 23:00:09
Sorry for your loss Aaron,always rubbish losing a pet :'(
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Post by: Kevin Wood on 28 March 2019, 00:26:13
Really sorry to hear this. :'(
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Post by: Rods2 on 28 March 2019, 00:44:50
So sorry to hear about your loss. Dogs by their loving nature & personality quickly become part of the family & this sadness, when they depart, makes it all the poyant in the quiet moments when they are not there, it is a heart wrencher. :'( :'( :'(

I still miss all 4 of my dogs that I've had over the years.
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Post by: Andy B on 28 March 2019, 09:33:30
J Clarkson summed it up in an article when he said it 'was achingly sad'
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Post by: Bigron on 28 March 2019, 09:42:14
True. It leaves an empty space in your heart, no matter how long ago you lost them. :(

Ron.
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Post by: Gaffers on 28 March 2019, 09:45:23
Sorry for your loss Aaron, losing a woofbag is always hard but, as mentioned by others, there was little suffering.
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Post by: Bigron on 28 March 2019, 09:59:01
If it works, here is my dear departed.....
https://www.dropbox.com/s/s06o0lsbmilj31b/Midge%203b.jpg?dl=0

Ron.
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Post by: aaronjb on 28 March 2019, 10:02:18
Thanks all, much appreciated.

I am currently beating myself up that I didn't spot the mass growing sooner, do something about it.. I was his dad, after all, it was my job to keep him safe. Looking back through photos, though, even though I imagine this had been there for quite a while, it was maybe only the last month that he started to look pot bellied - and his manner, love of food, walks, barking, whining, and being a general ball of anxiety, didn't change until maybe three or four days before we took him to the vet :( and I suspect, even if I'd taken him in a month ago, the result would have been the same.

It's hard to believe that we only adopted him a couple of years ago - it feels like he was here forever and we can't remember what "routine" was like when it didn't revolve around the furball. We're not even eating much at home because eating at home meant being under constant supervision! He never stole from our plates, but if it hit the floor...


oh, Ron - Midge looks beautiful! Is that him as a puppy or was he always that size? Look at those paws...
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Post by: Bigron on 28 March 2019, 10:24:20
Thanks Aaron. She was a beautiful lady, yes - still a puppy in that photo, but didn't grow much bigger, despite the "prediction" of the paw size!
She lasted 16 years, all in good health, and went suddenly.

Ron.
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Post by: Varche on 28 March 2019, 10:27:55
You can't beat yourself up. Life is full of what ifs. You did what you thought was right.

We had a semi feral cat with two odd splayed rear legs  (broken from being swung around by kids) that adopted us 15 years ago. She passed at Xmas and although she just tolerated us we loved her to bits. Never like being stroked or picked up. Threw up all the way to and from the vets. Five years ago the vet said she ought to be put down - riddled with cancer. This was while we were away and had left her in kennels. We just couldn't do it without being there. So she was sewn back up. We couldn't see any difference in her demeanour, eating or habiits over the years. Probably off her food because of all the other animals including dogs at the kennels. Funny thing is the electronic cat flap still goes from time to time.  Did we do the right thing? Who knows - It just seemed the right thing at the time. If she hadn't adopted us she would probably have only lived a couple more years.
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Post by: Gaffers on 28 March 2019, 10:28:36
He never stole from our plates, but if it hit the floor...

A role known as the dropzone supervisor! ;D
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Post by: TheBoy on 28 March 2019, 17:48:47
He never stole from our plates, but if it hit the floor...
5s rule doesn't apply around dogs...   ...it becomes fair game on the way to the floor...
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Post by: scimmy_man on 29 March 2019, 09:40:09
the 5 second rule is useless with a 2 second dog
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Post by: Viral_Jim on 29 March 2019, 10:54:51
Sorry to read this Aaron. It must be an unimaginably sad thing to go through.  :-[
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Post by: pscocoa on 30 March 2019, 09:01:02
Very sad Aaron. Sorry to hear.