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Chat Area => General Discussion Area => Topic started by: nick v6 on 18 September 2008, 16:16:40
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since my 5 year old daughter has gone back to school since the holidays she has been picked on rottern by the same 2 girls.
ive told the teacher about this and my daughter coming home every day in tears as she is still being picked on.
i told my daughter this morning to have a go back at them now and dont take any more stick off them
ive just got back from picking her up from school after having the teacher have a go at me as there has been a complaint from the parents of the 2 girls
my daughter took matters in her own hands and smacked both of them in the face
ha ha ha ha shouldn't laugh really ha ha ha
just found out by a neighbour that the 2 girls parents are close friends of the teachers and thats why nothing was done when i made the complaint
i think this is totaly wrong and should not be aloud
can i make a complaint to a higher person
i cant go to the head of the school as the head is realted to the teacher in question
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Local education authorities, local paper.
At least she will be left alone now.
Any other decent primaries near you?
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There is something fundamentally wrong with the head teacher being related to one of the teachers who work for her!! How can she be expected to discipline that teacher (or tell her that something is wrong in this case).
I found that talking directly to the parents of the children involved helped when i had the same situation with my 8 year old daughter recently.
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Any other decent primaries near you?
there is 1 other school but there is still a waiting list to get in there
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Sorry to hear that your daughter has been pick on and its not right that they should not do any thing about it, Yes you can go higher and I know how you feel as I have been in the position with my 3 kids when they was younger, its not nice for our kids to go through it, I know it was funny that your daughter stuck up for her self so to right to if the teachers sorted it out then it would not come to the point that your daughter had to hit them, I hope you get it sorted out
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I found that talking directly to the parents of the children involved helped when i had the same situation with my 8 year old daughter recently.
from what ive been told
the parents of the 2 girls are just as bad
it was 1 of the sons of the parents that stole the lead from the roof of my house
that i caught
but even then he got away with it because of his age
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it was 1 of the sons of the parents that stole the lead from the roof of my house
that i caught
but even then he got away with it because of his age
http://www.expressandstar.com/2008/03/12/pair-confront-thieves-on-their-roof/
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I found that talking directly to the parents of the children involved helped when i had the same situation with my 8 year old daughter recently.
from what ive been told
the parents of the 2 girls are just as bad
it was 1 of the sons of the parents that stole the lead from the roof of my house
that i caught
but even then he got away with it because of his age
Of course it helps if the parents are reasonable people. It sounds like the parents might actually be the problem!!!!!
Try talking to the head and threatening to go to the local authority if they don't do something about it??
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The scrap men threatening you :o
You'd be better off away from that area if you could find somewhere
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The scrap men threatening you :o
You'd be better off away from that area if you could find somewhere
im looking at moving to my grandads house when he moves out just after christmas
even get my daughter into a new school as its a few miles away from where im living at the mo
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Good luck!
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since my 5 year old daughter has gone back to school since the holidays she has been picked on rottern by the same 2 girls.
ive told the teacher about this and my daughter coming home every day in tears as she is still being picked on.
i told my daughter this morning to have a go back at them now and dont take any more stick off them
ive just got back from picking her up from school after having the teacher have a go at me as there has been a complaint from the parents of the 2 girls
my daughter took matters in her own hands and smacked both of them in the faceha ha ha ha shouldn't laugh really ha ha ha
just found out by a neighbour that the 2 girls parents are close friends of the teachers and thats why nothing was done when i made the complaint
i think this is totaly wrong and should not be aloud
can i make a complaint to a higher person
i cant go to the head of the school as the head is realted to the teacher in question
She now have self esteem and thats the most important point.. ;)
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some may say im wrong for saying in 1 way she did the right thing where some will say its wrong
but she had a nice extra large bowl of ice cram after her tea
lol
:y
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Whatever you do, the teacher, and likely head will not be on your side.
Either smile and put up with it, or try and move.
One person will come off worse with a bad publicity storm, and I'm sorry to say it is your daughter :'(
Don't you hate the system / nepatism >:(
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Go to educational authority - if they fail get the EA to move your daughter to a better school
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I used to get bullied, I tried to strangle the school bully when I snapped!
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i tried to push 1 school bully out the school window when i flipped
3 floors up
nearly did until the teacher's grabbed me and pulled me back
otherwise he would of gone through the window
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I would speak to the head and threaten to complain to the governors,if the head doesnt take you seriously,complain to the governers.
my son was bullied badly at school for years and suffered in silence.one day he snapped and smacked one of the bullies on the nose.broke his nose and knocked him sparko. the whole story came out and the school were talking about expulsion,but I told them that it was their fault for ignoring the bullying for so long.
It did so much damage to my son that he went into a downward spiral which lasted for years and culminated in him attempting suicide on more than one occasion.heartbreak doesnt begin to cover it.
My son still hasnt really recovered his confidence,and being a sensitve soul,I doubt he ever will.
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I was violently bullied at school, and on top of that I witnessed domestic violence for most of my life - so although I (albeit rarely) sometimes spit my dummy, I feel that my self control (especially physical), is respectable given what I was brought up around.
That said - in my last year at school, I did reach a pont where enough was enough, and I lashed out at a bully.
An older (and much larger) guy at school had been tormenting and pushing me around for about 3 years. After putting up with it for this long, one day when he started pushing me, I flipped, and bent his nose (despite numerous requests from the head to help get him to leave me alone first).
Guess who ended up in trouble?
(I don't think I helped my case at the time. "Yes sir, I did hit him in the nose, and if he continues to bully me I will do it again - only harder ;D )
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the head should have been ashamed of himself.failing in your duty to a vulnerable child is a very cowardly act. >:(
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since my 5 year old daughter has gone back to school since the holidays she has been picked on rottern by the same 2 girls.
can i make a complaint to a higher person
When my eldest was being bullied i explained to the head that they had one chance to sort it >:( - then My son would fight back with my full support- including me slapping anyone that did not help my son (you're either with me or bleeding) 8-) - it also helps being 6'2" and mean looking
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Like it, thats the way forward! :y
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since my 5 year old daughter has gone back to school since the holidays she has been picked on rottern by the same 2 girls.
can i make a complaint to a higher person
When my eldest was being bullied i explained to the head that they had one chance to sort it >:( - then My son would fight back with my full support- including me slapping anyone that did not help my son (you're either with me or bleeding) 8-) - it also helps being 6'2" and mean looking
pop down here for a day
could do with someone like you
ive told my daughter if they start again today to smack them 1 and ill sort the teacher when they have a go later on when i pick her up from school
(she is standing by the front door this morning ready to go to school
(with fist's at the ready :y)
(she means business today god help the 1 that picks on her) :y :y :y
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since my 5 year old daughter has gone back to school since the holidays she has been picked on rottern by the same 2 girls.
can i make a complaint to a higher person
When my eldest was being bullied i explained to the head that they had one chance to sort it >:( - then My son would fight back with my full support- including me slapping anyone that did not help my son (you're either with me or bleeding) 8-) - it also helps being 6'2" and mean looking
pop down here for a day
could do with someone like you
ive told my daughter if they start again today to smack them 1 and ill sort the teacher when they have a go later on when i pick her up from school
(she is standing by the front door this morning ready to go to school
(with fist's at the ready :y)
(she means business today god help the 1 that picks on her) :y :y :y
hope she has a good day Nic :y
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There are moments that no one can help you..
And there are moments that you can no longer escape..
But you must be ready for that.. :-X