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Title: i am kicking myself
Post by: Jay w on 20 November 2008, 21:56:38
and feeling slightly pi**ed off with myself as well.....

Every year i do one or two open university courses, purely to expand my knowledge and mainly for a bit of fun, it kills the time whilst i am working away from home.

this year i have decided to learn French, now i hated the language when i was at school, never got on with it and could never understand why. We spend a lot of time over there and i feel like a muppet when i can't speak the language, but i will admit i am really struggling with this one and i hate being in this position.

Very seldom do i walk away from something but this could be one of those things, and in the end i still have the embarrisment of not being able to speak the language.....

does anyone know any books/sites that can explain the construction of the french language in a simple manner, this is my stumbling block, if i can get round this then i feel i will be part way there to my goal.

Title: Re: i am kicking myself
Post by: kris9128 on 20 November 2008, 22:22:15
when i was at school i was learning french. never got on with the teacher. she sent a letter to my folks explaining that i was wasting her time learning french and should think about learning another subject. i took this personaly so mjy folks bought  me some french text books  and i ended up getting 91% in my exams . the text books were called tricolour i think. am looking for the link and will post as soon as i fin d it. good luck.
Title: Re: i am kicking myself
Post by: mantahatch on 20 November 2008, 22:26:01
I understand how you feel, we spend a fair bit of time in France as well, I would love to be able to speak french but it is way beyond me.
I am fortunate enough that my wife can just speak enough to get by in restaurants and shops etc. but she is far from fluent.

Would add if I could speak the language I would be living in Normandy or Brittany right now. Not for the wrong reasons, I just like the countryside and lack of people there, oh and the open roads  ;D

Mike
Title: Re: i am kicking myself
Post by: Chopsdad on 20 November 2008, 22:26:13
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when i was at school i was learning french. never got on with the teacher. she sent a letter to my folks explaining that i was wasting her time learning french and should think about learning another subject. i took this personaly so mjy folks bought  me some french text books  and i ended up getting 91% in my exams . the text books were called tricolour i think. am looking for the link and will post as soon as i fin d it. good luck.

These were the ones used in my school 20 years ago.

I usually find going to Spain helps - they all speak English there  ;)
Title: Re: i am kicking myself
Post by: Jay w on 20 November 2008, 22:35:27
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I understand how you feel, we spend a fair bit of time in France as well, I would love to be able to speak french but it is way beyond me.
I am fortunate enough that my wife can just speak enough to get by in restaurants and shops etc. but she is far from fluent.

Would add if I could speak the language I would be living in Normandy or Brittany right now. Not for the wrong reasons, I just like the countryside and lack of people there, oh and the open roads  ;D

Mike


long term this is the plan, try to develop our business and then sell it to finance our retirement in the south of France.

The company i am working for is french as well so i am coming more and more in contact with the French on a daily basis
Title: Re: i am kicking myself
Post by: HolyCount on 20 November 2008, 22:48:46
Sounds daft -- but try to get hold of some kids books in french and listen to Henri Des (French kids entertainer). Start from basics. My in laws live in South of France every time I visit I arrive unable to speak a word and leave being at least able to understand whats going on --- total immersion.  I find watching TV progs I know in French helps too !!!!
Title: Re: i am kicking myself
Post by: Mr Skrunts on 20 November 2008, 22:52:52
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Title: Re: i am kicking myself
Post by: Gaffers on 21 November 2008, 09:30:19
I'm fluent, pm me with your questions and I'll be happy to oblige  :y
Title: Re: i am kicking myself
Post by: bappy on 21 November 2008, 14:13:17
absolument, les livres de 'tricolour' sont les livres que j'ai utilise au lycee. Ils sont bien fait.

I can't speak properly in french but I can make myself understood. best thing to do is listen to someone talking french. get your favorite dvd box set and stick it on french language. put the english subtitles up to help if you get bored or dont understand.

The problem that I found with french is that the french people ignore their own gramatical rules. they say j'ai pas.... instead of je n'ai pas out of simple lazyness and so on. textbooks don't teach you this so getting used to hearing french people speak in the way they normally would is of great benefit - thats where dvds help.
Title: Re: i am kicking myself
Post by: Danny on 21 November 2008, 14:16:02
hated french at school, with a passion, i cant understand it when spoken to me, and i cant speak it, but to a degree I can understand it written

it was also the subject I got my highest grade in at school  :-/
Title: Re: i am kicking myself
Post by: Martin_1962 on 21 November 2008, 14:19:33
Buy a  few French films, start with Taxi series, that will help
Title: Re: i am kicking myself
Post by: gwa on 21 November 2008, 15:58:56
Mon Deu (as Dell Boy would say) avey vous urn cuppa.... merci bueaquet mon ami. Ovoir

Maybe you can send me a copy of your books  ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: i am kicking myself
Post by: Lizzie_Zoom on 21 November 2008, 16:00:13
Many years ago now I started with a Readers Digest set of "Learning French" tapes and books, went to evening classes and bought various records and publications (BBC I think).  After a few months I learnt how to read, write, and speak French  quite satisfactorily. 8-) 8-) 8-) 8-)

Then I went to France to practice, but after not practising for years I now hardly know any of that language at all!! ::) ::) ::)   Damn shame, and especially when I have French speakers all round me at uni! ::) ::) ::)

If you live in France for any length of time and HAVE to use it as your everyday communication I reckon, like with most languages, you can learn it with full retention for years after. :D :D ;)
Title: Re: i am kicking myself
Post by: HolyCount on 21 November 2008, 17:19:42
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absolument, les livres de 'tricolour' sont les livres que j'ai utilise au lycee. Ils sont bien fait.

I can't speak properly in french but I can make myself understood. best thing to do is listen to someone talking french. get your favorite dvd box set and stick it on french language. put the english subtitles up to help if you get bored or dont understand.

The problem that I found with french is that the french people ignore their own gramatical rules. they say j'ai pas.... instead of je n'ai pas out of simple lazyness and so on. textbooks don't teach you this so getting used to hearing french people speak in the way they normally would is of great benefit - thats where dvds help.

As over here -- they also have there own regional dialects, which can be quite off putting !
Title: Re: i am kicking myself
Post by: Lizzie_Zoom on 21 November 2008, 17:22:29
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absolument, les livres de 'tricolour' sont les livres que j'ai utilise au lycee. Ils sont bien fait.

I can't speak properly in french but I can make myself understood. best thing to do is listen to someone talking french. get your favorite dvd box set and stick it on french language. put the english subtitles up to help if you get bored or dont understand.

The problem that I found with french is that the french people ignore their own gramatical rules. they say j'ai pas.... instead of je n'ai pas out of simple lazyness and so on. textbooks don't teach you this so getting used to hearing french people speak in the way they normally would is of great benefit - thats where dvds help.

As over here -- they also have there own regional dialects, which can be quite off putting !

Yes indeed especially in Zummerset and Bristall!! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;) Lovely areal though! ;D ;D ;)
Title: Re: i am kicking myself
Post by: bob.dent on 21 November 2008, 17:23:34
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Mon Deu (as Dell Boy would say) avey vous urn cuppa.... merci bueaquet mon ami. Ovoir

Maybe you can send me a copy of your books  ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D

Fromage frais! ;D ;D
Title: Re: i am kicking myself
Post by: bob.dent on 21 November 2008, 17:26:45
It's not much help to you, but I found the best way to learn a foreign language is to live there and pick it up as you go. I spent a couple of years working on German passenger ships based in Hamberg many years ago and ended up fairly fluent in German.
Title: Re: i am kicking myself
Post by: Richie London on 21 November 2008, 17:59:10
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I'm fluent, pm me with your questions and I'll be happy to oblige  :y


J'ai trouvé le français très difficile à apprendre, combien de temps at-il fallu pour vous apprendre la langue, ne vous parlent couramment ou juste des bribes  ;)
Title: Re: i am kicking myself
Post by: miggy on 21 November 2008, 18:02:13
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I'm fluent, pm me with your questions and I'll be happy to oblige  :y


J'ai trouvé le français très difficile à apprendre, combien de temps at-il fallu pour vous apprendre la langue, ne vous parlent couramment ou juste des bribes  ;)

Here, Here   ;D ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: i am kicking myself
Post by: LaserLance on 21 November 2008, 18:02:28
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I'm fluent, pm me with your questions and I'll be happy to oblige  :y


J'ai trouvé le français très difficile à apprendre, combien de temps at-il fallu pour vous apprendre la langue, ne vous parlent couramment ou juste des bribes  ;)
I had that said to me by a french gendarmes as he asked for a bunge off 200  francs  ::) ;) ;)
Title: Re: i am kicking myself
Post by: Gaffers on 21 November 2008, 20:57:37
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I'm fluent, pm me with your questions and I'll be happy to oblige  :y


J'ai trouvé le français très difficile à apprendre, combien de temps at-il fallu pour vous apprendre la langue, ne vous parlent couramment ou juste des bribes  ;)

J'ai vecu cinq ans a Paris, les grenouilles me traitent de menteur quand je leur dis que chuis (slang for je suis) un rosbif  ;D ;D

What I do like about the french language is that you pronounce it exactly as it is spelt.  So if you can pronounce a word you can spell it and visa versa :y