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Title: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: Marie on 25 January 2009, 15:14:11
hes gone away again because of work and i am left at home with our wee boy and hounds.

only 13 sleeps to go! i hate it when we are apart i feel empty and lonely. :'( :'( :'( :'(

some say enjoy the peace and quiet but it gets boaring after a few hours.
Title: Re: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: Lizzie_Zoom on 25 January 2009, 15:23:35
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hes gone away again because of work and i am left at home with our wee boy and hounds.

only 13 sleeps to go! i hate it when we are apart i feel empty and lonely. :'( :'( :'( :'(

some say enjoy the peace and quiet but it gets boaring after a few hours.

I can imagine Marie! :( :(

Although my ex and I always worked without being away for more than two days at a time, I remember my father being away from home on voyages aboard Royal Navy ships over a period of 26 years, and my mum was left alone for many months on end at a time!  :( :(

The strange thing was she seemed to thrive on it!! ::) ::) ::) :D ;)
Title: Re: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: Andy B on 25 January 2009, 15:33:05
I sailed in Jan & returned in May/June 3 years on the trot. That was before we had kids though. SWMBO was very often very lonely as all the family were still up North. :(
Title: Re: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: stuart30 on 25 January 2009, 15:56:18
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hes gone away again because of work and i am left at home with our wee boy and hounds.

only 13 sleeps to go! i hate it when we are apart i feel empty and lonely. :'( :'( :'( :'(

some say enjoy the peace and quiet but it gets boaring after a few hours.


But on the plus side doesnt it make being together all the more special. :y
Title: Re: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: Darth Loo-knee on 25 January 2009, 16:28:10
All I will say is Ann Summers  ;D
Title: Re: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: cem_devecioglu on 25 January 2009, 16:35:32
You remind me the job that I have many many years ago..

Was making 2000 kms a week every night sleeping in a different hotels .. I was nearly loosing myself..After an accident I decided to quit..

May be nice in summer but in winter ..

But also sitting in a room in front of pc whole day is also boring and unhealthy..

Title: Re: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: Kevin Wood on 25 January 2009, 16:45:17
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You remind me the job that I have many many years ago..

Was making 2000 kms a week every night sleeping in a different hotels .. I was nearly loosing myself..After an accident I decided to quit..

May be nice in summer but in winter ..

But also sitting in a room in front of pc whole day is also boring and unhealthy..


So what do we do on Sunday? Yep - you guessed. Sit in a room in front of a PC. ::)

Still, I have an excuse. The weather's rubbish.

Kevin
Title: Re: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: cem_devecioglu on 25 January 2009, 16:49:15
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You remind me the job that I have many many years ago..

Was making 2000 kms a week every night sleeping in a different hotels .. I was nearly loosing myself..After an accident I decided to quit..

May be nice in summer but in winter ..

But also sitting in a room in front of pc whole day is also boring and unhealthy..


So what do we do on Sunday? Yep - you guessed. Sit in a room in front of a PC. ::)

Still, I have an excuse. The weather's rubbish.

Kevin

The weather is rubbish here also ;D

But problem is whatever the weather and season is I need to stay whole day and sometimes nights (for job) to stay in front of the pc and eat and code..

The only good part is if  I'm not busy I can chat in OOF.. :y


Title: Re: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: amigov6 on 25 January 2009, 17:10:12
Hi Marie. Sorry you're feeling down. It's hard for me to understand 'cos i like being alone, never been very good at being one half of a couple, i'm just ME!!! I imagine your respective carreers, demanding as they are still lead to an early pension/retirement while you're both young enough to enjoy life........meanwhile we'll all keep you company! :D
Title: Re: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: Entwood on 25 January 2009, 17:15:45
Hi Marie .. just spoke to SWTSMBO about this .. she had 32 years of it !! - some detachments [falklands/gulf war 1 & 2/iraq] she was on her own for 4 months at a time .. :(

Her answer was to get an interest she could do indoors, so she took up card making / scrapbooking, shes says that getting involved in something practical/mentaly demanding took her mind off it .. sitting in front of the TV didn't.

Nothing can make up for the time apart, except getting back together can be fun .. he'll be home soon..

HTH
Title: Re: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: Marie on 25 January 2009, 17:45:06
cheers entwood it does help. i have plenty of things to keep my mind of it. OOF being one of them ;D ;D

i just miss the adult company and not being able to talk about our day together over dinner.

i just need to get a grip of myself and get on with it!!!  :-[
Title: Re: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: dispondent 1 on 26 January 2009, 06:41:52
 ;D wait till you have been married 25 years you will be like my wife ( cant wait for me to p-ss off)  :D ;D
Title: Re: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: Marks DTM Calib on 26 January 2009, 08:58:46
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Hi Marie .. just spoke to SWTSMBO about this .. she had 32 years of it !! - some detachments [falklands/gulf war 1 & 2/iraq] she was on her own for 4 months at a time .. :(

Her answer was to get an interest she could do outdoors, so she took up card making / scrapbooking, shes says that getting involved in something practical/mentaly demanding took her mind off it .. sitting in front of the TV didn't.

Nothing can make up for the time apart, except getting back together can be fun .. he'll be home soon..

HTH


Maybe dogging fits the bill in this case  :y :y
Title: Re: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: Elite Pete on 26 January 2009, 09:04:40
I've always said me working away from home is the only reason me and the wife are still together and its true, since work has dried up and i'm at home we argue like cat and dog.
Title: Re: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: cem_devecioglu on 26 January 2009, 09:25:31
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I've always said me working away from home is the only reason me and the wife are still together and its true, since work has dried up and i'm at home we argue like cat and dog.

dont worry same happens to most ;D :y

and my solution(s) to that problem

if budget is ok  > go shopping

budget not ok > wash miggy and clit and polish them together..

after we are tired and nobody has power to argue ;D ;D :y
Title: Re: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: doog on 26 January 2009, 09:37:40
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hes gone away again because of work and i am left at home with our wee boy and hounds.

only 13 sleeps to go! i hate it when we are apart i feel empty and lonely. :'( :'( :'( :'(

some say enjoy the peace and quiet but it gets boaring after a few hours.

It will make your relationship better trust me
I used to work away from home we got on very well when i was home.
after we had kids i stopped working away from home and had to work alot harder to make things work as we were in each others way alot more.
it sux when their gone but you will spend way more quality time together believe it or not  and you wont take each other for granted.

Doug
Title: Re: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: Marie on 26 January 2009, 11:46:06
you are soooooooooo right  doug.

i feel better today think its because i was just not ready for him to go away again. ;D ;D

Title: Re: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: Richie London on 26 January 2009, 12:02:58
i loved working away when i was with my x, was nice to come home to a family. but i do love living alone now, after 6 yrs you get used to it. peace and quiet, watch what i like on tv. and come and go as i please. kids come and stay when they like. has its downfalls though, have to cook and clean myself now, and no sex when i get in from the pub. cant have eveyrthing i guess  :)
Title: Re: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: Richie London on 26 January 2009, 12:09:08
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you are soooooooooo right  doug.

i feel better today think its because i was just not ready for him to go away again. ;D ;D



send him a nice little card, let him know  ;)
http://cards.lovingyou.com/gallery/gallery.cgi?mdb=gallery&cat=ldr
Title: Re: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: stuart30 on 26 January 2009, 18:29:33
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i loved working away when i was with my x, was nice to come home to a family. but i do love living alone now, after 6 yrs you get used to it. peace and quiet, watch what i like on tv. and come and go as i please. kids come and stay when they like. has its downfalls though, have to cook and clean myself now, and no sex when i get in from the pub. cant have eveyrthing i guess  :)

Actually i could help out there....got a few filipina"s on the books and could do a discount for a fellow Omega owner.... :y ;D

(The uglier and the worse the English the cheaper they come. ;D)
Title: Re: I am begining to hate ours jobs........
Post by: Richie London on 26 January 2009, 18:38:27
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i loved working away when i was with my x, was nice to come home to a family. but i do love living alone now, after 6 yrs you get used to it. peace and quiet, watch what i like on tv. and come and go as i please. kids come and stay when they like. has its downfalls though, have to cook and clean myself now, and no sex when i get in from the pub. cant have eveyrthing i guess  :)

Actually i could help out there....got a few filipina"s on the books and could do a discount for a fellow Omega owner.... :y ;D

(The uglier and the worse the English the cheaper they come. ;D)


i quite like ting tong from little britain  ;D