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Post by: bertiecbx550 on 13 February 2009, 23:14:34
At approx 8pm tonight my mother passed away peacefully in her home with myself and my dad in attendance she suffered no pain in her final days....I have suffered a great loss i have lost my mum words cannot describe how i feel about her all i can do is now try to help my dad and older brother through this and greive in my own way...Thanx for all your well wishes guys and gals and dont forget to tell your loved ones how you feel about them life is way too short  :'(
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Post by: hotel21 on 13 February 2009, 23:15:29
My most sincere condolences......   :'(
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Post by: markey mark on 13 February 2009, 23:15:44
sorry to hear that mate  :'( :'(
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Post by: CaptainZok on 13 February 2009, 23:18:50
Very sorry to hear that mate, stay strong for your Dad he'll need you at the mo.
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Post by: Martin_1962 on 13 February 2009, 23:20:14
My condolences and better to go peacefully

Look out for each other :(
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Post by: Mr Skrunts on 13 February 2009, 23:21:48
A very sad loss matey, be strong.
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Post by: albitz on 13 February 2009, 23:26:22
Very sorry for your sad loss Bertie,she is at peace now,no more suffering.You,your dad and your brother will all need to lean on each other at the moment.
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Post by: Lazydocker on 13 February 2009, 23:33:20
I can only echo the comments of others... We will all be thinking of you and your family at this tough time :y :y

Keep strong for each other and take some comfort in the knowledge that she went with no pain and at home surrounded by the people she loved.
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Post by: Andy B on 13 February 2009, 23:35:44
Sincere condolences.
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Post by: Lizzie_Zoom on 13 February 2009, 23:36:22
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I can only echo the comments of others... We will all be thinking of you and your family at this tough time :y :y

Keep strong for each other and take some comfort in the knowledge that she went with no pain and at home surrounded by the people she loved.


Cannot put it better myself, and she has gone to a far better world.
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Post by: The Red Baron on 13 February 2009, 23:37:34
Very sorry to hear the bad news :(. our thoughts are with you mate.  ;)
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Post by: zippo on 13 February 2009, 23:37:36
very sorry for your loss ,my condolences to you and your family
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Post by: Vamps on 13 February 2009, 23:39:07
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I can only echo the comments of others... We will all be thinking of you and your family at this tough time :y :y

Keep strong for each other and take some comfort in the knowledge that she went with no pain and at home surrounded by the people she loved.


Cannot put it better myself, and she has gone to a far better world.

I have to agree, so sorry for your loss.
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Post by: amigov6 on 13 February 2009, 23:45:12
At least she went peacefully knowing you all love her.
    Thoughts with you mate, all your friends on here are with you. Guy.
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Post by: Pete Elite on 13 February 2009, 23:47:17
My thoughts are with you and your family tonight my friend :(.
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Post by: Lioned on 14 February 2009, 00:08:21
I still think of my mum,its been 6 years now,hope your mum had a good life bertie,remember the good times.
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Post by: Kevin Wood on 14 February 2009, 00:11:50
Really sorry to hear this. Our thoughts are with you.

Kevin
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Post by: SP_3.2 on 14 February 2009, 00:25:27
Very sorry for your loss  thoughtd with you and you family
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Post by: Nickbat on 14 February 2009, 00:39:53
It's difficult at this time, I know, but try not to think so much of the loss, but how very privileged you were to have such a great mum. You were much luckier than many others and she helped make you what you are today.

I lost my mum in 1980. I was so lucky to have been raised by her. I can never be thankful enough. I was blessed, as you have been.

Be strong for your dad and brother.

Nick  
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Post by: Entwood on 14 February 2009, 01:17:41
Thoughts are with you at a very difficult time... this is easy to say .. but hard to do ... try and remember the good times and don't dwell on the bad times. Time will help, but you never forget, after 3 years I still miss my Mum .. and I'm not exactly a youngster.

The rest of the family need you to be strong, but that doesn't mean you can't grieve or get upset.. you are as entitled to "blub" as the everyone else ... so do it....  then take the proverbial "deep breath" and do as "Mum" would have wanted.

Take care ..   :y :y
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Post by: Gaffers on 14 February 2009, 05:39:38
My thoughts and prayers are with you and you family.  I know it was inevitable but I am sure that makes the pain no less difficult to bear.  I am glad she suffered no pain and she went in her sleep.  I think it has been mentioned already but focussing on good memories is a good way to grieve, don't dwell on any negatives you don't have to.  And I know you are concerned about your father and your bro, as I would be, don't forget to give yourself some attention and time to grieve also.  :y
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Post by: nick v6 on 14 February 2009, 07:52:03
very sorry to here that mate

don't forget if you need a chat and a cuppa i'm only up the road in walsall not far from you
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Post by: Debs. on 14 February 2009, 07:55:04
Oh Bertie; I`m so sorry for your loss.
You`re so right, your Father and Brother really need you now more than ever.
The `coming days will be tough, but you must also be sure to take time for 'you'; to grieve and come to terms with 'your' loss.
It was surely the right thing for your Mum to come home to be with you all in her final days; your Mum left you precious memories of all the loving years shared as a family; it must be those 'happy' times that you remember and draw-upon as time passes.
Thinking of you.....

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Post by: Big Bri on 14 February 2009, 08:00:28
Words are not enough to express my sympathy and sorrow at your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers at this sad time
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Post by: Plomien on 14 February 2009, 08:07:13
My thoughts are with you and your family
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Post by: Auto Addict on 14 February 2009, 08:13:26
Sincere condolences mate.
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Post by: Miggy24 on 14 February 2009, 08:24:45
Sorry to hear that mate was only yesterday that it was my nans funel
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Post by: Richie London on 14 February 2009, 08:31:47
condolonces to you and your family.
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Post by: Jimbob on 14 February 2009, 08:43:29
So Sorry to hear that, I understad what you are going through, not good at all  :'(
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Post by: Elite Pete on 14 February 2009, 09:10:10
My sincere condolences, my thoughts are with you and your family :'(
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Post by: SheWhoMustNotBeOUTBID on 14 February 2009, 09:20:51
Very sorry to hear about your mum.  Jue and I are only a few mins up the road if you want to talk and are happy to pop in if you want, for any reason.  Make sure u take care of yourself. Our thoughts are with you hun.
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Post by: JueV6 on 14 February 2009, 09:22:33
Our most sincere condolences Bertie,

As above you know the addy i think or the phone number. :(
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Post by: webby23 on 14 February 2009, 09:24:36
Thoughts are with you mate.......take it easy and be strong........
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Post by: MadMark73 on 14 February 2009, 09:52:25
Our sincere condolences at your loss. Thoughts are with you and your ramily. Mark.
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Post by: mantagte on 14 February 2009, 10:33:45
sorry for your loss
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Post by: Dusty on 14 February 2009, 11:09:16
Sorry to hear the bad news.
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Post by: stuart30 on 14 February 2009, 11:13:07
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I can only echo the comments of others... We will all be thinking of you and your family at this tough time :y :y

Keep strong for each other and take some comfort in the knowledge that she went with no pain and at home surrounded by the people she loved
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Says it all mate...
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Post by: Welung666 on 14 February 2009, 11:23:47
You and your family have my deepest sympathies. I'm off next week so if you need any help with anything just let me know :y
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Post by: HolyCount on 14 February 2009, 11:34:04
Sorry to hear of your loss. When my mum passed I was given this poem. I still shed a tear when I read it ...... Be strong mate



Death Is Nothing At All
by Henry Scott Holland:


Death is nothing at all

I have only slipped away into the next room

I am I and you are you

Whatever we were to each other

That we are still

Call me by my old familiar name

Speak to me in the easy way you always used

Put no difference into your tone

Wear no forced air of solemnity or sorrow

Laugh as we always laughed

At the little jokes we always enjoyed together

Play, smile, think of me, pray for me

Let my name be ever the household word that it always was

Let it be spoken without effort

Without the ghost of a shadow in it

Life means all that it ever meant

It is the same as it ever was

There is absolute unbroken continuity

What is death but a negligible accident?

Why should I be out of mind

Because I am out of sight?

I am waiting for you for an interval

Somewhere very near

Just around the corner

All is well.

Nothing is past; nothing is lost

One brief moment and all will be as it was before

How we shall laugh at the trouble of parting when we meet again!
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Post by: Marks DTM Calib on 14 February 2009, 11:41:27
All the best Bertie

I lost my cousin this week very suddenly to (he was 31)
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Post by: stuart30 on 14 February 2009, 11:48:00
Seeing as its one of life"s certainties...its odd were never prepared for it. :-/
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Post by: shyboy on 14 February 2009, 11:53:49
Very sorry to hear that, Bertie. Be as strong as you can. We're all thinking about you.
Bill.
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Post by: STMO123 on 14 February 2009, 12:16:12
Deepest sympathy mate. I really feel for you. :(
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Post by: Tommy on 14 February 2009, 12:23:26
Sorry to hear of your loss.
Below is from my great great great grandparents headstone

'Weep not for us
Our children dear
We did not die
But are sleeping here
We were not loved
By you alone
God loved us most
And took us home'
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Post by: Andyb on 14 February 2009, 13:31:57
my thoughts are with u mate





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Post by: sluggi on 14 February 2009, 16:14:52
very sorry for your loss ,my condolences to you and your family
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Post by: mars on 14 February 2009, 16:28:57
Really sorry to hear your bad news mate :(
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Post by: Big Fra on 14 February 2009, 17:41:05
So sorry to hear about your loss.

You know where we are if you need to waste away some time. :y

My thoughts go out to you and yours.

Take care.
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Post by: cem_devecioglu on 14 February 2009, 17:47:13
I'm sorry to hear this..

Words are meaningless in those moments..

Mothers are special to everyone.. :(





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Post by: Omegadoha, Desert Member on 14 February 2009, 19:08:50
Very sorry to hear about your loss. May her soul rest in peace.
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Post by: sir moanalot on 14 February 2009, 19:56:25
Very sorry for your sad loss Bertie.
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Post by: Kieran on 14 February 2009, 21:28:26
Sorry to hear about your loss mate. Take care.
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Post by: redelitev6 on 14 February 2009, 22:20:53
Sorry about your bad news,all the best to you and your family