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Title: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: STMO123 on 19 April 2009, 19:43:18
....about all the trouble on the forum this week, here it is in all it's glory:

We were having our usual banter and the ladies were ganging up so I told them that they were witches. After a few more posts LJay posted "Cackle, cackle"
In reply I posted "Sounds like your breathers need cleaning"
For some reason, Kris then posted something like "That's not breathers need cleaning, that's a gob wants closing that mate"

LJay quite rightly took offence, and so did Jimbob, and a few others, and it all went downhill from there. That is it in all it's glory.

Whilst I realise that this was the latest in a spate of disagreements lately, it really wasn't that bad. People who weren't privvy to the goings on must be thinking that it was an exceptionally bad episode. It wasn't.

I haven't spoken about it so far, but now everyone knows what started it, I'm sure you'll agree it wasn't a big deal. The overreaction was stunning.

I suggest that if things appear to be going that way again, that WE(incl me) take a few minutes to consider before typing anything.
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: Dazzler on 19 April 2009, 20:00:03
Trust you to have been in the middle of it ::) :D
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: miggy on 19 April 2009, 20:05:20
You again.... ;D ;D
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: STMO123 on 19 April 2009, 20:09:07
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You again.... ;D ;D

Sorry I didn't get back right away Pete, but I was considering before posting......................


TW*T!
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: Del Boy on 19 April 2009, 20:10:30
Had to be involved didn't ya  ;) ;)  :y
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: miggy on 19 April 2009, 20:15:17
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You again.... ;D ;D

Sorry I didn't get back right away Pete, but I was considering before posting......................


TW*T!


 ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: Welung666 on 19 April 2009, 20:16:58
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You again.... ;D ;D

Sorry I didn't get back right away Pete, but I was considering before posting......................


TW*T!

 ;D ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: Taxi_Driver on 19 April 2009, 20:24:52
Thats the trouble with message boards........same as text messages.......the sender knows what they mean, usually they think a witty comment, but the receiver misreads it and takes offence.

Hence why i try to never post anything that might seem offensive to some, and the same with text messages.....unless in the case of texts i know the person really well and i know they will know im joking, tho even then sometimes I had to call them and explain what i meant  ::) :y
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: Welung666 on 19 April 2009, 20:26:50
I agree totally TD, however thats why there are smiley faces ;) They are emoticons to show how what has been typed is meant :y Hence me using lots and lots of them, to make sure I'm not misunderstood.
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: Taxi_Driver on 19 April 2009, 20:34:35
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I agree totally TD, however thats why there are smiley faces ;) They are emoticons to show how what has been typed is meant :y Hence me using lots and lots of them, to make sure I'm not misunderstood.

Some peeps tend not to look at the smilies tho or if they do dont understand them......ive read threads where the orig poster has used smilies and to me i know they are taking the pee......but some early replies to the thread are totally serious  ;)
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: STMO123 on 19 April 2009, 20:36:23
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I agree totally TD, however thats why there are smiley faces ;) They are emoticons to show how what has been typed is meant :y Hence me using lots and lots of them, to make sure I'm not misunderstood.

Some peeps tend not to look at the smilies tho or if they do dont understand them......ive read threads where the orig poster has used smilies and to me i know they are taking the pee......but some early replies to the thread are totally serious  ;)

And some peolpe use so many, it's akin to cyber-guerning ;D ;D
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: TheBoy on 19 April 2009, 20:39:09
STM - there was more to it than that single thread.

There has been, and still is under the surface, a problem with part of the forum, and its a volatile situation.
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: STMO123 on 19 April 2009, 20:45:16
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STM - there was more to it than that single thread.

There has been, and still is under the surface, a problem with part of the forum, and its a volatile situation.

That may be the case Jaime, I dont know, or want to know. But that particular thread was what kicked it off the other night.

If these 'undercurrents' continue, then perhaps a clear warning, followed by a clear-out may be in order. If people are waiting to go off half cocked because of personal grudges, then I cant see any way of stopping it, other than real-time moderating (out of the question, I know).
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: Darth Loo-knee on 19 April 2009, 20:46:59
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I agree totally TD, however thats why there are smiley faces ;) They are emoticons to show how what has been typed is meant :y Hence me using lots and lots of them, to make sure I'm not misunderstood.

Some peeps tend not to look at the smilies tho or if they do dont understand them......ive read threads where the orig poster has used smilies and to me i know they are taking the pee......but some early replies to the thread are totally serious  ;)

Never Dave?  ::)
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: Darth Loo-knee on 19 April 2009, 20:49:32
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STM - there was more to it than that single thread.

There has been, and still is under the surface, a problem with part of the forum, and its a volatile situation.

That may be the case Jaime, I dont know, or want to know. But that particular thread was what kicked it off the other night.

If these 'undercurrents' continue, then perhaps a clear warning, followed by a clear-out may be in order. If people are waiting to go off half cocked because of personal grudges, then I cant see any way of stopping it, other than real-time moderating (out of the question, I know).

If people don't tow the line after a warning then break em off :y We don't want this Forum being ruined >:(
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: STMO123 on 19 April 2009, 20:51:33
Anyway, I've said enough now. If I see a thread going the way of that particular thread, I will not post in it again. If everyone did the same, it would soon go away (or be left to the idiots who want to have a go).
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: Welung666 on 19 April 2009, 20:53:09
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STM - there was more to it than that single thread.

There has been, and still is under the surface, a problem with part of the forum, and its a volatile situation.

That may be the case Jaime, I dont know, or want to know. But that particular thread was what kicked it off the other night.

If these 'undercurrents' continue, then perhaps a clear warning, followed by a clear-out may be in order. If people are waiting to go off half cocked because of personal grudges, then I cant see any way of stopping it, other than real-time moderating (out of the question, I know).

If people don't tow the line after a warning then break em off :y We don't want this Forum being ruined >:(

Real time moderating is very difficult with just 4 admins Steve. No we don't want to ruin it Daz it's how we all deal with it that matters. The more we keep bringing it up and repeating the same thing on different threads the longer it will continue. If everybody stopped then it would soon settle back down. Thats my tuppence worth anyway :P
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: STMO123 on 19 April 2009, 20:53:10
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STM - there was more to it than that single thread.

There has been, and still is under the surface, a problem with part of the forum, and its a volatile situation.

That may be the case Jaime, I dont know, or want to know. But that particular thread was what kicked it off the other night.

If these 'undercurrents' continue, then perhaps a clear warning, followed by a clear-out may be in order. If people are waiting to go off half cocked because of personal grudges, then I cant see any way of stopping it, other than real-time moderating (out of the question, I know).

If people don't tow the line after a warning then break em off :y We don't want this Forum being ruined >:(

The voice of our would-be mod ;D ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: Field Marshal Dr. Opti on 19 April 2009, 20:53:25
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....about all the trouble on the forum this week, here it is in all it's glory:

We were having our usual banter and the ladies were ganging up so I told them that they were witches. After a few more posts LJay posted "Cackle, cackle"
In reply I posted "Sounds like your breathers need cleaning"
For some reason, Kris then posted something like "That's not breathers need cleaning, that's a gob wants closing that mate"

LJay quite rightly took offence, and so did Jimbob, and a few others, and it all went downhill from there. That is it in all it's glory.

Whilst I realise that this was the latest in a spate of disagreements lately, it really wasn't that bad. People who weren't privvy to the goings on must be thinking that it was an exceptionally bad episode. It wasn't.

I haven't spoken about it so far, but now everyone knows what started it, I'm sure you'll agree it wasn't a big deal. The overreaction was stunning.

I suggest that if things appear to be going that way again, that WE(incl me) take a few minutes to consider before typing anything.


So it was all your fault then ..... ::) ::) ;)
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: Taxi_Driver on 19 April 2009, 20:54:39
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I agree totally TD, however thats why there are smiley faces ;) They are emoticons to show how what has been typed is meant :y Hence me using lots and lots of them, to make sure I'm not misunderstood.

Some peeps tend not to look at the smilies tho or if they do dont understand them......ive read threads where the orig poster has used smilies and to me i know they are taking the pee......but some early replies to the thread are totally serious  ;)

Never Dave?  ::)

Good example there Daz......you've highlighted my text and asked me a question.....but i dont understand why your asking me a question on the text you've highlighted.....i can only guess

I will guess at you think i meant you, and if i am correct, actually i was thinking of someone else   ;) :)
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: Darth Loo-knee on 19 April 2009, 20:54:52
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Anyway, I've said enough now. If I see a thread going the way of that particular thread, I will not post in it again. If everyone did the same, it would soon go away (or be left to the idiots who want to have a go).

I think if at some stage it happens again we as members should put a stop to it before it gets out of hand to the point where the Mods/Admin have to stand in :y
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: STMO123 on 19 April 2009, 20:55:46
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....about all the trouble on the forum this week, here it is in all it's glory:

We were having our usual banter and the ladies were ganging up so I told them that they were witches. After a few more posts LJay posted "Cackle, cackle"
In reply I posted "Sounds like your breathers need cleaning"
For some reason, Kris then posted something like "That's not breathers need cleaning, that's a gob wants closing that mate"

LJay quite rightly took offence, and so did Jimbob, and a few others, and it all went downhill from there. That is it in all it's glory.

Whilst I realise that this was the latest in a spate of disagreements lately, it really wasn't that bad. People who weren't privvy to the goings on must be thinking that it was an exceptionally bad episode. It wasn't.

I haven't spoken about it so far, but now everyone knows what started it, I'm sure you'll agree it wasn't a big deal. The overreaction was stunning.

I suggest that if things appear to be going that way again, that WE(incl me) take a few minutes to consider before typing anything.


So it was all your fault then ..... ::) ::) ;)

It appears so.. :(   ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: Taxi_Driver on 19 April 2009, 20:58:35
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....about all the trouble on the forum this week, here it is in all it's glory:

We were having our usual banter and the ladies were ganging up so I told them that they were witches. After a few more posts LJay posted "Cackle, cackle"
In reply I posted "Sounds like your breathers need cleaning"
For some reason, Kris then posted something like "That's not breathers need cleaning, that's a gob wants closing that mate"

LJay quite rightly took offence, and so did Jimbob, and a few others, and it all went downhill from there. That is it in all it's glory.

Whilst I realise that this was the latest in a spate of disagreements lately, it really wasn't that bad. People who weren't privvy to the goings on must be thinking that it was an exceptionally bad episode. It wasn't.

I haven't spoken about it so far, but now everyone knows what started it, I'm sure you'll agree it wasn't a big deal. The overreaction was stunning.

I suggest that if things appear to be going that way again, that WE(incl me) take a few minutes to consider before typing anything.


So it was all your fault then ..... ::) ::) ;)

It appears so.. :(   ;D ;D ;D

I think we should ban all members that dont own an omega  :y :y

Oh buggar, just remembered summat  :-[ ;D ;D
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: STMO123 on 19 April 2009, 20:59:36
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....about all the trouble on the forum this week, here it is in all it's glory:

We were having our usual banter and the ladies were ganging up so I told them that they were witches. After a few more posts LJay posted "Cackle, cackle"
In reply I posted "Sounds like your breathers need cleaning"
For some reason, Kris then posted something like "That's not breathers need cleaning, that's a gob wants closing that mate"

LJay quite rightly took offence, and so did Jimbob, and a few others, and it all went downhill from there. That is it in all it's glory.

Whilst I realise that this was the latest in a spate of disagreements lately, it really wasn't that bad. People who weren't privvy to the goings on must be thinking that it was an exceptionally bad episode. It wasn't.

I haven't spoken about it so far, but now everyone knows what started it, I'm sure you'll agree it wasn't a big deal. The overreaction was stunning.

I suggest that if things appear to be going that way again, that WE(incl me) take a few minutes to consider before typing anything.


So it was all your fault then ..... ::) ::) ;)

It appears so.. :(   ;D ;D ;D

I think we should ban all members that dont own an omega  :y :y

Oh buggar, just remembered summat  :-[ ;D ;D

Anyone that doesn't own a vauxhall...... :y
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: Darth Loo-knee on 19 April 2009, 21:01:50
Anyone with an A in there name tonight  ;D
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: Taxi_Driver on 19 April 2009, 21:02:05
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....about all the trouble on the forum this week, here it is in all it's glory:

We were having our usual banter and the ladies were ganging up so I told them that they were witches. After a few more posts LJay posted "Cackle, cackle"
In reply I posted "Sounds like your breathers need cleaning"
For some reason, Kris then posted something like "That's not breathers need cleaning, that's a gob wants closing that mate"

LJay quite rightly took offence, and so did Jimbob, and a few others, and it all went downhill from there. That is it in all it's glory.

Whilst I realise that this was the latest in a spate of disagreements lately, it really wasn't that bad. People who weren't privvy to the goings on must be thinking that it was an exceptionally bad episode. It wasn't.

I haven't spoken about it so far, but now everyone knows what started it, I'm sure you'll agree it wasn't a big deal. The overreaction was stunning.

I suggest that if things appear to be going that way again, that WE(incl me) take a few minutes to consider before typing anything.


So it was all your fault then ..... ::) ::) ;)

It appears so.. :(   ;D ;D ;D

I think we should ban all members that dont own an omega  :y :y

Oh buggar, just remembered summat  :-[ ;D ;D

Anyone that doesn't own a vauxhall...... :y

That'll be me then  :-[ :-[
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: Darth Loo-knee on 19 April 2009, 21:02:47
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....about all the trouble on the forum this week, here it is in all it's glory:

We were having our usual banter and the ladies were ganging up so I told them that they were witches. After a few more posts LJay posted "Cackle, cackle"
In reply I posted "Sounds like your breathers need cleaning"
For some reason, Kris then posted something like "That's not breathers need cleaning, that's a gob wants closing that mate"

LJay quite rightly took offence, and so did Jimbob, and a few others, and it all went downhill from there. That is it in all it's glory.

Whilst I realise that this was the latest in a spate of disagreements lately, it really wasn't that bad. People who weren't privvy to the goings on must be thinking that it was an exceptionally bad episode. It wasn't.

I haven't spoken about it so far, but now everyone knows what started it, I'm sure you'll agree it wasn't a big deal. The overreaction was stunning.

I suggest that if things appear to be going that way again, that WE(incl me) take a few minutes to consider before typing anything.


So it was all your fault then ..... ::) ::) ;)

It appears so.. :(   ;D ;D ;D

I think we should ban all members that dont own an omega  :y :y

Oh buggar, just remembered summat  :-[ ;D ;D

Anyone that doesn't own a vauxhall...... :y

That'll be me then  :-[ :-[

Lmao  ;D ;D ;D
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: Taxi_Driver on 19 April 2009, 21:08:27
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....about all the trouble on the forum this week, here it is in all it's glory:

We were having our usual banter and the ladies were ganging up so I told them that they were witches. After a few more posts LJay posted "Cackle, cackle"
In reply I posted "Sounds like your breathers need cleaning"
For some reason, Kris then posted something like "That's not breathers need cleaning, that's a gob wants closing that mate"

LJay quite rightly took offence, and so did Jimbob, and a few others, and it all went downhill from there. That is it in all it's glory.

Whilst I realise that this was the latest in a spate of disagreements lately, it really wasn't that bad. People who weren't privvy to the goings on must be thinking that it was an exceptionally bad episode. It wasn't.

I haven't spoken about it so far, but now everyone knows what started it, I'm sure you'll agree it wasn't a big deal. The overreaction was stunning.

I suggest that if things appear to be going that way again, that WE(incl me) take a few minutes to consider before typing anything.


So it was all your fault then ..... ::) ::) ;)

It appears so.. :(   ;D ;D ;D

I think we should ban all members that dont own an omega  :y :y

Oh buggar, just remembered summat  :-[ ;D ;D

Anyone that doesn't own a vauxhall...... :y

That'll be me then  :-[ :-[

Lmao  ;D ;D ;D

Mind you I do have a merc that at the moment is costing more than an omega to keep on the road......its off to the merc dealer on friday, to find out why the air suspension isnt working....thats gonna hurt  :(

Plus it drinks diesel faster than a V6 petrol Omega.......so as it costs more than an omega.......i think i should be classed as having one  :y ;D
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: STMO123 on 19 April 2009, 21:09:50
Yes. AA would cry if you left Dave ::)
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: amigov6 on 19 April 2009, 21:14:39
Seems like a minor issue that was resolved & should've stopped there. The cowardly emails & those who sent them will always annoy me.

   I HATE people like that. You know who you are, even though i don't.
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: Taxi_Driver on 19 April 2009, 21:15:16
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Yes. AA would cry if you left Dave ::)

Well according to looneys post above....AA's got to leave twice  ::) ;D
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: nick v6 on 19 April 2009, 21:15:56
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Seems like a minor issue that was resolved & should've stopped there. The cowardly emails & those who sent them will always annoy me.

   I HATE people like that. You know who you are, even though i don't.

someone will slip up and names will be said

i hate people that go around thinking that they own the place
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: STMO123 on 19 April 2009, 21:18:01
Enough of this trivia. Time for something serious.........Hells Kitchen :y ;D ;D
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: AndyVXR300 on 19 April 2009, 21:19:13
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Seems like a minor issue that was resolved & should've stopped there. The cowardly emails & those who sent them will always annoy me.

   I HATE people like that. You know who you are, even though i don't.

someone will slip up and names will be said

i hate people that go around thinking that they own the place


What goes around comes around as they say
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: nick v6 on 19 April 2009, 21:20:08
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Seems like a minor issue that was resolved & should've stopped there. The cowardly emails & those who sent them will always annoy me.

   I HATE people like that. You know who you are, even though i don't.

someone will slip up and names will be said

i hate people that go around thinking that they own the place


What goes around comes around as they say

110% agree with that :y
Title: Re: For anyone who is wandering what went on..
Post by: TheBoy on 19 April 2009, 21:23:30
thread has reached its conclusion, so locking, as this is breeding an unhealthy atmosphere on the site.