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Chat Area => General Discussion Area => Topic started by: cam2502 on 13 September 2009, 23:38:53
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Just got back from my girlfriends. She has been very strange with me for past couple of weeks,hardly any texts or calls and when we were together virtually no affection/hugs/kisses or any of the usual stuff. So tonight i asked her what was wrong and she bursts into tears with the "its not you its me" line. To cut a very long story short she says she still loves me.....but not as much as she did! Can somebody please tell me what the hell that means?
So after a long chat and floods of tears from her she says she doesnt know whats changed,she says i havnt done or said anything wrong or upset her or anything. So basically shes came away with this and cant give me a reason why. Up until tonight i thought we were hunky dory,we went out last weekend and had a great time,seen her couple times this week and shes been fine,then she hits me with this tonight.
A lot of you are probably thinking shes met someone else.....im 100% convinced she hasnt.
We have a family wedding on friday,now she says she needs a couple of days to sort her feelings out and cant tell me if she will be coming or not. Got a feeling she wont and thats the end of us.
Really fed up tonight and not usually one for pouring my heart out,but i thought one or two of the lady OOFers may have an insight. I know its late. Just dont know what to think. :'(
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Women are definately Aliens we will never work them out :)
Give your mates a shout and get yourself out Cam take your mind off things, maybe absense will make the heart grow fonder :y
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Just got back from my girlfriends. She has been very strange with me for past couple of weeks,hardly any texts or calls and when we were together virtually no affection/hugs/kisses or any of the usual stuff. So tonight i asked her what was wrong and she bursts into tears with the "its not you its me" line. To cut a very long story short she says she still loves me.....but not as much as she did! Can somebody please tell me what the hell that means?So after a long chat and floods of tears from her she says she doesnt know whats changed,she says i havnt done or said anything wrong or upset her or anything. So basically shes came away with this and cant give me a reason why. Up until tonight i thought we were hunky dory,we went out last weekend and had a great time,seen her couple times this week and shes been fine,then she hits me with this tonight.
A lot of you are probably thinking shes met someone else.....im 100% convinced she hasnt.
We have a family wedding on friday,now she says she needs a couple of days to sort her feelings out and cant tell me if she will be coming or not. Got a feeling she wont and thats the end of us.
Really fed up tonight and not usually one for pouring my heart out,but i thought one or two of the lady OOFers may have an insight. I know its late. Just dont know what to think. :'(
Cam you have to ask her, there's no point wondering about it.
There seems to be some problem here but speculation and second guessing will not get to the bottom of it.
Relationships will always face difficulties from time to time but this can be dealt with, for the most part, by dialogue between the parties - so ask direct questions and don't accept half-hearted answers.
The sooner you get answers to the questions you pose the sooner you will know what's happening and that will benifet you in the long run.
Good luck :y
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How long have you been together, its probably the standard itch of being together for a while.
Give her a few days, if she comes back nothing lost if she does then it means more time to spend doing other things :y
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To cut a very long story short she says she still loves me.....but not as much as she did! Can somebody please tell me what the hell that means?
It means she's met someone else.
Whether she's actually done anything behind your back or not is still up for question, but women only give the "It's not you, it's me" speech in an attempt to stop what they know will follow if they tell the truth.
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To cut a very long story short she says she still loves me.....but not as much as she did! Can somebody please tell me what the hell that means?
It means she's met someone else.
Whether she's actually done anything behind your back or not is still up for question, but women only give the "It's not you, it's me" speech in an attempt to stop what they know will follow if they tell the truth.
agreed..
she has met someone else.. I dont think something happened.. but the other guy seems to mix her mind..
and she's not sure what to do..
so, I recommend you give her more interest if you dont want to loose..
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dont want to say that but sooner or later you may have a problem with that girl friend.. start looking others :( :-/
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women, bloody expensive and unreliable things.
Thats why i got me a new motorbike, at 6k its cheaper than a women per year to run, starts first time, and when i get bored i just take the key out. ::)
Only thing it craves is petrol, which i can easily provide ;D
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women, bloody expensive and unreliable things.
Thats why i got me a new motorbike, at 6k its cheaper per year to run a women, starts first time, and when i get bored i just take the key out. ::)
Only thing it craves is petrol, which i can easily provide ;D
Tunnie, you are under high risk ;D
and probably you may upset some members ;D
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women, bloody expensive and unreliable things.
Thats why i got me a new motorbike, at 6k its cheaper per year to run a women, starts first time, and when i get bored i just take the key out. ::)
Only thing it craves is petrol, which i can easily provide ;D
Tunnie, you are under high risk ;D
and probably you may upset some members ;D
but true cem :D
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How the hell can a car or bike replace a woman?
Much as I like working on cars i'd much rather be working on a woman!
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How the hell can a car or bike replace a woman?
Much as I like working on cars i'd much rather be working on a woman!
Very easily!
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How the hell can a car or bike replace a woman?
Much as I like working on cars i'd much rather be working on a woman!
...regarding the type of tool to be used, which ones are best though, metric or imperial :-/ :-/ :-/ :-/
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I beleive it's a universal tool for all! ;D
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yup as others have said she`s probably got her eye on someone else, i got exactly the same speech from my ex, it turned out she had been chasing after some bloke for over a year, she did try & come back to me after her car failed the MOT & she was quoted £300 to put it right, & even better the bloke she was chasing turned out to be a chutney ferret ;D ;D anyhow i told her where to go ;) so go out & enjoy yourself & youll soon feel better :y
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Sorry to say mate, but I echo the sentiments of others here when they say that she's found somebody else.
Not what you wanted to hear I'm sure, but there's no other reason why she would change so quickly.
Some women (not all) are just snakes with tits.
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[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wjh-hNoY2Ms[/media]
cheer up m8 - s**t happens
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Just got back from my girlfriends. She has been very strange with me for past couple of weeks,hardly any texts or calls and when we were together virtually no affection/hugs/kisses or any of the usual stuff. So tonight i asked her what was wrong and she bursts into tears with the "its not you its me" line. To cut a very long story short she says she still loves me.....but not as much as she did! Can somebody please tell me what the hell that means?
So after a long chat and floods of tears from her she says she doesnt know whats changed,she says i havnt done or said anything wrong or upset her or anything. So basically shes came away with this and cant give me a reason why. Up until tonight i thought we were hunky dory,we went out last weekend and had a great time,seen her couple times this week and shes been fine,then she hits me with this tonight.
A lot of you are probably thinking shes met someone else.....im 100% convinced she hasnt.
We have a family wedding on friday,now she says she needs a couple of days to sort her feelings out and cant tell me if she will be coming or not. Got a feeling she wont and thats the end of us.
Really fed up tonight and not usually one for pouring my heart out,but i thought one or two of the lady OOFers may have an insight. I know its late. Just dont know what to think. :'(
If it's the end then so be it, theres no point in flogging away at a relationship thats failing. You will only end up building resentment and hating each other! Sometimes people just change and grow apart, not necessarily done anything or found anyone else just one of those things! Sad but true! Give her the space to work out what she wants, sometimes some time out can re-inforce what you have, things can just get too comfortable and stagnate!
Go out with your mates, have some fun and leave her to it! We women are complex beings and you'll save yourself a whole lot of heartache if you don't look too deeply into our strange ways! ;)
Chin up! :y
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Been there and got the t-shirt ...... i tend to agree with both views here .... there is something not right but is it another ??? mmmm .... then again as Ljay says sometimes things can just get stale and go cold .... its not easy though :'( :'( ..... sometimes i would love to go back to the single life .... the best fun i had was 5 years ago while being single , not having to worry about pleasing someone , do what you like when you like etc , not coming in from a 62hr week to tidy up after others >:( >:( >:( ..... sometimes i feel like getting my own place again and staying single for life ;D , its certainly easier ...... best to give her room and you never know you might enjoy it better single too . Plenty more fish in the sea as they say :y :y
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women, bloody expensive and unreliable things.
Thats why i got me a new motorbike, at 6k its cheaper than a women per year to run, starts first time, and when i get bored i just take the key out. ::)
Only thing it craves is petrol, which i can easily provide ;D
Very true Tunnie....................although the two are not directly comparable.
I enjoy the company of women ...........and would not like to be single again.
Best to enjoy a womans feminine curves.........and their special warm moist places and be happy in their company.
I find it best not to engage women on an intellectual level however............they have their limitations. :) :) :) :) ;) ;) ;) ;)
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It certainly is nice to have female company for the obvious reasons ..... its just the rest of the time you dont want them around ;D ;D
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It certainly is nice to have female company for the obvious reasons ..... its just the rest of the time you dont want them around ;D ;D
you can hire girl friends in hour slots lol :D
i got the same speech from my ex mrs she wasnt interested in sorting the problems out the next thing i find out is shes been going out with the slimmer model so i told her where to go killed me inside i dont want to be liek that again
im staying single much better i brought an rs turbo to keep satfied but that was just liek a women kept breaking down every month when you want some fun so i chopped it in for an omega like a FB they wont let you down ;D
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Give her some breathing space
i do know what logic is an unknown to them so while your sitting thinking WTF just happened she probably wont know too
let her know you care and leave her to work it out for herself
if you chase her you will chase her away
ps i if it all goes tits up and you want to go out on the piss im local(ish) :y
Doug
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Thanks for your replies and advice folks.Its helped a lot. :y
Iv noted a few good points,i reckon give her some time and wait and see is good advice and in the meantime i'll keep myself busy to take my mind of it.
For the ones who said shes seeing someone else, sorry guys theres no way. Im her 1st partner in 5 years after the break up of her marriage. Shes not the type to see guys on a whim. But i appreciate your comments non the less.
Doog.....cheers mate, may just take you up on that one day! :y
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Women are the strangest of strange things & WE will NEVER understand why they do & say what they do & say :-/ :-/ :-/ :-/
As for Tunnie's oppinion on owning a bike instead, if he wants to sit on something hard & throbbing then that's entirly his chioce ;D
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Women are the strangest of strange things & WE will NEVER understand why they do & say what they do & say :-/ :-/ :-/ :-/
As for Tunnie's oppinion on owning a bike instead, if he wants to sit on something hard & throbbing then that's entirly his chioce ;D
That explains why he didn't buy one with a finely balanced engine. It's the "washing machine on spin cycle" syndrome. ;D
kevin
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Women are the strangest of strange things & WE will NEVER understand why they do & say what they do & say :-/ :-/ :-/ :-/
As for Tunnie's oppinion on owning a bike instead, if he wants to sit on something hard & throbbing then that's entirly his chioce ;D
That explains why he didn't buy one with a finely balanced engine. It's the "washing machine on spin cycle" syndrome. ;D
kevin
;D ;D ;D :y
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Give her some breathing space
'dangle berries' to that.
I'd go & do the mother (and the sister if she has one), and then tell her that both were better in the sack than she was.
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Such a sensitive soul. ::) ;D ;D
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Such a sensitive soul. ::) ;D ;D
I pay everything in life back with 100% interest Albs ;)
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Give her some breathing space
'dangle berries' to that.
I'd go & do the mother (and the sister if she has one), and then tell her that both were better in the sack than she was.
However insensitive and inappropriate, that nearly made me spit my dinner ;D
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Give her some breathing space
'dangle berries' to that.
I'd go & do the mother (and the sister if she has one), and then tell her that both were better in the sack than she was.
However insensitive and inappropriate, that nearly made me spit my dinner ;D
That's another thing to throw at the bitch....you point out that she spits and her mother & sister swallow at the same time when you have them on a double act!
Whether it's true or not is neither here nor there, but a statement like that is guaranteed to give the bitch a complex ;D
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Most folk enjoy & need a marriage/relationship which is fine. Please understand that what you find close & comfy some of us (Myself & Tunnie) find claustrophobic, i've tried it a few times & it's too restrictive for me. After the loved up honeymoon period i feel really uncomfortable with domestic life & yearn for my own environment again. I still indulge in the occasional dalliance & in doing so have found many women are the same, it's not just a bloke thing.
Anyway i hope things work out, Guy. :y
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Give her some breathing space
'dangle berries' to that.
I'd go & do the mother (and the sister if she has one), and then tell her that both were better in the sack than she was.
;D
KillerWatt I start to like your style ;D :y
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Most folk enjoy & need a marriage/relationship which is fine. Please understand that what you find close & comfy some of us (Myself & Tunnie) find claustrophobic, i've tried it a few times & it's too restrictive for me. After the loved up honeymoon period i feel really uncomfortable with domestic life & yearn for my own environment again. I still indulge in the occasional dalliance & in doing so have found many women are the same, it's not just a bloke thing.
Anyway i hope things work out, Guy. :y
With this month i've lived by my self for nine years & i too enjoy the peace & quiet it brings :) Now i feel the time's right for a change. In the nine years i have had relationships, but the right one to live with has never arrived :-/
Liz is quite special & one in a million (probably, because she's too old for the monthly NIGHT MARE [smiley=evil.gif] [smiley=evil.gif] [smiley=evil.gif] [smiley=evil.gif])
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An appropriate song ?...........
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wTZVSUNkWTg[/media]
:)
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Give her some breathing space
'dangle berries' to that.
I'd go & do the mother (and the sister if she has one), and then tell her that both were better in the sack than she was.
;D
KillerWatt I start to like your style ;D :y
Brilliant :y
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How the hell can a car or bike replace a woman?
Much as I like working on cars i'd much rather be working on a woman!
Very easily!
Very, very easily !!! ;D
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Erm..
A replacement for a woman is another woman
not something on wheels ;D
but who knows what troubles will follow after :-/
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How the hell can a car or bike replace a woman?
Much as I like working on cars i'd much rather be working on a woman!
Very easily!
Very, very easily !!! ;D
Sounds like he hasnt experienced bikes. ;) ;D ;D
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How the hell can a car or bike replace a woman?
Much as I like working on cars i'd much rather be working on a woman!
Very easily!
Very, very easily !!! ;D
Sounds like he hasnt experienced bikes. ;) ;D ;D
Very true! I just learnt for a bit of fun, now hooked.
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An appropriate song ?...........
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wTZVSUNkWTg[/media]
:)
Nah....THIS ONE !!! :y http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cZcs4eLJ7EI&feature=related
..but fair doos, that's a cracking live version of "Here I go again" :y
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Most folk enjoy & need a marriage/relationship which is fine. Please understand that what you find close & comfy some of us (Myself & Tunnie) find claustrophobic, i've tried it a few times & it's too restrictive for me. After the loved up honeymoon period i feel really uncomfortable with domestic life & yearn for my own environment again. I still indulge in the occasional dalliance & in doing so have found many women are the same, it's not just a bloke thing.
Anyway i hope things work out, Guy. :y
With this month i've lived by my self for nine years & i too enjoy the peace & quiet it brings :) Now i feel the time's right for a change. In the nine years i have had relationships, but the right one to live with has never arrived :-/
Liz is quite special & one in a million (probably, because she's too old for the monthly NIGHT MARE [smiley=evil.gif] [smiley=evil.gif] [smiley=evil.gif] [smiley=evil.gif])
Hopefully next year i'll buy my own place :)
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Give her some breathing space
'dangle berries' to that.
I'd go & do the mother (and the sister if she has one), and then tell her that both were better in the sack than she was.
;D
KillerWatt I start to like your style ;D :y
Dont encourage him ffs. ::) ;D ;D ;D
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single for 7 yrs and wouldnt change it for anything. got tom here now, he keeps me company :y :y :y
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And when you start to feel bitter & angry about her..........
[media]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FCJ15r-ny5Q[/media]
8-) 8-) 8-) 8-)
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Give her some breathing space
'dangle berries' to that.
I'd go & do the mother (and the sister if she has one), and then tell her that both were better in the sack than she was.
;D
KillerWatt I start to like your style ;D :y
Dont encourage him ffs. ::) ;D ;D ;D
yesterday night when I read his post nearly I laughed for 20 minutes ;D ;D ;D still I laugh now.. Reason is in the past someone made me so angry I dreamed my self to do the same ;D ;D go on KillerWatt :y
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Give her some breathing space
'dangle berries' to that.
I'd go & do the mother (and the sister if she has one), and then tell her that both were better in the sack than she was.
However insensitive and inappropriate, that nearly made me spit my dinner ;D
That's another thing to throw at the bitch....you point out that she spits and her mother & sister swallow at the same time when you have them on a double act!
Whether it's true or not is neither here nor there, but a statement like that is guaranteed to give the bitch a complex ;D
Brilliant ;D ;D ;D ;D :y