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Title: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: nick v6 on 07 January 2010, 09:11:26
hi all sorry i aint been online for a bit
not sure if many of you know but me and ann have split up
she ended it on xmas day in front of the kids destroying there xmas

she is now out the house and living with her daughter but giving me a lot of hassle at the moment

1 being that she never picked her daughter up from school till late and i ended up getting a right telling off by social services saying i should of got her >:( >:(


anyway hope you are all well and having plenty of fun in this icey weather
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: VXL V6 on 07 January 2010, 09:15:57
Sorry to hear your news Nick, hope things get sorted out for you soon.



Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: Jimbob on 07 January 2010, 09:28:48
had a feeling we may see you back  :y
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: waspy on 07 January 2010, 09:33:02
I was thinking the other week that i hadn't seen you around.
Glad to see you back :y
Keep your chin up matey & all the best :) :) :)
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: nick v6 on 07 January 2010, 09:36:09
thanks guys :y
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: Dishevelled Den on 07 January 2010, 09:39:03
Great to see you back on again Nick. 8-)  I’m sorry to learn of your recent trouble - hope you are able to sort thing out with the least anguish. :y :y
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: nick v6 on 07 January 2010, 09:42:41
she made the mistake of going to the school this morning when it was shut
i made the phone call to see if it was open which she could of easily done

then decided to ring me shouting at me on the phone saying i gotta go and pick her up
i said no chance and put the phone back down ;D
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: Jimbob on 07 January 2010, 09:46:23
time to change your number ;)

dont see how the social can complain at you, the daughter is no longer anything to do with you!  make sure they and the school know it  :y
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: nick v6 on 07 January 2010, 09:52:16
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time to change your number ;)

dont see how the social can complain at you, the daughter is no longer anything to do with you!  make sure they and the school know it  :y

they said they had a go because she was left abandondand (if i spelt that right)

the school rang me and said
"i know its nothing to do with you but ann has not turned up to pick isabelle up, can you ring her as we have not got any contact details and find out where she is" so i said ok and i will ring you straight back

thats then when social rang me to have a go at me >:(
i told social if the school rang me and said " i know its nothing to do with you but ann has not picked izzy up can you come and get her" i would of said yes no problem give me 10 mins
but social was not having any of it >:( >:( >:(
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: Marks DTM Calib on 07 January 2010, 09:55:32
Very sorry to hear your news Nick, very heartless to end things on xmas day to.

As a bit of advice, make notes of all phone calls, incidents and names of all contacts for future use.  :y
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: nick v6 on 07 January 2010, 09:57:19
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Very sorry to hear your news Nick, very heartless to end things on xmas day to.

As a bit of advice, make notes of all phone calls, incidents and names of all contacts for future use.  :y
1 step ahead mate im doing all that :y
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: VXL V6 on 07 January 2010, 10:41:03
I would also get yourself down to a solicitor (1st hour free) and get a 'Clean break order' written ASAP.

Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: SP_3.2 on 07 January 2010, 11:41:18
Sorry to Hear that Nick hope things get better soon. Nice to have to back. 
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: LJay on 07 January 2010, 11:57:08
Hi nick, sorry things haven't worked out with you and Ann. :(
Hope the kids are doing ok.
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: nick v6 on 07 January 2010, 12:05:13
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Hi nick, sorry things haven't worked out with you and Ann. :(
Hope the kids are doing ok.
thanks ljay
the boys are ok here with me

Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: Welung666 on 07 January 2010, 12:15:06
Nice to see you back Nick :y You know where I am if you need me and there's always a cuppa waiting for you here mate ;) :y
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: LJay on 07 January 2010, 12:27:21
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Hi nick, sorry things haven't worked out with you and Ann. :(
Hope the kids are doing ok.
thanks ljay
the boys are ok here with me


Glad to hear it hun, hope they stay that way, poor loves! Chin up!
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: nick v6 on 07 January 2010, 12:29:01
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Nice to see you back Nick :y You know where I am if you need me and there's always a cuppa waiting for you here mate ;) :y

may just take you up on that mate very soon if thats ok :y
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: Welung666 on 07 January 2010, 12:34:35
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Nice to see you back Nick :y You know where I am if you need me and there's always a cuppa waiting for you here mate ;) :y

may just take you up on that mate very soon if thats ok :y

Anytime matey, just prank me and I'll call you back ;) :y
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: nick v6 on 07 January 2010, 12:37:26
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Nice to see you back Nick :y You know where I am if you need me and there's always a cuppa waiting for you here mate ;) :y

may just take you up on that mate very soon if thats ok :y

Anytime matey, just prank me and I'll call you back ;) :y

thanks for that ;)
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: TheBoy on 07 January 2010, 13:12:06
Xmas day :o :o :o

 >:(
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: nick v6 on 07 January 2010, 13:30:03
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Xmas day :o :o :o

 >:(

in front of the kids

completley wrecked there crimbo

i took the kids to vx1's for new years which was great
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: Mr Skrunts on 07 January 2010, 14:01:16
Hi Nick, nice to see you back on the OOF even though we have been chattin on FB.  :y :y

Some good advice here as allways, just be carefull (as I know you are) what you post in public.  ;)
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: nick v6 on 07 January 2010, 15:33:33
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Hi Nick, nice to see you back on the OOF even though we have been chattin on FB.  :y :y

Some good advice here as allways, just be carefull (as I know you are) what you post in public.  ;)

yeah im careful what i am saying on forums don't worry ;) :y

and yes your right always some good advice :y
thanks guys and gals :y
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: Lazydocker on 07 January 2010, 15:33:40
Sorry to hear that Nick... Hopefully things will now improve for you :( :( :y
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: maria on 07 January 2010, 15:58:50
Sorry to hear your bad news nick and to do it on xmas day in front of your kids, How could she be so spiteful to your kiddies and runnin there xmas day, not a good mum to do that, I'm sorry for being so harsh but its not fair to you and the children, she could of at least have done the spilt after Christmas at least and the kids could of had a good day , I hope you well and chin up, I have been there my self with two of my husbands doing the same thing and in time you will find the right one, I know i have now :y
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: webby23 on 07 January 2010, 16:54:26
Sorry to hear the news Nick, and as mentioned, what a shetty way for her to go about things....

Was in a very similar situation myself exactly 10 years ago, it almost destroyed me having to move out of the house where my (then 2 yr old) son was growing up........

Just keep the faith in yourself and your kids mate and best wishes from all of us here

 :y

Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: cem_devecioglu on 07 January 2010, 18:02:46
Welcome back mate :) good to see you here again :y

and ps: agreed Mr Skruntie..
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: sexydaz on 07 January 2010, 18:23:08
its never nice when a marriage breaks down even if its for the better cos one day there was something there to get married for and when kids are involved its heart wrenching,bloody hell crimbo day and in front of them way out of order hope yer get sorted and take all the advice yer can get cos when this happens women can become horrible creatures ive hjeard many a sad story
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: Debs. on 07 January 2010, 18:31:26
Chin up, Nick.......you and the tiddlers are in my thoughts and prayers. ;)
Title: Re: hi all sorry not been on for a bit
Post by: Lizzie_Zoom on 07 January 2010, 18:34:48
Oh dear Nick, I am so sorry to hear that! :'( :'( :'( :'(

Glad you are back on here amongst friends, but I hope your domestic situation quickly improves for the sake of the children.

I just cannot imagine how bad it was for you to happen on Christmas Day like that :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(