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Chat Area => General Discussion Area => Topic started by: Del Boy on 17 September 2010, 23:59:52
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Right this is a huge post and there is some bad language blanked out, but still advisable not to read if easily offended or kids are about.
Now me and my brother haven't spoken for years a good ten years I'd say, he's the worlds worse for gobbing off and having nothing to back it up with and I've given him countless beatings in the past for things that he has done, now to be honest we have just ignored each other and got on with our lives, until recently. Now being the stupid little prick he really is this is how things have been going. He got a 59 plate Peugeot 207 GTi on finance well actually his mrs which he is cheating on pays for it because he doesn't work and hardly ever has, he sits on the social pretends he has endless amounts of money but gets £47.50 a week. Anyway this car has obviously made him gods gift so he drives around like lord of the manor in this 207 GTi. I think oh well I'm sure I'll get over it, because he's told people that I'm jealous of him hence the reason for the fallout, not the reason at all and I can't really see what I'd be jealous about?
Anyway since he got this car or should I say his dopey mrs got this car back in September last year, everytime I've seen him he sits there staring, personally I think grow up, come and see me you've got something to say. Anyway good couple of months back he was staring and I was in a particularly bad mood at that precise moment in time so I thought I will say something as he was driving past, giving a bit of see you next Tuesday, so he slows give menthe wan**r sign, so being in the mood I was in I pulled over on a bypass lay-by got out the car and said let's have some, only for him to drive off as I was expecting anyway.
Next episode consists of him still looking for a good month or so, giving a bit of mouth every now and again, with me again ignoring him. Then comes me parking outside my mums house who comes down the road? You guessed right, yes. So there I am parking the BMW and he comes right close to the front of my car revving up, yet again I think what a kid grow up. Then I finish parking, get out he's up the road going into my sisters shop and shouts out wan*er, so I stand there and look at him, and start laughing he then goes well come on then, so I start walking towards him and say that's your lot idiot, so he runs in the shop, obviously not wanting to get my sisters shop a bad name I turn around a go indoors. He then rings my dad and says, "dad, Dels giving me a load of mouth" as luck would have it my dad was stood in the porch, so dad says to him "you started mate" phone went down instantly. His son then comes into my mums and says you've got anything to say to him go up there and say it, so I flew at him, only for him to bugger off too.
Then there comes today, driving home from McDonalds, see him coming in the opposite direction he's staring so I have a good stare back, he goes past so I look in my mirror and he's turning round, so I slow down so he can catch up, he races up my arse again on this bypass but at the the set of traffic lights, so I look in the mirror and he's waving a black metal baseball bat around, so I said as he was behind come here idiot and pointed next to me, he pulls up and says you want to carry on your mouth you idiot, so I had to him f**k you, you fat little wan*er I'll take you with or without a bat, so he leans over and starts pushing the bat in my window, so I'm just sitting there because I know he hasn't got the 'dangle berries' to hit me with the bat, by this time the lights are green cars behind are tooting and at this point I'm going mental then he smacks the bat on the back window of the beemer, so I said as there is a road opposite over there you wan*er this is getting sorted now!
Gets over the road, he stops, I stop about 3cm behind him, was thinking about ramming his shitter but thought why damage my car for that, anyway, I open the door get half out of the car and he does a U-turn and stops and the lights, I go to pull alongside and to be honest I was going to kick the shit out of him, but so I can't get alongside he swings his car in front of me, now we're back on the bypass he slows and gives it more mouth, so I say to him "follow me you idiot we're going somewhere to sort this where there are no witnesses" I said a lot more at this point but can't put it on here for some obvious reasons. Shocked that he's following me I look in my mirror and he looks sick, because he knows where I'm taking him a very, very quiet country lane. So we get near the turn off point and he shoots round the roundabout into a Tescos, so I pull up and sit in a lay-by, he then drives past a good 5 minutes later waving his hand saying come on, then I follow him again, then what conveniently happens 3 police Skodas are suddenly dotted all around me and they say come on mate go home and calm down. So off I went home, but I will cop him tomorrow.
Why the he'll do people, gob off, cause shit they can't handle then get a weapon out and when you don't back down they turn around and call the police? I've never known someone like it in my life. What happened to getting out of a car and having a proper fight, no weapons, just hands and then that's that, you then ignore each other. What happened to that?
Ok that's my huge rant over!
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He is playing you like a fish tbh Dell. Be the bigger man than he is and just totally ignore him. Unless he does something like damaging your property, then report him to the police.
Tbh it sounds like he is jealous of you. ;)
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Don't know why i bothered to read that or why I'm replying to this. But you're brothers and you're both behaving like that? What about the safety of other people on the road. I'd say stick the pair of you in the cells for the night and maybe a 28 day ban, who knows what the driving was like.
Why resort to violence? Any idiot can have a fight and confrontation is easy. It takes a bigger man to rise above others' stupidity.
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Don't know why i bothered to read that or why I'm replying to this. But you're brothers and you're both behaving like that? What about the safety of other people on the road. I'd say stick the pair of you in the cells for the night and maybe a 28 day ban, who knows what the driving was like.
Why resort to violence? Any idiot can have a fight and confrontation is easy. It takes a bigger man to rise above others' stupidity.
No dangerous driving involved on my part, where did I mention driving fast anyway? Other than racing up his arse which is on a quiet road anyway, I won't drive erratically because it draws attention to myself which is totally what I didn't want. Albs you're right mate thinking about it, but it's all on a spur of the moment thing >:(
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Is this Corrie or Eastenders ? ::)
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You pair are worse than my bloody toddlers....good god man grow up and ignore him.
I was waiting the Calm down clam down....
Its a simple case of my dicks bigger than yours...its simple too sort.
Do you guys live on a council estate by any chance...sounds very council estate too me.
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Don't know why i bothered to read that or why I'm replying to this. But you're brothers and you're both behaving like that? What about the safety of other people on the road. I'd say stick the pair of you in the cells for the night and maybe a 28 day ban, who knows what the driving was like.
Why resort to violence? Any idiot can have a fight and confrontation is easy. It takes a bigger man to rise above others' stupidity.
No dangerous driving involved on my part, where did I mention driving fast anyway? Other than racing up his arse which is on a quiet road anyway, I won't drive erratically because it draws attention to myself which is totally what I didn't want. Albs you're right mate thinking about it, but it's all on a spur of the moment thing >:(
I don't know, where did you mention you were driving fast? I can't see anything. Look mate you're trying to tell me your driving in this episode didn't fall below the standard expected of a good driver? I'd suggest exchanging threats at a set of green lights does that by itself.
You say 'other than driving up his arse which is on a quiet road anyway'. Bloody hell, remember that Omega vs BMW thread? You're not doing much to support your case! So that's alright then because it's on a quiet road? There's many people dead now because of attitudes like that.
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Don't know why i bothered to read that or why I'm replying to this. But you're brothers and you're both behaving like that? What about the safety of other people on the road. I'd say stick the pair of you in the cells for the night and maybe a 28 day ban, who knows what the driving was like.
Why resort to violence? Any idiot can have a fight and confrontation is easy. It takes a bigger man to rise above others' stupidity.
No dangerous driving involved on my part, where did I mention driving fast anyway? Other than racing up his arse which is on a quiet road anyway, I won't drive erratically because it draws attention to myself which is totally what I didn't want. Albs you're right mate thinking about it, but it's all on a spur of the moment thing >:(
I don't know, where did you mention you were driving fast? I can't see anything. Look mate you're trying to tell me your driving in this episode didn't fall below the standard expected of a good driver? I'd suggest exchanging threats at a set of green lights does that by itself.
You say 'other than driving up his arse which is on a quiet road anyway'. Bloody hell, remember that Omega vs BMW thread? You're not doing much to support your case! So that's alright then because it's on a quiet road? There's many people dead now because of attitudes like that.
And if I were in the Jag, the fiesta the ford ka or anything lurking that would've been different? How's about I say an empty road then nothing that would've endangered anyone else other than myself or him, how does that sound? Shame I didn't video it really would've seen the speedo not exceed any speed limits.
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Jag ? :-? Ah, got it. It's an episode from The Sweeney !! :y
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Jag ? :-? Ah, got it. It's an episode from The Sweeny !!! :y
It does sound like it to be honest ;D ;D
As with reference to the council estate, no I don't nor does he, but even if we did how would that make me different to anyone else?
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Don't know why i bothered to read that or why I'm replying to this. But you're brothers and you're both behaving like that? What about the safety of other people on the road. I'd say stick the pair of you in the cells for the night and maybe a 28 day ban, who knows what the driving was like.
Why resort to violence? Any idiot can have a fight and confrontation is easy. It takes a bigger man to rise above others' stupidity.
No dangerous driving involved on my part, where did I mention driving fast anyway? Other than racing up his arse which is on a quiet road anyway, I won't drive erratically because it draws attention to myself which is totally what I didn't want. Albs you're right mate thinking about it, but it's all on a spur of the moment thing >:(
I don't know, where did you mention you were driving fast? I can't see anything. Look mate you're trying to tell me your driving in this episode didn't fall below the standard expected of a good driver? I'd suggest exchanging threats at a set of green lights does that by itself.
You say 'other than driving up his arse which is on a quiet road anyway'. Bloody hell, remember that Omega vs BMW thread? You're not doing much to support your case! So that's alright then because it's on a quiet road? There's many people dead now because of attitudes like that.
And if I were in the Jag, the fiesta the ford ka or anything lurking that would've been different? How's about I say an empty road then nothing that would've endangered anyone else other than myself or him, how does that sound? Shame I didn't video it really would've seen the speedo not exceed any speed limits.
You've obviously not read my reply then or completely missed the point. I didn't say anything about speeding. You don't have to speed to be a sh*te driver.
But the point is you didn't say empty road, anyway even if it was empty, how long for? Until some innocent motorist comes along and has to suffer this idiotic behaviour! Even if it was empty, does that justify this behaviour?
Well that's all I've got to say on that. I've resigned myself to the fact that there are many lunatics on the road, and they can't be told, and seek to justify their selfish bad driving, and I've got to put up with it and pay higher insurance premiums because of it. Get a grip
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Jag ? :-? Ah, got it. It's an episode from The Sweeny !!! :y
It does sound like it to be honest ;D ;D
As with reference to the council estate, no I don't nor does he, but even if we did how would that make me different to anyone else?
Well sounds like something off shameless (Tv programme).
They live on a rough council estate...and from what you described well its rather Chav ish isnt it.
He stared at me i stared at him..i puffed out chest gold chain swing...he got his Amercian pit bull so i got my poodle.
He got his blade coz he was gonna slash me so i got my Oringinal 1987 Rambo knife with sewing kit and compass in handle and said im gonna cut ya....so he got back in his car and went and ragged his car round mccy d"s and like i then got called in for dinner coz mums well strict innit. ;D :y
Just teasing sweetie.... :-*
Best advice is stay away from him...your both equal in parents eyes,until one hurts the other.! :(
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Jag ? :-? Ah, got it. It's an episode from The Sweeny !!! :y
It does sound like it to be honest ;D ;D
As with reference to the council estate, no I don't nor does he, but even if we did how would that make me different to anyone else?
Well sounds like something off shameless (Tv programme).
They live on a rough council estate...and from what you described well its rather Chav ish isnt it.
He stared at me i stared at him..i puffed out chest gold chain swing...he got his Amercian pit bull so i got my poodle.
He got his blade coz he was gonna slash me so i got my Oringinal 1987 Rambo knife with sewing kit and compass in handle and said im gonna cut ya....so he got back in his car and went and ragged his car round mccy d"s and like i then got called in for dinner coz mums well strict innit. ;D :y
You'd probably know all about shameless ahahahaha ;D
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Jag ? :-? Ah, got it. It's an episode from The Sweeny !!! :y
It does sound like it to be honest ;D ;D
As with reference to the council estate, no I don't nor does he, but even if we did how would that make me different to anyone else?
Well sounds like something off shameless (Tv programme).
They live on a rough council estate...and from what you described well its rather Chav ish isnt it.
He stared at me i stared at him..i puffed out chest gold chain swing...he got his Amercian pit bull so i got my poodle.
He got his blade coz he was gonna slash me so i got my Oringinal 1987 Rambo knife with sewing kit and compass in handle and said im gonna cut ya....so he got back in his car and went and ragged his car round mccy d"s and like i then got called in for dinner coz mums well strict innit. ;D :y
You'd probably know all about shameless ahahahaha ;D
mate where ya think they got the insiration from.... ;D
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Jag ? :-? Ah, got it. It's an episode from The Sweeny !!! :y
It does sound like it to be honest ;D ;D
As with reference to the council estate, no I don't nor does he, but even if we did how would that make me different to anyone else?
Well sounds like something off shameless (Tv programme).
They live on a rough council estate...and from what you described well its rather Chav ish isnt it.
He stared at me i stared at him..i puffed out chest gold chain swing...he got his Amercian pit bull so i got my poodle.
He got his blade coz he was gonna slash me so i got my Oringinal 1987 Rambo knife with sewing kit and compass in handle and said im gonna cut ya....so he got back in his car and went and ragged his car round mccy d"s and like i then got called in for dinner coz mums well strict innit. ;D :y
Just teasing sweetie.... :-*
Best advice is stay away from him...your both equal in parents eyes,until one hurts the other.! :(
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cXpnUndjap4
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Just walk away and ignore him Del.
If he's the 'clever mother' you say he is, then he'll get his just desserts soon enough - someone else will probably do it anyway, saving you the effort.
Be the better man here - don't lower yourself to his level.
Not easy, granted - but you'll feel better in the long run mate.
Remember: What goes around comes around. Guaranteed! ;)
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So you beat the s**t out of him, sounds like he'll go straight to the police and do you like a kipper..
Easier said than done I know but you're both grown adults and have a responsibility to all around you including your son to behave as such, so ignore the name-calling and show your brother up for the childish tosser that he is, you don't have to react by name-calling back. If you saw two adults behaving like this on the street, what would you think?
If it really is a problem, you don't have to resort to violence these days, things are not the same as they used to be. Get him locked up for the night for harrassment, you've got more to lose than him I reckon
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he's a nobody with no job and no respect, he has nothing to lose, even the car isnt his
he wants you to initiate it all so that when the cops are involved, you'll lose out big time
easier said than done but dont rise to him, dont even humour him
he'll trip himself up one day
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Also bear in mind that if you have an accident and are deemed to be involved in a 'road rage' incident, it's most likely you'll find yourself not covered.
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jump his mrs then send him the photos!!!!
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jump his mrs then send him the photos!!!!
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jump his mrs then send him the photos!!!!
Why didn't I think of that ;D ;D
Great idea
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Del Boy you need to read back through your OP but only looking at each action that you took & intuition will tell you why this situation can't be resolved this way... this sounds very much like 2 peas in a pod! You both employ the same coping mechanisms (not good). Forget the bat, even if you have proper fight will he change? will you? what are you going to prove. What if you KO him and he cracks his head open on the pavement (seen it happen) brain damage, coma or death... Is it worth it? Pride & Ego seem to be the biggest factors in both your mind sets (no offence) Don't matter who's the hardest there's always someone harder ;)
Let it go Del & don't bite the bait... every time he acts the goat just say "grow up" in the most condesceding tone possible and walk off. He can think what he wants, call you a p*ssy or whatever, does it matter? do you need his admiration? When you really know you can take care of yourself you've nothing to prove... 100% inner confidence, thats why they say watch out for the quiet one's 8-)
Just so you don't think I'm naive, I used to get in street fights in my early 20's and worked the doors at a travellers club, I've had my jaw broken (obviously) good left hook ;D but never made any enemies... one reason, I never had an attitude or acted hard. Benefits of not trying to impress anyone... One friday the regulars suggest I'm not to work the following weekend, no reason given but I'm no fool. So I take the night off & 3 pickups carrying many of the community ram the doors and all the bouncers that gob off and cause trouble end up in hospital ::)
Sounds cliche but "violence breeds violence" is always true... ALWAYS :y
p.s. KG if you're reading this, I didn't know what was gonna go off that night, you were meant to be in the office mate. Naughty, naughty manager checking out the totty at the door... I've always had your back no matter what!
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Next week on Jeremy Kyle ...............
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Smile nicely at him, and in a quiet voice tell him......
"your time will come, and I'm a patient man................."
then turn around and walk away a better person.
(and then when he least expects it................................)