After having to buy a strap wrench for my first oil change after the previous owner had had his air-gun on it I've never had an issue. Never torque it though. You can see when it nicks up.
I got a little blue one that bluetooths to my phone and I run it with Torque. Works very well. £15 from a well known online book store. Small enough that I can run the car with it in and the fuse-panel shut.