OK, hand up time - reason for no immobiliser signal was no earth to the immobiliser unit
With that fixed, I get a solid light to the ECU lamp but the bugger still won't start
Run a quick paperclip test and showed 31 and 144 - 31 sort of is normal for a V6 (correct?) and 144 is a legacy code from the immobiliser issue I think.
Fuel pump - should it have a priming pulse when you turn the ignition on, or does it wait for a signal from the crank sensor to fire it? Trying to work 3 handed, I didn't see many volts on the wire to the pump (pump works if shoved straight onto a battery live). Have swapped relays but not managed to get any further. How susceptible to low battery voltage (I'm currently trying to run it off a set of jump leads) are these? When cranking, the ignition light is dimming and the ECU light goes out (or very dim) - something tells me this isn't quite right!