When i was a kid my mother used to ask what i was saving my pockect money for. and if it was an expensive item she would offer to match the amount i save pound for pound. but this only happened once.
i got my first mobile phone at 17 1/2 when i joined the royal navy.
I brought and paid for my own car and lessons. my old dears have never really brought me anything big. even now they dont give us anything big i have always had to work for what i have got.
this is how i am with my son. if he wants something he has to really want it and even then he has to contribute ( feww little jobs for me) and be good. Hes only 3 and i have just made him wait 1 month for a toy that hes been going on about for the last 2mths but he has earnt it. bless him now for the next challenge with him. mmmmmmmm havent decided what yet but im sure he will understand when hes older why i am like i am.
I would love to give him everything he wants but unfortunatly i dont seem to be able to get the tree outside to grow money.

and it wouldnt teach him anything.
Last week he was in tears because he broke something (think it was a toy) but i told him i couldnt replace it cos i had no money too. so he promptly ran upstairs and grabbed his money box. and gave it to me to pay for a new one. he knows things cost money just has no concept of how meny pennies he needs.