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Richie London

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friends nan who died and home help.
« on: 24 March 2010, 09:43:39 »

friends nan died sunday as i said. went there yesterday to help clear the house out to go back to council. i have never seen so many dead mice or droppings in my life, poor old woman was in her 80s and the home help in my opinion should be ashamed of themselves. she had been laying dead for 2 days as when they went round friday to see here, they couldnt get in but noticed her asleep in her chair so they left her. next day stil in her chair same position. did it not occur to them that something was wrong and call the family to let them in. was so sad to see how she has lived in the last few weeks of her life.

would you believe the council turned up for the stuff they give her. comode and other stuff, they even took the bed which had mould and mouse droppings on it, bloke said they would clean it up and give it to someone else. absolutely shocking
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Re: friends nan who died and home help.
« Reply #1 on: 24 March 2010, 12:03:18 »

Disgusting, should be reported to local councillor at least, if not council ombudsman.
And not a moment should be wasted, some other poor pensioner could be sleeping on that bed by weeks end.
I, personally would be on the phone to my councillor straight away, and asking about WHY the home help did NOTHING. :'( :'( :'( :'(
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« Reply #2 on: 24 March 2010, 13:28:45 »

I would also send a copy of all correspondence to your/their local MP. That is just scandalous. >:(

Best wishes to their family.
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Re: friends nan who died and home help.
« Reply #3 on: 24 March 2010, 15:18:58 »

makes you wonder how many more people are like it. not that anyone really cares i'd presume
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Re: friends nan who died and home help.
« Reply #4 on: 24 March 2010, 15:28:32 »

Words fail me.

(if  was in that position someone would pay dearly.)
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Re: friends nan who died and home help.
« Reply #5 on: 24 March 2010, 18:43:50 »

Families need to agree to contact vulnerable family members on daily basis and inspect property as often as possible. We do this with both sets of parents all now in their 80s and making use of care services.

One problem I have noticed with ours is that they minimise the issues saying oh don't bother I can deal with it when in fact they cannot. Neverthless regarding clear problems like mice droppings etc there is no excuse for social not reporting on it as a matter of urgency. Agree investigation required.
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« Reply #6 on: 24 March 2010, 19:38:13 »

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Families need to agree to contact vulnerable family members on daily basis and inspect property as often as possible. We do this with both sets of parents all now in their 80s and making use of care services.

One problem I have noticed with ours is that they minimise the issues saying oh don't bother I can deal with it when in fact they cannot. Neverthless regarding clear problems like mice droppings etc there is no excuse for social not reporting on it as a matter of urgency. Agree investigation required.


there is going to be an inquest into her death as far as im aware, she was discharged from hospital thurs and friend said its the 2nd time shes been in hospital last couple of weeks. when she was found her body was purple and blue.
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Re: friends nan who died and home help.
« Reply #7 on: 24 March 2010, 19:42:50 »

There will be a discharge sheet and hospital are supposed to ensure  that person discharged has necessary support at home.
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Re: friends nan who died and home help.
« Reply #8 on: 24 March 2010, 19:42:55 »

In that case both home care and the hospital need looking into and hope the results shame them in the press.
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« Reply #9 on: 24 March 2010, 20:01:41 »

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In that case both home care and the hospital need looking into and hope the results shame them in the press.


dont know what shes doing yet   

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