A bit of a fiddle but managed to access the tabs inside the door securing the connector block. Made easier by removing the plate for the airbag crash sensor for light and mirror access to see what I was doing! Released the harness/ loom tabs for some slack and managed to withdraw the connector and turn it through 90° to clean it.
Dispite the green electrical corrosion, found one of the pins was so fragile, I could virtually blow on it and it would bend as it was corroded at its base.
So cleaning it wasn't going to do much good

Managed to clean the plug ok with the Deoxit D5 (really good stuff - thanks cam.in.head for recommending!)
So......has anyone got a good used front passenger (UK) door harness / loom - GM part no. 9146837 (Opel 6299287) ident . A2J that they would be willing to sell ??
Has to be for electric memory seats according to EPC, for models Y100001 on, so Elites...
I'll put a post up in Wanted as well.
As an option, has anyone had any luck replacing single pins in a connector block like these (sorry, can't post a pic) - I have the brand new door loom that I acquired yesterday from an earlier Omega that could be cannibised if need be...?