Hmmm. This is a very interesting thread so I think I will share this with you. In a previous life I was like a lot of you until one day I landed a 4 year contract in Zambia [Sub Saharan Africa]. I left the wife sitting a home in the UK and duly trotted of to that vast continent. After a couple of months and a lot of soul searching I met and fell in love with a young Zambian lady.
[now the interesting part] The black Zambian project manager and the white (ex-army) British project manager contrived to remove me from the project. Both insisted it was for my benefit and my removal was not a racist act. That was in 2001, I left my first wife of 28 years and set up home with my young Zambian beauty who is 25 years my junior. We now have 3 wonderful children from our first six years together. In all this time I've noticed her colour every day as she has a bueatiful light brown colour [almost like Caramac, if you remember that] and she radiates.
Trouble is, I'm now having a 'man moment' and can't remember where I was going with this ....... Ah yes! I also live in a street where the inhabitants are diverse. [the point] I was in a neighbours house a year or so ago and there was a disaster out in India or Pakistan being shown on the telly. I said "are you from out there, or are your roots Asian?". His response was "My roots maybe, but I was born & bred in Bradford", to which I replied "Ah, you're English then!". He then looked quizicle towards me and after a few elapsed seconds retorted "Nah, I'm a muslim". We then had a lengthy discussion about nationality and religion, but he confirmed that he was muslim first, Asian second and British third.
Now I am just totally confused, don't give a sh!t and generally try to keep myself to myself and enjoy my family and I am very happy.
Oh, and last Saturday serek a member of this forum who is Polish changed my Cam Cover gaskets, plugs etc etc, what a super bloke with a great sense of humour.
Its still an interesting post. Thanks
