Thanks for the kind offers of help everyone, but I think decision time has come.
I have just got the miggy back from the local indy garage, and they have confirmed that it is actually the port side (passenger side) head gasket which is bulging out and leaking coolant to the outside world; although the oil remains perfectly clean, and the engine seems to run as well as it ever has done.
They say the starboard side head gasket is doing the same thing, but not as badly.
Looking underneath the plenum from the front of the engine (using a torch) I can see pink staining from the antifreeze along the port side cylinder block.
They have added a professional quality leak sealer to the cooling system (like Rad Weld but better they tell me) to see if that solves the problem for now.
So, the plan is that my wife will continue to use the car for now, and we will see what happens over the next few weeks. I think I am unlikely to pay the going rate for a new head gasket to be fitted (quoted price around £850), and I don’t really have the time or inclination to do the job myself these days. (At one time I wouldn’t have thought twice about it, but that was before the days of Torx fasteners and ECUs). :-/
That being the case I might just revert to Plan A, and offer the old girl for sale to someone here in Omegaland who can nurse her back to health.

NN
