Gave up it won't budge, just changed the oil for now. Will have to look into a way of getting the cap off.
I've recently had the exact same problem, ( 2003 2.6 motor as well). The following is how I did mine.....
With the front of the car up on axle stands, (and the rear well chocked), turn the steering either full left or full right, (sorry, cant remember which one it was). This will give you just that few extra mm in which to be able to turn your breaker bar without it hitting the steering arms.
First off try an impact socket (24mm?), as I found that the 12 sided regular sockets just kept on slipping.
With mine the impact socket still wouldn't budge the bloody thing, so I then just used the 1/2" square drive part of my breaker bar into the square hole in the canister cap and pulled with all my might.
This managed to break the canister cap clean in two;

It is then possible to 'just' get an angle grinder in there and start to cut away the damage canister and cap bit by bit. Be very very carefull doing this, as you really don't want to drop the angle grinder on your chest!
Once the cap of the canister is removed, you can then pull out the old filter element and undo the hex bolt that hold the canister to the engine block. From there just follow the guide on the 'How to convert your oil filter'. The hex drive that you will need to remove the canister from the block is a 12mm hex.
Another option, (and perhaps easier) would be to try using one of these;
http://www.machinemart.co.uk/shop/product/details/oil-filter-wrench-set-cup-style-15-pieceIn regards to the fuel filter, make sure that you also buy the little plastic 'end clips' that fit over the fuel lines and clip over the ends of the fuel filter. Make sure to take note in which direction the old fuel filter fits, and make a note on the new fuel filter with marker pen, (the differences are subtle, especially when your under the car getting covered in fuel).
I tried using normal pliers as suggested in the OOF guide, but failed to remove the old filter and started to badly chew up the fuel lines.
Instead I would strongly suggest investing in a set of these;
http://www.machinemart.co.uk/shop/product/details/cht441-3pce-fuel-line-disconnect-set it will make the job so very much easier!
Hope this helps?