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[psl]

I bet he wouldnt think the same if it was revessed and you were the one with the pictures

[cem_devecioglu]

actually theres no complete recipe for these kind of problems..

depends on the persons and the balance point of relation..

[HolyCount]

OK -- when a man is caught in a lie  - even in a lie that was blurted out without thought -- he will find it very difficult to back down. Look at the guys on Jeremy Kyle prog and such like -- they even deny the lie detector evidence!
He will keep digging his hole ... and digging .. and digging .....

Best thing to do is try to talk calmly together ---- no accusations or ultimatums. You love each other, try to talk it through.

However .......  this woman who sent the pics ..... she is after him -- not the other way around. Even if his intentions are to remain faithful to you, his male ego will bask in the thought that women are interested in him and he will enjoy the attention. Us guys are wired that way I am afraid. Doesn't mean he will go off the rails tho !

In my experience there are three rules to a great relationship:

1) Communicate
2) Communicate
3) the wife is always right !

[FRE07962128]

ok so i did the confrontation thing and got the "stop being so stupid, you have nothing to worry about" then when we talked about it later he just changed the subject.

this is the first problem i 5 years i have ever had!

First problem you KNOW about?

May be it is a first and last fling to test the water outside of marriage.

Lizzie Zoom

[phil her up]

Little things like this can sometimes lead to more serious mistrust that never completly goes away, your hubby proberbly thinks theres no point in discussing it with you fearing a row over nothing

[Marie]

OK -- when a man is caught in a lie  - even in a lie that was blurted out without thought -- he will find it very difficult to back down. Look at the guys on Jeremy Kyle prog and such like -- they even deny the lie detector evidence!
He will keep digging his hole ... and digging .. and digging .....

Best thing to do is try to talk calmly together ---- no accusations or ultimatums. You love each other, try to talk it through.

However .......  this woman who sent the pics ..... she is after him -- not the other way around. Even if his intentions are to remain faithful to you, his male ego will bask in the thought that women are interested in him and he will enjoy the attention. Us guys are wired that way I am afraid. Doesn't mean he will go off the rails tho !

In my experience there are three rules to a great relationship:

1) Communicate
2) Communicate
3) the wife is always right !

Nail in the coffin!

i have just talked to him yet again and told him my concerns and the fact that she is far to close to home then i would like.

we have had a good chat yet still he dont admit hes been cought out.

it must be a man thing. hey oh well.....she is after him and not the other way round.

What gets me is she knows that he married yet still sends him these pics! why bl00dy birds

[Albatross]

Difficult one. I think advice given to keep this off-line is good and I'm staying out of this.

[waspy]

OK -- when a man is caught in a lie  - even in a lie that was blurted out without thought -- he will find it very difficult to back down. Look at the guys on Jeremy Kyle prog and such like -- they even deny the lie detector evidence!
He will keep digging his hole ... and digging .. and digging .....

Best thing to do is try to talk calmly together ---- no accusations or ultimatums. You love each other, try to talk it through.

However .......  this woman who sent the pics ..... she is after him -- not the other way around. Even if his intentions are to remain faithful to you, his male ego will bask in the thought that women are interested in him and he will enjoy the attention. Us guys are wired that way I am afraid. Doesn't mean he will go off the rails tho !

In my experience there are three rules to a great relationship:

1) Communicate
2) Communicate
3) the wife is always right !

Very true & very wise words  

[phil her up]

It's a question of balance , so all the guys on the forum will be sending you some pics of themselves soon .sorted

[HolyCount]

It's a question of balance , so all the guys on the forum will be sending you some pics of themselves soon .sorted

Now come on ... we don't want to give the lass nightmares !!!!

[Marie]

It's a question of balance , so all the guys on the forum will be sending you some pics of themselves soon .sorted

wicked you first!!!

[Marie]

It's a question of balance , so all the guys on the forum will be sending you some pics of themselves soon .sorted

Now come on ... we don't want to give the lass nightmares !!!!

unless you look like the clown from IT i wont get nightamares

[HolyCount]

It's a question of balance , so all the guys on the forum will be sending you some pics of themselves soon .sorted

Now come on ... we don't want to give the lass nightmares !!!!

unless you look like the clown from IT i wont get nightamares

You've already seen me ?!!!!

[Dazzler]

Has he ever read your threads on here Marie???

[Marie]

It's a question of balance , so all the guys on the forum will be sending you some pics of themselves soon .sorted

Now come on ... we don't want to give the lass nightmares !!!!

unless you look like the clown from IT i wont get nightamares

You've already seen me ?!!!!

arse!!! lmfao

well fellas my party guest have arrived so ill catch you ron