Welcome to the forum. 
Your English is far better than our collective French 
Fuse 12 covers the alarm, & as the siren is known to be a problem I'd suggest removing it & see what happens. On a right hand drive car it lives under the scuttle panel on OUR driver's side.
The side light fault could be, as you say, part of the problem. Check all lamp holders for a good connection.
(When he says pikey hook, he means a tow bar ......
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Hi Andy B
Thanks for the reply.
I will try removing the siren, even though I dont really use it yet (i think i need to lock it twice so that the light of the alarm stays on saying its enabled), i will still give it a try just to be sure.
I also noticed just now after driving it, that when i put the car in rear gear, the rear fog light comes on as well ...

It looks like there might be a couple of electrical issues here and i'm not really an electrician.
I'll change the bulbs, check their seatings and holders for a good connection and see how it goes, but just in case that doesn't fix the problem, has anyone got any experience with trying to find what exactly is drawing current from the battery when the cars turned off ?
i got me a copy of TIS2000 running off a virtual machine and I have the corresponding diagrams where it says that fuse 12 (20A) on this car is linked to :
- diagnostic link (i presume thts the odb2 port)
- hazard warning switch
- Instrument (that one I am not sure what they mean by Instruments....)
- Electronic climate control
- TID or MID or GID or CID (I have the CID, which as I said isnt working (white screen, i think it needs a new lcd panel but i rather focus on something else for the time being))
- Anti Theft Warning system (And as you said I will try removing the siren)
- Radio (I have the ndc2013)
- Carphone (which I dont seem to have, although there seems to be some cable with what appears to be a microphone hanging off the top of the driver's sun visor/vanity mirror)
- gps (the car has it, but i can't even use the screen because the lcd is dead and it's totally outdated anyways i guess)
- navigation system (is that redundant with gps or is it another thing i am not sure.)
- telephone (is this redundant with carphone i am not sure ?)
- telematic (i dont have it and it is not fitted)
- y25dt (thats not my engine so thats not present)
- central door locking
- phone/voice control (not sure what that is... )
so as you can see, thats really a lot of places to look.
has anyone got any clues on how I can check each items of the list ?
Say for example I want to check if the leak is coming from the electronic climate control, how could I know where exactly to put the multimeter nodes on ?