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[JueV6]

This is Jue's other half (on a lappy in a hotel and its so slow if I tried to log out and on in my name wd not be ready to post til morning lol).  Definitely remember that she's a human being just the same as u.., try and be curious about what sort of human being she is and concentrate on having a good laugh.  Don't worry about what may happen (cause lets face it what usually happens is everything but what u expect so expectations and planning is a waste of time lol).., just enjoy it for an evening out and have fun!

[Richie London]

to be honest i am looking forward to it, we do get on very well and have a lot in common, must remember not to talk about golf or football, i need an update on eastenders, coronation st, hollyoaks and home and away. i cant imagine myself sitting watching that load of craap  

[Lizzie_Zoom]

Nah -- go on out -- you might enjoy !!!!

thats what im hoping for    im starting to miss a womans company to be honest. been seperated 6 yrs now. just dont fancy losing another house and ending up homeless again, think thats my prob, after 1 break up and losing the lot, it happening again.

Just think Richard of how nervous she is feeling, and she may have as much, if not more, to lose than you!

Such meetings should not be just about how the man feels.

Have a really good time!

So any tips LZ?? I totally agree. But a female prespective is always useful to a man. (I know I could have done with it!)

Yes, she will want reassurance and a man who appears confident in himself, but not arrogant.  She and he should both try and put each other at ease, with straight forward "chat", nothing too heavy, no inuendo of a sexual nature, just nice friendly, reassuring chat.

The man, and 'modern' woman, should not push anything too hard, or give warning signals out constantly that they are afraid of being left in a unhappy place 'like last time', recalling losses!!  

Most woman that I know, including me, wants to be 'comforted' and led by the man, with full, maybe old fashioned, genuine courtesy and pampering.  The right woman will respond accordingly, but if she, and he, don't hit it off then it should be treated as just a good night out until good byes!

My advice based on my experience of course, in an imperfect world, which BOTH parties should remember, but which should suit most situations.

[psychnurse]

to be honest i am looking forward to it, we do get on very well and have a lot in common, must remember not to talk about golf or football, i need an update on eastenders, coronation st, hollyoaks and home and away. i cant imagine myself sitting watching that load of craap  

Nowt wrong with the soaps matey... Real drama  

[psychnurse]

Nah -- go on out -- you might enjoy !!!!

thats what im hoping for    im starting to miss a womans company to be honest. been seperated 6 yrs now. just dont fancy losing another house and ending up homeless again, think thats my prob, after 1 break up and losing the lot, it happening again.

Just think Richard of how nervous she is feeling, and she may have as much, if not more, to lose than you!

Such meetings should not be just about how the man feels.

Have a really good time!

So any tips LZ?? I totally agree. But a female prespective is always useful to a man. (I know I could have done with it!)

Yes, she will want reassurance and a man who appears confident in himself, but not arrogant.  She and he should both try and put each other at ease, with straight forward "chat", nothing too heavy, no inuendo of a sexual nature, just nice friendly, reassuring chat.

The man, and 'modern' woman, should not push anything too hard, or give warning signals out constantly that they are afraid of being left in a unhappy place 'like last time', recalling losses!!  

Most woman that I know, including me, wants to be 'comforted' and led by the man, with full, maybe old fashioned, genuine courtesy and pampering.  The right woman will respond accordingly, but if she, and he, don't hit it off then it should be treated as just a good night out until good byes!

My advice based on my experience of course, in an imperfect world, which BOTH parties should remember, but which should suit most situations.

Right!! I am off to the pub LOL  

Seriously... good adive LZ  

[gwa]

and she cant stand golf or football. i could be fighting a losing battle here i think. shall i just go and hope i get the ride or blow her out before  i go, make an excuse??? got 2 hrs to decide what to do  :-? :-?

Tell her you hate golf and football and really love being in the kitchen doing dishes, cooking, washing etc. That being the case she should buy all the beer and pay for the taxi home, if she says NO you have a simple choice: tell her you lied to see her reaction or pi$$off. If she says OK, have good night but her your mates mobile number at the end  

[Richie London]

well thanks everyone, im off now to pick her up. irts gonna be the best kfc shes ever had  

[Martin_1962]

to be honest i am looking forward to it, we do get on very well and have a lot in common, must remember not to talk about golf or football, i need an update on eastenders, coronation st, hollyoaks and home and away. i cant imagine myself sitting watching that load of craap  

Easy

The Cybermen have invaded (asks Sue) Albert Square and the Doctor is chasing them with a sonic screwdriver.

(Remembers something about Craig Charles), Craig Charles character orders a beer milkshake and has a curry for breakfast, a robot is seen cleaning everything with a dodgoly attached vacuum cleaner attachment

Did you know that Hollyhocks are biennial?

(Aussie) err they have been watching the Bathurst 1000 and then Max Rockatansky turns up in his Ford Falcon Interceptor

Hope this helps

[Dusty]

Nah -- go on out -- you might enjoy !!!!

thats what im hoping for    im starting to miss a womans company to be honest. been seperated 6 yrs now. just dont fancy losing another house and ending up homeless again, think thats my prob, after 1 break up and losing the lot, it happening again.

Just think Richard of how nervous she is feeling, and she may have as much, if not more, to lose than you!

Such meetings should not be just about how the man feels.

Have a really good time!

So any tips LZ?? I totally agree. But a female prespective is always useful to a man. (I know I could have done with it!)

Yes, she will want reassurance and a man who appears confident in himself, but not arrogant.  She and he should both try and put each other at ease, with straight forward "chat", nothing too heavy, no inuendo of a sexual nature, just nice friendly, reassuring chat.

The man, and 'modern' woman, should not push anything too hard, or give warning signals out constantly that they are afraid of being left in a unhappy place 'like last time', recalling losses!!  

Most woman that I know, including me, wants to be 'comforted' and led by the man, with full, maybe old fashioned, genuine courtesy and pampering.  The right woman will respond accordingly, but if she, and he, don't hit it off then it should be treated as just a good night out until good byes!

My advice based on my experience of course, in an imperfect world, which BOTH parties should remember, but which should suit most situations.

[/highlight]

Very sound advice Lizzie.
I feel that few men fully understand what a woman is looking for,or how they feel.
Some men seem to try to hard..or come across as arrogant instead of confident.

[albitz]

just ask the question - do you opps on first dates.
this approach has served me well
Ive been spat at and slapped
Ive been kneed in the knackers
But then,Ive had a few oppss as well.
 

[gsdtrainer]

absolutely, mine cant stand rugby or sailing (although I am working on the latter) and we've been married 3 years  

My missus can't stand me and we've been married 38 years            Kidding,she loves me really

[Mr Skrunts]

Nah -- go on out -- you might enjoy !!!!

thats what im hoping for    im starting to miss a womans company to be honest. been seperated 6 yrs now. just dont fancy losing another house and ending up homeless again, think thats my prob, after 1 break up and losing the lot, it happening again.

Just think Richard of how nervous she is feeling, and she may have as much, if not more, to lose than you!

Such meetings should not be just about how the man feels.

Have a really good time!

So any tips LZ?? I totally agree. But a female prespective is always useful to a man. (I know I could have done with it!)

Yes, she will want reassurance and a man who appears confident in himself, but not arrogant.  She and he should both try and put each other at ease, with straight forward "chat", nothing too heavy, no inuendo of a sexual nature, just nice friendly, reassuring chat.

The man, and 'modern' woman, should not push anything too hard, or give warning signals out constantly that they are afraid of being left in a unhappy place 'like last time', recalling losses!!  

Most woman that I know, including me, wants to be 'comforted' and led by the man, with full, maybe old fashioned, genuine courtesy and pampering.  The right woman will respond accordingly, but if she, and he, don't hit it off then it should be treated as just a good night out until good byes!

My advice based on my experience of course, in an imperfect world, which BOTH parties should remember, but which should suit most situations.

[/highlight]

Very sound advice Lizzie.
I feel that few men fully understand what a woman is looking for,or how they feel.
Some men seem to try to hard..or come across as arrogant instead of confident.

Flipping heck, wonder why I am still single then.



Ah, just remembered, women tell me I only have 2 faults. but wont go there.


Just remember after the date, if ever you take her home, just hide the blow up sheep. :-/

[Vamps]

Nah -- go on out -- you might enjoy !!!!

thats what im hoping for    im starting to miss a womans company to be honest. been seperated 6 yrs now. just dont fancy losing another house and ending up homeless again, think thats my prob, after 1 break up and losing the lot, it happening again.

Just think Richard of how nervous she is feeling, and she may have as much, if not more, to lose than you!

Such meetings should not be just about how the man feels.

Have a really good time!

So any tips LZ?? I totally agree. But a female prespective is always useful to a man. (I know I could have done with it!)

Yes, she will want reassurance and a man who appears confident in himself, but not arrogant.  She and he should both try and put each other at ease, with straight forward "chat", nothing too heavy, no inuendo of a sexual nature, just nice friendly, reassuring chat.

The man, and 'modern' woman, should not push anything too hard, or give warning signals out constantly that they are afraid of being left in a unhappy place 'like last time', recalling losses!!  

Most woman that I know, including me, wants to be 'comforted' and led by the man, with full, maybe old fashioned, genuine courtesy and pampering.  The right woman will respond accordingly, but if she, and he, don't hit it off then it should be treated as just a good night out until good byes!

My advice based on my experience of course, in an imperfect world, which BOTH parties should remember, but which should suit most situations.

[/highlight]

Very sound advice Lizzie.
I feel that few men fully understand what a woman is looking for,or how they feel.
Some men seem to try to hard..or come across as arrogant instead of confident.

Flipping heck, wonder why I am still single then.



Ah, just remembered, women tell me I only have 2 faults. but wont go there.


Just remember after the date, if ever you take her home, just hide the blow up sheep. :-/

[Kevin Wood]

Tell her you hate golf and football and really love being in the kitchen doing dishes, cooking, washing etc. That being the case she should buy all the beer and pay for the taxi home, if she says NO you have a simple choice: tell her you lied to see her reaction or pi$$off. If she says OK, have good night but her your mates mobile number at the end  

Funnily enough, the first time Mrs. KW and I met up, we ended up chatting for so long that before we knew it all the food outlets had closed so we ended up cooking an absolutely fantastic ruby murray together.

On the second date I took her out in the Westfield, and that didn't scare her off, so she kinda became a permanent fixture after that.

Kevin

[Field Marshal Dr. Opti]

Nah -- go on out -- you might enjoy !!!!

thats what im hoping for    im starting to miss a womans company to be honest. been seperated 6 yrs now. just dont fancy losing another house and ending up homeless again, think thats my prob, after 1 break up and losing the lot, it happening again.

Just think Richard of how nervous she is feeling, and she may have as much, if not more, to lose than you!

Such meetings should not be just about how the man feels.

Have a really good time!

So any tips LZ?? I totally agree. But a female prespective is always useful to a man. (I know I could have done with it!)

Yes, she will want reassurance and a man who appears confident in himself, but not arrogant.  She and he should both try and put each other at ease, with straight forward "chat", nothing too heavy, no inuendo of a sexual nature, just nice friendly, reassuring chat.

The man, and 'modern' woman, should not push anything too hard, or give warning signals out constantly that they are afraid of being left in a unhappy place 'like last time', recalling losses!!  

Most woman that I know, including me, wants to be 'comforted' and led by the man, with full, maybe old fashioned, genuine courtesy and pampering.  The right woman will respond accordingly, but if she, and he, don't hit it off then it should be treated as just a good night out until good byes!

My advice based on my experience of course, in an imperfect world, which BOTH parties should remember, but which should suit most situations.

[/highlight]

Very sound advice Lizzie.
I feel that few men fully understand what a woman is looking for,or how they feel.
Some men seem to try to hard..or come across as arrogant instead of confident.

Flipping heck, wonder why I am still single then.



Ah, just remembered, women tell me I only have 2 faults. but wont go there.


usJt remember after the date, if ever you take her home, just hide the blow up sheep. :-/

You mean that women are not turned on by  blow-up cattle.......and there was me thinking.................