Maybe saying 'in the loop' is the wrong phrase - although there was clearly a loop there, even if it was just the admins involved (as TB said somewhere, it was all orchestrated among them).. it just seemed that some people took it all as good fun and therefore didn't mind when the mickey was taken or they were on the receiving end of barbed responses; but others didn't take it as well and yet folks kept pointing the barbed responses at them..
I tend to think that if someone is obviously sore about something you stop poking them about it - a bit like a scab, or you'll just end up with a scar
Maybe I'm overly sensitive when it comes to piss taking - having said that I do plenty of it myself, I'm just careful about who I take the piss out of.. probably because I ended up on the receiving end of so much of it (and it wasn't always good natured!) when younger. Which I suppose everyone gets - I just took it worse than others
(For example, I wouldn't take the piss out of TB ... because he'd steal my post count
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Anyway, what's done is done - I wish LZ well as I'm sure most do, and life goes on