I have also cleaned out the breathers and idle control valve, i did the throttle body too, as i read on here about idling probs, on of the breathers to the rocker cover had gone all mushy, so i replaced that too, before it would not idle at all, used to cut out at junctions and lights, but now its alot better, but not steady, you think it could be down to the tappet noise, it is quite heavy. The car itself runs well, pulls like a train, no smoke, or rattles, has a bit of a petrol smell in the cab sometimes after running for a while, then stopping at junctions, I posted re this on here, got some response, like checking fuel pipes and rails for leaks, checked the little valve thing under the tyre valve cap, this is all ok. but hey, i am not a quitter, i will get it working. lol.
If i get the newer one, i will still keep this one, and as i said before, let her indoors have it, she has a Calibra at the mo, but getting the car seat in and out the back seats is becoming a chore.
Thanks for all your help so far, Mark.