There's a hell of a lot of pressure in the expansion bottle. Even when cold. Is this normal???
In a word, no. Before ours got replaced (HG) it used to retain pressure overnight, and when up-to-temp the rad hoses were waaaay hard. After new gasket fitted, no pressure in exp tank once engine is cool, and nice squeezable hoses at op temp. Have you looked down the plug-holes yet?
Temp stays down if the blower is left on (hot or cold) as then the rear fan is perm running.
I don't understand the interaction between rad fan and blower motor, but I've seen that there is such a link in the wiring diagrams once (complex mass of relays and schizzle in these cars), and wondered what it was all about TBH. Just tried ours, and from cold the rad fan (ours only has the rear one) doesn't come on with the blower motor. Ours is the basest of base models though, so may not have quite so many relays/interactions :-/
I would guess that your overheating is down to quantity of coolant lost/remaining. As the volume of coolant goes down, temps are sure to increase.