Adding another personal similar incident.
My little brother used to cycle to work.
One day, several years ago, he (for still unknown reason) did not stop at T junction. The inevitable accident actually wrote off the car, and nearly killed my brother - even now, some 30+ yrs later, he still carries the scars. It really was touch and go for days.
The driver wasn't in the wrong, was he (though he may have been speeding possibly, but that was not the cause of the accident according to the police)? And his car was written off. His insurance company chased my brother for the money (and strangely, this was covered by our house insurance somehow :-/).
Had the driver killed my brother, and as I said, it really was touch and go for days, would we have blamed the driver?
Yes if things had have been different yes I think you would have blamed the driver.
But was the driver of the car blamed for being on the phone whilst driving, leaning over to get another cd out of the glovebox, leaning over to pick something off the floor that has dropped off the passenger seat...
No! so the driver maybe swerved or did something to stop your brother from dying that day because he had his eyes on the road..
My dad parked his car off the road and on some grass outside a mates house, while he was in the house he saw a Land Rover Disco ram into the back of his car.
The little girl in the back said to her Grandad " I told you not to play with the radio grandad!"
What I am trying to say is he was caught out not watchin what he was doing, as was this women, both didn't have their eyes on the road....
we all do things at certain times that are daft and are lucky to get away with them....
No the cyclist was wrong in going through a redlight, but top and tail of it is the driver was caught using the phone, not having her eyes on the road.