Right, think I understand, however, the inbuilt prewiring in the car does not support Telematics, that requires some extra lines not present on the prewiring plug. If you wanted to add those extra lines (listed on one of my posts above) then I guess you could as there's plenty of blank spaces on the prewiring socket.
The Telemute / Autoleads adaptor with the matching transformers does not cure the impedance issue when a Telematics is introduced to another phone, they are there to ensure that the Bose amp doesn't make a bid for Bose heaven (supposedly) - or as Autoleads put it 'to save issues with Bose'. The Jury is still out as to wether they are really required. On factory fitted Telematics installations we believe there is an impedance matching device somewhere (shown on TIS diagrams), the circuit TB made up equates to the same solution.
Simplest solution to the MIC issue is to use the correct MIC for telematics in the courtesy lamp and the supplied kit MIC for the car kit.
Remember also that Telematics is paired with the HU and Screen and therefore I think the HU may get a little upset if it's not present 100% of the time.