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[Crazydad]

Said with feeling   .....are you suffering, Paul?  :-?

Suffering?? Confusion yes! lol

lets just say... friends of 10 years, had a few 'things' but she's involved with someone else... and last night between us just made things complicated yet again  

Wish i could 'complicate' things with a friend of mine of 5 years, if you know what i mean  

There`s an old saying:
Never take a friend to bed; `lest you awake with regrets and sadness, to have lost a friend!  

Sometimes friendship turns into love

Sex is not always the first reason to jump into bed with a friend.

[TheBoy]

Said with feeling   .....are you suffering, Paul?  :-?

Suffering?? Confusion yes! lol

lets just say... friends of 10 years, had a few 'things' but she's involved with someone else... and last night between us just made things complicated yet again  

Wish i could 'complicate' things with a friend of mine of 5 years, if you know what i mean  

There`s an old saying:
Never take a friend to bed; `lest you awake with regrets and sadness, to have lost a friend!  

My father had a similar saying. Obviously being my father, bless him, it was much ruder, and had the any port in a storm mentality

[Debs.]

Sex is not always the first reason to jump into bed with a friend.

Ahhhh!,
The kaleidoscope of hue that makes-up the human relational condition;

You`re right Crazydad, friendships may meld into one of genuine love, sometimes sex and love may stay poles-apart, or gain synergy.....but, a sexual relationship seldom survives the journey back into one of 'just' friendship.  

[PaulW]

Said with feeling   .....are you suffering, Paul?  :-?

Suffering?? Confusion yes! lol

lets just say... friends of 10 years, had a few 'things' but she's involved with someone else... and last night between us just made things complicated yet again  

Wish i could 'complicate' things with a friend of mine of 5 years, if you know what i mean  

There`s an old saying:
Never take a friend to bed; `lest you awake with regrets and sadness, to have lost a friend!  

ahh but we've never had any regrets, and still extremely close friends!

and its not actually about sex... thats the thing!

[Marie]

As enticing as it may be, pull the yellows and blacks (as in get the f£$" out) before one or both get hurt.

If shes involved with someone else she is just using you whenever she needs for either making up for what her fella doesnt give her that you can provide, or to help her feel better about herself when things go bad with the fella.

Get out you deserve better!  

Ask Marie, Maria or Debs if they have any single sisters you would be hard pressed to do better. ( still waiting for the cheques girls   )

i have two sisters one is 2 yrs younger and is stunning ( no i dont have any pictures) she is getting married next year. and the other is 7yrs younger spit of me but 6ft tall, she is with someone but is a total nob!

[Dave-C]

A good mate of mine got married, they'd got a beautiful house prior to the wedlock and been together for 5 years...  She'd been seeing someone else for 9 months before they got wed... they split up 6 monthts after..  she was only in it for Mexico!!!!!

He's now met a lovely, calm, intelegent, professional career girl...  she's great and he deserves  her...

It all comes to he who waits...

DC

[Crazydad]

Sex is not always the first reason to jump into bed with a friend.

Ahhhh!,
The kaleidoscope of hue that makes-up the human relational condition;

You`re right Crazydad, friendships may meld into one of genuine love, sometimes sex and love may stay poles-apart, or gain synergy.....but, a sexual relationship seldom survives the journey back into one of 'just' friendship.  

Yes i agree with you, your quote is a wise one, its not often that two people are both able to treat each other as if nothing has happened.
i have luckily never been in such a position, i tend to, not let my friends into my bed

[amigov6]

I've had a couple of women who were only friends. I should'nt use the word "only" because that belittles the closeness. We were both single parents but basically we never did the "Wild Thing" During our friendship we each went out with other people but our time together was spent getting drunk/stoned, cooking dinners & laughing. She was very pretty & very tactile. We never got past a kiss & cuddle, then she died young. I've got a few keepsakes which i'll keep forever but now i'm glad we never got it on. I loved her in a different way because we slept with everyone except eachother. Her name was Lizzie & her funeral was packed.
     The other girl is thankfully still alive so i won't name her. Similar story but we "did" just a few times over one week but things were never the same after, it spoiled it.
     To sum up, i'm devoutly single & content but as a bloke female friends & sleeping partners don't mix so tread carefully.

[Debs.]

A good mate of mine got married, they'd got a beautiful house prior to the wedlock and been together for 5 years...  She'd been seeing someone else for 9 months before they got wed... they split up 6 monthts after..  she was only in it for Mexico!!!!!

  Disgusting!.

.....but TBH, I`m hardly ever surprised by what 'people' will do to others these days; something has gone very wrong with our society; amorality, selfishness, willful-cruelty, ego-centricity, lack of respect for others.....I`d better stop; the full-list would be very lengthy!  

[Debs.]

I've had a couple of women who were only friends. I should'nt use the word "only" because that belittles the closeness. We were both single parents but basically we never did the "Wild Thing" During our friendship we each went out with other people but our time together was spent getting drunk/stoned, cooking dinners & laughing. She was very pretty & very tactile. We never got past a kiss & cuddle, then she died young. I've got a few keepsakes which i'll keep forever but now i'm glad we never got it on. I loved her in a different way because we slept with everyone except eachother. Her name was Lizzie & her funeral was packed.
     The other girl is thankfully still alive so i won't name her. Similar story but we "did" just a few times over one week but things were never the same after, it spoiled it.
     To sum up, i'm devoutly single & content but as a bloke female friends & sleeping partners don't mix so tread carefully.

.........

[Dave-C]

A good mate of mine got married, they'd got a beautiful house prior to the wedlock and been together for 5 years...  She'd been seeing someone else for 9 months before they got wed... they split up 6 monthts after..  she was only in it for Mexico!!!!!

  Disgusting!.

.....but TBH, I`m hardly ever surprised by what 'people' will do to others these days; something has gone very wrong with our society; amorality, selfishness, willful-cruelty, ego-centricity, lack of respect for others.....I`d better stop; the full-list would be very lengthy!  

 

[Crazydad]

A good mate of mine got married, they'd got a beautiful house prior to the wedlock and been together for 5 years...  She'd been seeing someone else for 9 months before they got wed... they split up 6 monthts after..  she was only in it for Mexico!!!!!

  Disgusting!.

.....but TBH, I`m hardly ever surprised by what 'people' will do to others these days; something has gone very wrong with our society; amorality, selfishness, willful-cruelty, ego-centricity, lack of respect for others.....I`d better stop; the full-list would be very lengthy!  

Christ Debs, you have been around the wrong people :-/ :-/

[Vamps]

A good mate of mine got married, they'd got a beautiful house prior to the wedlock and been together for 5 years...  She'd been seeing someone else for 9 months before they got wed... they split up 6 monthts after..  she was only in it for Mexico!!!!!

  Disgusting!.

.....but TBH, I`m hardly ever surprised by what 'people' will do to others these days; something has gone very wrong with our society; amorality, selfishness, willful-cruelty, ego-centricity, lack of respect for others.....I`d better stop; the full-list would be very lengthy!  

Christ Debs, you have been around the wrong people :-/ :-/

That's why she became an oofer.  

[Crazydad]

A good mate of mine got married, they'd got a beautiful house prior to the wedlock and been together for 5 years...  She'd been seeing someone else for 9 months before they got wed... they split up 6 monthts after..  she was only in it for Mexico!!!!!

  Disgusting!.

.....but TBH, I`m hardly ever surprised by what 'people' will do to others these days; something has gone very wrong with our society; amorality, selfishness, willful-cruelty, ego-centricity, lack of respect for others.....I`d better stop; the full-list would be very lengthy!  

Christ Debs, you have been around the wrong people :-/ :-/

That's why she became an oofer.  

LMAO good one  

[Dave-C]

A good mate of mine got married, they'd got a beautiful house prior to the wedlock and been together for 5 years...  She'd been seeing someone else for 9 months before they got wed... they split up 6 monthts after..  she was only in it for Mexico!!!!!

  Disgusting!.

.....but TBH, I`m hardly ever surprised by what 'people' will do to others these days; something has gone very wrong with our society; amorality, selfishness, willful-cruelty, ego-centricity, lack of respect for others.....I`d better stop; the full-list would be very lengthy!  

Christ Debs, you have been around the wrong people :-/ :-/

That's why she became an oofer.  

You're not wrong there mate