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[hercules]

lass at work went to her friends house with the boyfriend at the weekend and had to use her spare key to get in the house,her boyfriend found the body and her dog had eaten her face,she never saw it as he marched her out of the house but he had to let go this morning and he told her what hed seen,all that was left was a bit of hair and her skull.poor lads taken it hard as you would but he did spare her from seeing it.weird

[Lazydocker]

Had to see some pretty horrific things myself in the past, as have many other members

It's tough to deal with but you have to find a way. The lad did the right thing... I wouldn't let my Mrs walk in on a sight like that

He needs to go to his GP and seek some counselling

[hercules]

i told her that today and have the police to him,its not something you bottle up and ignore no matter how tough you are

[Gaffers]

Agreed, you have to be a pretty sick bastard (like me) not to be affected by such stuff.  However, after a while there is a point where you become numb to such stuff.......

The GP is the first point of call when seeking the proper counselling for this sort of thing, do not let him bottle it up.  Even if it is just one session he must go and see them.

[Lazydocker]

Agreed, you have to be a pretty sick bastard (like me) not to be affected by such stuff.  However, after a while there is a point where you become numb to such stuff.......

The GP is the first point of call when seeking the proper counselling for this sort of thing, do not let him bottle it up.  Even if it is just one session he must go and see them.

Not sick - I'd be in that category too if that were the case - just, as you rightly say, numb to it You find a way to cope with it. Mine is through humour, some most of which wouldn't be appreciated by people who have never had to experience that sort of thing

[hotel21]

Situations like this can spoil your day, thats for sure, and in extreme cases, put you off your cornflakes.

I have lots of wee boxes where such things are stored in the back of my mind and now and again, they do come to the surface.  And that can only be a good thing, but thats how I learnt to deal with it.   If you do not have a thick, well seasoned skin then counselling is definately a viable option, if only this one time to see how such counselling agrees with you - or not, as the case may be.  Each to their own.

[Jusme]

I found out the truth in LD's post. You find a way to cope with it. Mine is through humour, some most of which wouldn't be appreciated by people who have never had to experience that sort of thing Many years ago working as a press photographer I went to the scene of a particularly nasty RTA. We waited hours while ambulance staff located and retrieved body parts. I couldn't believe it when a gang of coppers stood around joking and laughing, so I went and voiced my contempt. A wise and calm Inspector took me aside and said. 'Lad, my blokes have to deal with things like this every day, believe me they are all hurting, but what you have witnessed help.....To keep them sane'. My tail between my legs, I shuffled off and apologised..