there is no reasonable way to implement a rule that makes people let things slide.... and really THAT is what's needed.
essentially, people wanting to have the last word is what makes forum "incidents" blow up out of all proportion...
it happens, there's little we can ever do about it, other than maybe gently hold the mirror of ridicule up to those involved a little....
sadly, even this is fraught with the potential to cause more fracas.
I've elsewhere been through all sorts of permutations of "no politics, no religion, no sex, no blah" , and even got to the point of removing the off topic section altogether.... (and although meant for a few weeks, ended up being several years, after the management could not agree how to implement one that would not fall foul of the same thing. )
activity levels, are seasonal , and cyclic, although with any forum based on the need to learn things, and a finite number of people needing that aspect, there will eventually be a saturation point, we're probably approaching it here, especially as the number of miggys still on the road begins to dwindle...
that implies , an eventual "heat death" scenario... and as the long term prognosis , this is almost inevitable .
however, while we as a community continue to interact, the forum will remain a viable entity...
I don't think you need to fix the forum Jaime. it works as it is..... , although i'm of the opinion that politics is a fair game , especially in the current socioeconomic situation....
just within fairly sensible "guidelines" and some kind of three strike thread locking rule.....
it would be nice if there was some kind of consistent self moderation of people's sense of humour....
rules like.... "if you wouldn't say or show this to your wife, or in front of your kids, probably best leave it out here as well" leave room for plenty of maneuver, and interpretation..... but give the idea of some decorum being required....
but, require someone to pony up and enforce them, and i'm very grateful to the entire team here that they do so even handedly, and with some levity... the whole post count modification thing, for example, i thought was great..... for those of us watching perhaps more than those of us getting slammed.... but that's just me....
consider this place a pub, one should be able to have a laugh with one's mates..... but within limits.....