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feeutfo

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Re: Looks like the nurse was found hanged
« Reply #15 on: 13 December 2012, 21:56:26 »

Desperately sad, but no job is worth taking that seriously that the consequences can't be lived with.

Irispinsible behaviour only became so AFTER the poor lady took her own life. And I doubt anyone would have foreseen this, or anything remotely similar.

Being honest, ok, harshly honest, I can't help but wonder if there where other issues, more serious issues, going on in the back ground.
Just a personal view. ...and probably one that doesn't take in all the facts.

Desperately sad, for all concerned, including the DJ's.

In "our" eyes perhaps .. but this lady was Asian, from the Indian Sub-continent, and AFAIK from the "Northern" part of India.

The culture there is vastly different to ours, and "pride" and "honour" seem to mean a great deal more to them than us at times.

Look at the families who kill their own children/wives/husbands when they think the "family" has been dishonoured ...

Now, please don't think I condone such activities, I certainly do not ... I merely use them to show how, if this poor woman thought she had either dishonoured her family, or the Royal Family, or herself, then given her culture, she may have been so distraught that she saw this as the only solution.

Far too many folks, everywhere, seem to judge everyone by a set of standards that don't apply half the time... be it western culture, different era's, or just sometimes different upbringing....

Whatever happened to respecting diversity ??

whisch is precisely what i meant here;

"Being honest, ok, harshly honest, I can't help but wonder if there where other issues, more serious issues, going on in the back ground.
Just a personal view. ...and probably one that doesn't take in all the facts."

but that might be unfair to mention without any" factual evidence", there may be depression issues or lord knows what else, that contributed.

It cirtainly seems an excessive response, you have to agree there surely? bless her. :(
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Re: Looks like the nurse was found hanged
« Reply #16 on: 13 December 2012, 22:33:43 »

Whatever happened to respecting diversity ??

As said, it was a cultural thing.
Just because the poor Nurse didn't react in the same way as we (in the West) might, then there must have been 'something wrong' with her...
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feeutfo

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Re: Looks like the nurse was found hanged
« Reply #17 on: 13 December 2012, 22:38:13 »

Whatever happened to respecting diversity ??

As said, it was a cultural thing.
Just because the poor Nurse didn't react in the same way as we (in the West) might, then there must have been 'something wrong' with her...
maybe we dont undrstand the factual point, and the meaning of unknown back ground issues?

point is we, sitting here dont know, do we? :-\
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Re: Looks like the nurse was found hanged
« Reply #18 on: 14 December 2012, 08:24:44 »

Without, I hope, detracting from the tragedy of this series of events...

Surely taking ones own life brings a sense of helpless shame on any surviving family/friends/colleagues all of whom can't possibly have forseen her reaction to the situation that the poor lass found herself in.

Without the full facts being made public, and I don't think they should be, we can only surmise as to what might have being going through her mind.

Tragic as this has been, we will never know why she chose this course of action.

Time for us to let her rest in peace.
« Last Edit: 14 December 2012, 08:26:26 by ex taxi al »
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Re: Looks like the nurse was found hanged
« Reply #19 on: 14 December 2012, 08:56:47 »

Without, I hope, detracting from the tragedy of this series of events...

Surely taking ones own life brings a sense of helpless shame on any surviving family/friends/colleagues all of whom can't possibly have forseen her reaction to the situation that the poor lass found herself in.

Without the full facts being made public, and I don't think they should be, we can only surmise as to what might have being going through her mind.

Tragic as this has been, we will never know why she chose this course of action.

Time for us to let her rest in peace.

Hear Hear  :(
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