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« on: 26 March 2008, 12:53:27 »

ok so i have serval things going on at the mo:

1. Hubby is away so i am home alone with the son in the week and jase is back on the weekend. this is not so bad when the child goes to bed on time! but no when jase is away shane does nothin but play up.

2. With shane playing up i am unable to study properly for my exams. ok i have one tomorrow and i am praying that he gives a clue today what to expect in the exam.

3. In may i might loose loose my job and be booted out the royal navy cos they damaged my hearing and now i have tinnitus which plays up in the cold and wind. i can do my job buty its whether they want to keep me.

4. The car keeps playin up and i am threaders with it. and its costing me a fortune. i know i spent money for a lpg conversion but its going to save me money next year after i have recoupped the cost of it.

5. I am so tired its untrue i have shopping bags under my eyes. i hardly have any time to chill out its untrue. its also making me short tempered and patentless which i feel really bad when i snap at my son.

i am finding things so hard at the mo. i know i am run down cos i am letting the small things get to me.

I AM STRESSED :'( :'( :'(
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Feel loads better for spillin my guts out to you guys and gals  :)

Thankyou.
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Re: Stress
« Reply #1 on: 26 March 2008, 12:58:20 »

treat youself to a glass of plonk, you're not driving anywhere. pointless revising until lit'lun goes to bed...
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« Reply #2 on: 26 March 2008, 13:01:55 »

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treat youself to a glass of plonk, you're not driving anywhere. pointless revising until lit'lun goes to bed...

it was 2230 last night before he attually stopped going up and down the stairs. :'( :'(

i have no wine might have to go straight on the hard stuff! ;D
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Re: Stress
« Reply #3 on: 26 March 2008, 13:46:40 »

Good luck for your exam :y,as for your Omega i'm pretty sure she'll be back to her best soon,is there any members nearby who'd be willing to paperclip it
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« Reply #4 on: 26 March 2008, 14:06:44 »

chill baby !!!! parts in post today !!! run the little one ragged then he will sleep !!! or pop some of the hard stuff in his bedtime drink ! ;D ;D
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« Reply #5 on: 26 March 2008, 17:09:52 »

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Good luck for your exam :y,as for your Omega i'm pretty sure she'll be back to her best soon,is there any members nearby who'd be willing to paperclip it

i wonder is there??????
would someone help me out please
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Re: Stress
« Reply #6 on: 26 March 2008, 17:17:14 »

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ok so i have serval things going on at the mo:

1. Hubby is away so i am home alone with the son in the week and jase is back on the weekend. this is not so bad when the child goes to bed on time! but no when jase is away shane does nothin but play up.

2. With shane playing up i am unable to study properly for my exams. ok i have one tomorrow and i am praying that he gives a clue today what to expect in the exam.

3. In may i might loose loose my job and be booted out the royal navy cos they damaged my hearing and now i have tinnitus which plays up in the cold and wind. i can do my job buty its whether they want to keep me.

4. The car keeps playin up and i am threaders with it. and its costing me a fortune. i know i spent money for a lpg conversion but its going to save me money next year after i have recoupped the cost of it.

5. I am so tired its untrue i have shopping bags under my eyes. i hardly have any time to chill out its untrue. its also making me short tempered and patentless which i feel really bad when i snap at my son.

i am finding things so hard at the mo. i know i am run down cos i am letting the small things get to me.

I AM STRESSED :'( :'( :'(
but
Feel loads better for spillin my guts out to you guys and gals  :)

Thankyou.

Do they not have an equivalent to the Army's 'Fit For Role' when basically a doctor recognises you have a medical problem, whether it was the MOD's fault or not, but you can do the job you're doing without it getting worse.  What with the tri-service harmenisation going on I am sure they must have something.  Do you have Navy lawyers you can speak to?

At the very worst they kick you out with a load of cash, you buy a better Omega, take a holiday and go work for a garage or engineering company  :y
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« Reply #7 on: 26 March 2008, 17:28:26 »

ook i am rock bottom now........


hubby has just has a go at me. about the car

he has only ever made me cry twice and now is one of them
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« Reply #8 on: 26 March 2008, 17:30:53 »

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ook i am rock bottom now........


hubby has just has a go at me. about the car

he has only ever made me cry twice and now is one of them
Why whats he saying about the car then???
Will he not do a paperclip test for you as its not that hard?????
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« Reply #9 on: 26 March 2008, 17:35:00 »

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ook i am rock bottom now........


hubby has just has a go at me. about the car

he has only ever made me cry twice and now is one of them
Why whats he saying about the car then???
Will he not do a paperclip test for you as its not that hard?????


That just it he doesnt have a clue when it comes to cars.

He can smell burnin oil.......i beleive its the cam covers which i plan to do.

The gearbox breather has fallen down today.

The eml is still on.....which i told him it would be.
he told me hes had enough with the car.

dazzler i have PM'd you.
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Re: Stress
« Reply #10 on: 26 March 2008, 17:42:04 »

Here's a big hug from all of us...
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« Reply #11 on: 26 March 2008, 17:48:50 »

Marie -- I know what it''s like when the littl'un plays up -- but it WILL pass. Take every chance you can to rest up when he slows down!!!!

As for the job .... the Navy has invested heavily in you and your training to date -- they will not throw that away lightly.

As for the car ... hmmm .. just looking bad cos you are low.  

And you can always vent your spleen here .... and resist the temptation to tell hubby what to do with the paperclip !!!!!  ::)
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« Reply #12 on: 26 March 2008, 19:25:37 »

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Marie -- I know what it''s like when the littl'un plays up -- but it WILL pass. Take every chance you can to rest up when he slows down!!!!

hes gone to bed hes watchin a dvd so here is hoping he dont come back down stairs
As for the job .... the Navy has invested heavily in you and your training to date -- they will not throw that away lightly.

Yep your right they are so short at the moment of people of my trade every one is leaving.
As for the car ... hmmm .. just looking bad cos you are low.

 yep your right here too. its fix able i hope
And you can always vent your spleen here .... and resist the temptation to tell hubby what to do with the paperclip !!!!!  ::)

As for the hubby well if he thinks he can get the car home then ok fine. but i have told him not to mank and moan at me if it dont and if he has to get towed back then tuff.
Sick of it Its not my rather fault the motor is playin up. if he was here ohhhhhhhh >:( >:( >:( (not going to say it.)

oh and smile while you can i dont normally admit that your right! and im wrong;D ;D ;D ;D
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Re: Stress
« Reply #13 on: 26 March 2008, 19:51:04 »

Well, the car can be sorted so try not to worry about it.

If the breather has fallen down that might just explain the fluid leakage. A certain amount of fluid will be thrown up the breather when running and if it doesn't end high enough it will escape. :-/ Even if the box has to come off, we can sort it, and the cam covers too if necessary. It might put the LPG plans on the back burner for a while but it will get sorted.

I know how frustrating it is when you spend a lot of time on a job and it goes pear shaped due to a small detail. It's even worse when your other half appears to run out of support for your efforts but you come out of it wiser in the end and better perpared to tackle the next project.

Ickle people aren't really my forte, however. :-/

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« Reply #14 on: 26 March 2008, 19:59:40 »

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Well, the car can be sorted so try not to worry about it.

If the breather has fallen down that might just explain the fluid leakage. A certain amount of fluid will be thrown up the breather when running and if it doesn't end high enough it will escape. :-/ Even if the box has to come off, we can sort it, and the cam covers too if necessary. It might put the LPG plans on the back burner for a while but it will get sorted.

I know how frustrating it is when you spend a lot of time on a job and it goes pear shaped due to a small detail. It's even worse when your other half appears to run out of support for your efforts but you come out of it wiser in the end and better perpared to tackle the next project.

Ickle people aren't really my forte, however. :-/

Kevin

anrt mine ether when hes playin up............i have not heard a peep outa him in an hour

might have to go check hes still alive.
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