thanks for your replies, its strange this is the second solicitor we have had and they always say this is not a quick fix, and will take months! we have all the evidence, we have been told to carry on with our build, right up to her box, you can take that any way you want!

. we have a retired barrister coming to our house on monday who has dealt with boundary disputes, and i still blame the council for passing her second plans. how do we get this notice put into action, because she plotting all the time, i sent council chap round and told him to say i would help with her, whoever she had to remove it, her reply was, he had better not touch my roof/guttering! makes me sick to the stomach because it on my bloody property, wifey has contacted MP again and has had a reply from council, just waiting to hear what shite they have made up to cover themselves, we have even considered taking our build down, but then she has totally won, it really a kind of bullying, the wife has had to stay well away in case her fist goes crazy. thanks marie for your advice, do you mean i write a polite letter and post it or solicitor?
