The vehicle is prewired for the trailer indication but it left the factory without the lamp in the instrument cluster and with a standard flasher relay.
If you remove the instrument cluster and hold it up to the light you will find that one of the unpopulated spaces has an orange symbol that looks a bit like a swan neck towbar (if you squint). Fit indicator lamp in this space.
The indicator relay is in the fuse box under the steering column. The quickest way to find it is to turn the indicators on and follow the clicking noise.......... It took me a little while to find a suitable replacement, (I should have bought the reassuringly expensive genuine relay that AndyC tracked down for me but I knew that I could get a cheap one from a motor factors

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The heavy duty relay has an extra pin which connects to the lamp in the dashboard, it works by sensing the current to the indicators. Normally there are two 21w bulbs (plus one 5w side repeater). When you connect the trailer that adds another 21w bulb. The first relay I tried was too sensitive & lit the indicator without the trailer plugged in (I don't think it was expecting the side repeater) but the motor factor had another rumage and found one that worked correctly.
