Drug taking is a selfish activity; the user doesn`t seem to care for the consequences for themselves (and others) and especially-so for the one`s that care about them.
Coke is serious.....it`s not a "take it once in a while for fun" thing.
It`s miserable and sordid and ruins relationships, health, wealth and friendships.....for the 'fiscal and interpersonal cost' and life-consequences I cannot see a single redeeming aspect to the use of so-called 'hard drugs'.
It need not mean the end of your relationship; but surely if the partnership is to survive the drugs must surely go.
.....and there`s only one person whom is in charge of that decision!
I`d imagine peer-pressure may have a part to play in your partner`s casual
Coke use; often in a group people feel pressured and later explain away their actions with salving excuses. ("It keeps me sober etc.")
Have you talked through your negative-feelings about the 'issue' with her?.....Sometimes users just can`t see the real situation and how it affects others.
