PAS 24 has taken over from secure by design.
Basically it means a man with a crow bar hammering at it for 30 mins cannot get in. Different PAS ratings for severity and length of attack.
24 is the highest rating
BS are mainly for the plastic manufacture and finish etc, some are just 'codes of practice' and just thrown in there by the salesman trying to make it look good. For instance BS952 relates to optical quiality of glass!
You can call their bluff and ask to see the test report confirming it meests BS7950 (enhanced security of windows and doors) - wait for the WTF look and some quick excuses!!
Glass will be standard DG unit, Argon filling is an inert gas and supposedly you will get better thermal efficiency, as will coated glass. Coating location is important
28mm is standard DG thickness, generally for domestic use 6mm inner and outer with a 16mm air space
End of the day the DG unit will be either float, laminate float, laminate tougned or toughed glass and they all 'perform' pretty much the same.
Location will define what type of glass
If its toughned make sure its heast soak tested (HST) as this will remove the chance of breakage due to nickel sulphide inclusions, reduces from 1 in 100 to 1 in 10000, or something like that, and make sure its kite marked.
Ask for silicone sealed units not polysulphide
Self cleaning glass is not worth paying for. In 10 years I've never seen it perform any different to 'normal' glass.
Each supplier will tell you their white plastic does not go yellow with age like everyone else's does but with modern plastics thats balls.
If its an aluminium frame window or door then find out who the system manufacturer are. If its Schuco its expensive but very good, Reynaers is middle of the road and Metal technology is on the cheaper end of the market but all perform well. Others will be Comar or Kawneer. The extrusion will be owned by someone!
If its aluminium check the PPC guarantee
In all fairness if its multi point locking and the company you are buying off have been around for more than 10 minutes you might as well ignore the hype and go for the cheapest option!!